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How I Knew I Chose the Right One

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It’s dark and late, so late I don’t even hear the Clydesdales clopping anymore.

Ambling down Bourbon Street barefoot, I admire my OPI Red pedicure, although surely it will soon be coated with dirt.

Blissfully drunk, my shoulders bump into my friends beside me. I laugh, and so do they.

I walk on my tiptoes like I did when I was little, dangling my strappy sandals by my side.

I’m not typically shoe-less on Bourbon Street, but it’s the night before my wedding and I’m allowed.

Floating along, oblivious, not even sure where the hotel is, just following the feet in front of me.

My belly sloshes, full of too many bright-red, sticky sweet hurricanes. Orange slices teetering on the edge of the glass and Maraschino cherries stabbed on a tiny plastic sword.

Pat O’s serves them in a tall glass I get to take home with me. I save it and fill it with trinkets and Mardi Gras beads, a plastic flower from the St. Patrick’s Day parade last year.

It gathers dust sitting on my bookshelf with so many other memories.

The sweetest memory though? Is finally making our way to our hotel on Canal Street. Hubs walks me to my room, and although we’re not sharing it tonight, he offers to come in and help me wash my feet before we go our separate ways.

He fills the tub with a bit of warm water and bubble bath and helps me sit on the edge of the tub.

“We’re getting married tomorrow,” I say to the man who leans over, gently wiping my dirty feet with a washcloth.

He looks up at me and smiles. “I know,” he says, even as the bath water turns brown and grit settles at the bottom.

I love him. For this and ten thousand other reasons.

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midnightbliss 5 pts

i love your story. oftentimes its those simple gestures that touch us the most.

Lagean 5 pts

What a difference finding 'The One' makes. My Sweetie is absolutely remarkable, good times and bad.

Glad you found your true love.

KMayer 5 pts

I think I love him too!

Kathykate (p/t copywriter, f/t mom)

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erin margolin 5 pts

Thanks so much, Melanie! Yes, it's been awhile since I had a hurricane...but I remember them fondly (mostly!). Thanks for coming by!

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erin margolin 5 pts

Thank you so much, Katie! Thrilled that you stopped by and that you love the new site. Have a wonderful weekend!

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erin margolin 5 pts

And I love that you came by twice to read it!!! ;-) thank you, sweetie!

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erin margolin 5 pts

Thank you, sweet Lady! So thrilled you stopped by to read!

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erin margolin 5 pts

Thank you, Natalie! I'm so pleased you came by and that you enjoyed this! ;-)

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erin margolin 5 pts

So happy you came by, Andrea! Thank you for doing that. Your visits mean a lot to me. Happy weekend!

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erin margolin 5 pts

Oh man! I am bummed the tweet button wasn't working, but it still got tweeted (of course I tweeted my own horn, LOL). I'm just thrilled to be able to say I've been syndicated. Thanks so much for stopping by!

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erin margolin 5 pts

Clearly you need a New Orleans Adjustment, Jana!!! It is such a great city and the food is fantastic. I hope you can go sometime! Thanks for reading my post!

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Jana Llewellyn 5 pts

What a beautiful post. Sounds so romantic. I really need to get my butt to New Orleans.

Jana Llewellyn tries to make the best of modern motherhood on her blog, An Attitude Adjustment. ( http://anattitudeadjustment.com ) She also teaches English part-time at her local community college.

Lady Jennie 5 pts

and beautifully worded. I tried to tweet this twice but it didn't work - I wonder if that is why it hasn't been tweeted yet.

ace1028 5 pts

Beautiful post and beautiful memories shared from a beautiful mama! **Andrea

Natalie H 5 pts

I already told you how much I love this post, and I love it even more after reading it again! Congrats Erin!

Natalie writes at Mommy of a Monster and Twins ( http://www.mommyofamonster.com ) about her day-to-day life and the chaos that comes with raising a 3 year old and 1 year old twins.

ladyestrogen 5 pts

That really is great :)
Love the imagery!

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Mrs. Jen B 5 pts

Oh, I love this just as much now as I did when I first read it! So beautiful

Mrs. Jen B

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Authentic Life 5 pts

Thank you for sharing...

I just visited your new web site. I love the clean, simple design.

KT

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MelanieB120 5 pts

How incredibly romantic! My heart is melting. Lucky you to have such a good man. Sweet post!

I remember those hurricanes from Pat O's. Ahhh....Bourbon Street memories...

erin margolin 5 pts

thank you, angel! i'm so glad you came by and commented!
and your post was phenomenal today!
xoxox

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erin margolin 5 pts

thanks, Helene! This was certainly a one-time thing! I don't expect it to happen again!

xoxoxox

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erin margolin 5 pts

I cast a spell? oh wow. you make me feel so awesome!

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erin margolin 5 pts

I love you too, Ash! Thanks so much for coming by!
;-)

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erin margolin 5 pts

Somewhere deep down, I hope he rememembers that sometimes. Even though I often feel like I don't deserve it/him...

Thank you so much for coming by and commenting!

;-)

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erin margolin 5 pts

And you know what? I've seen/read enough about you & Eric/Bubba to know that you guys are even MORE fantastic! I am so lucky to have met you both. Hope I get to see you again soon.

xoxoxoxoox

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erin margolin 5 pts

You know what? I think it's one of mine too, MiMi! Thanks so much for coming by and commenting on my big day!
;-)

xoxo

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erin margolin 5 pts

Thanks for popping by, Cheryl! I credit you and TRDC with so much of my growth lately...I am swamped w/ some personal stuff, but I hope to get back on the bandwagon soon. I'm so glad you stopped by to comment---thank you!

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erin margolin 5 pts

Thank you so much for your kind comments, and for taking the time to read. Have a lovely week!

;-)
erin

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erin margolin 5 pts

Ooooh, Amanda! THanks for reading, and I love your snarky signature! I need one too. Help me?!!
HUGS!

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erin margolin 5 pts

Awwww, Lynn! You have no idea how much it means to hear you say that. I needed a big virtual hug! THANK YOU, sweets!
xoxo

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erin margolin 5 pts

And to think it would never have appeared here if it hadn't been for you....

I love you more! Thank you, Alexandra!

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erin margolin 5 pts

LMAO re: world domination! and i feel the same way about feet. the only reason i let him touch them was because I was sauced!

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erin margolin 5 pts

I love you too, T! See you SOOOOOOON!
xoxo MWAH!

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erin margolin 5 pts

Sherri,
You rock! Thanks for stopping by and leaving me some love. I appreciate it more than you know.

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erin margolin 5 pts

Thanks for the read & the sparkle, Liz! You are awesome! going to watch AFV now!
xoxoxo

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erin margolin 5 pts

Thank you for always being so kind, and for coming by to read my post.
;-)

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erin margolin 5 pts

you.are.the.sweetest.
EVAH.

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erin margolin 5 pts

Now you've piqued my curiosity! I wanna know what he did. Spill it!

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erin margolin 5 pts

and so very happy to see you here. thank you sooooo much!
;-)

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erin margolin 5 pts

Thanks so much for coming by, Terri! YOU are awesome! xo

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erin margolin 5 pts

I am so honored and pleased you came by! And I loved your post soooo much.

I did choose right. I'm reminded of it daily. And I'm so glad. Lucky girl, I am.

;-)

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erin margolin 5 pts

Julie,

you are a doll. thank you so very much for making another stop by to read this again. i feel the love! i miss you!

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erin margolin 5 pts

And I love that you came back to read it again--you are SO sweet! Thank you!
xo

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erin margolin 5 pts

I bet it made your husband barf! hee heee

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erin margolin 5 pts

Tracie,

Thank you so much for coming over to read. He has been even sweeter these last few days as I've been going through some more "stuff." I feel very blessed.
;-)

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erin margolin 5 pts

Don't worry---he's not going anywhere! Thanks so much for coming by to read my post---yours was AWESOME and so funny!
;-)

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ms_lorelei 5 pts

...very very lovely.

And yes, he is lucky to have you, also.

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helene1108 5 pts

Awwww, that has got to be one of the sweetest stories ever!!!!

I don't think Tim has ever washed my feet....nor will he ever!!

angelshrout 5 pts

I loved this the first time I saw it. Absolutely beautiful and something anyone can close their eyes and picture..
The washing your feet part gets me everytime.. you know this already though..
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AwayWeGoNancy 5 pts

It's the little acts of kindness, the daily moments of grace that make a partnership. This is a lovely piece, and you cast a spell with such elegance.

So happy to see you here! Congrats on this wonderful achievement.

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