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Breaking Dawn Divides Twilight Fans

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I said that I wasn't going to buy Stephenie Meyer's Breaking Dawn. I said it right here at BlogHer and when I said it I meant it, I really did...but then I bought it. I attribute my downfall to two things - I ended up going into a bookstore on Saturday (for another unrelated reason) and I realized that I'd never be able to resist and/or avoid the spoilers. Please note that this post will link to both spoilers and spoiler-free posts but they will be clearly marked - no spoilers will appear in this post.

I wish I had just accepted that I would be buying this book. If I had done so then I could have gotten in on that midnight release party action. Midnight release parties are fun. I attended a Harry Potter one a few years ago and even won a costume prize (Harry Potter, book 5, dressed as Rita Skeeter). Thanks to the internet everyone who missed out on the party can see the types of goodies they missed out on.

Fragile What!? (no spoilers) used the midnight release party as an opportunity to get closer to her daughter.

We got to talk a lot about teen stuff which I love. I feel good that I’ve made myself accessible to her to share things that most teens would otherwise be afraid of sharing with their parents. We waited 90 minutes for the doors to open so we talked a lot!!

Whim experienced some rudeness in line but also saw an example of the type of parent she wants to be (no spoilers).

The dad was older and gray and the daughter could have been anywhere from 13 to 17. It is hard to tell these days. Her dad looked tired but happy and she talked his ear off the whole time we waited. When it was time to move forward he would gently put his hand on her back and nudge her forward in line while he smiled and nodded at her as she talked.

I want to be the parent that would stay up to take their kid to a book release party at midnight when I am tired.

Stephanie wins the prize for the most fun party and she didn't stay for a midnight release. She didn't go to just any party - she went to one where Stephanie Meyer made an appearance (no spoilers).

How did everyone like it? The big Twilight fans will love or hate this installment. There is no middle ground for them and I don't think they will be completely satisfied no matter what side of that they fall on. Readers like me, who (mostly) enjoy the books but are not fanatics stand a far greater chance of being satisfied. How did I feel about it? I was surprised. I didn't think that I had expectations going into the book but it simply was not what I expected. I think Natasha at Maw Books provided a really balanced review of (spoilers) that reflected what I thought of the book.

This is the type of book that will be viewed differently depending upon who you are and what your attitude about the series is in the first place.
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So did I hate it? No. Did I like it? Sure. Why? Because I didn’t have any preconceived notions about how the story should end up, I wasn’t completely invested in the characters to begin with (meaning I’m not a die hard twilighter), I didn’t mind where the storyline took me, I was taken by surprise in some parts, and I didn’t really get bored in the day that it took me to read it.

If you are ok with spoilers I really recommend Natasha's post. She provides some great commentary peppered with some of her own experiences that I think makes her review very good.

Deaana pointed out something that I think is causing some of the dislike with the story (spoilers).

And the whole 'Team Edward' and 'Team Jacob' thing just went *poof*, didn't it? Are we all 'Team Bella' now?

The Team Edward and Team Jacob fans were very passionate about their choices. When things didn't work out as they expected (particularly for one side of that debate) there was a lot of disappointment. I think that Meyer was trying to make all her characters happy and in the end really didn't make all the fans happy. I can't think of any way that she

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whymomdrinksrum 5 pts

It's here! It's mother-humping here! I am at peace. Or I will be when I actually get to read it.

They sent two. I don't know why - maybe they knew JUST HOW BAD I need it. I'll have to take that second one back now.

 I'm in the middle of a mild panic attack. But the opposite. A happy attack.

Wish I wasn't at work right now.

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whymomdrinksrum 5 pts

No doubt I am offending any postal workers that blog/read here. Sorry. I mean it in the kindest possible way.

At 3:39 this morning it was sorted at an office in my city. And that's all I know. Can you sing a little verse of "Killing me Softly..."?

Then "Crazy"

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Denise 9 pts moderator

I think that is how I feel about it too. Are you clicking the package tracking thing every few hours to see where your book is? lol

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whymomdrinksrum 5 pts

I am absolutely dying over here. I want this book so freaking bad.

Stupid post office being slow. Stupid! Argh.

I read "The Last Lecture" this weekend and while it was wonderfully enriching....in the back of my evil pathetic little brain I kept thinking, "This is good, but I wish it was Breaking Dawn. Everyone else is reading Breaking Dawn. This sucks balls! OK, concentrate. This is a valuable message. This sucks balls!"

I don't even care how the book ends. I just want to know HOW it ends.

I'm going bat-shit crazy over here. SIGH.

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sassymonkey 6 pts

Did not like Eclipse. Not even a little bit. After I read it I had absolutely no desire to read Breaking Dawn but as it got closer and closer to the release date and I read the first chapter online I knew that I would end up having to read it. And I really didn't feel that same way about BD that I did about Eclipse. One thing that I found interesting is that one of the blogs I read hated BD and thought that Eclipse was way better. So to each their own!

Good luck avoiding the spoilers!

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sassymonkey 6 pts

I'll have to keep that in mind for future costume parties.

I understand having issues with the plot. I kind of did too. Overall though, looking back through the four books, I think it mostly works.

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KatieBeez 5 pts

and I was putting off book 3 because I had already heard the throw-the-book-across-the-room type reviews.  As soon as we start getting copies around here (in Europe) I'm going to buy Breaking Dawn.  I'm kinda happy I get to ready the last two together.

One thing I really like about these crazy popular book releases is that it generates so much discussion.  Serious or not, who doesn't love hashing out a book or series like this? For me, one of the best things about reading a good book (or even a not so good one) - is talking with your friends about it.

As far as where it's going to go, I have my guesses (steering clear of all the spoiler reviews til I'm done!). When I read this series, even book 3, which is indeed irritating, it still feels like Meyer is giving the audience (and herself) a fantasy where everything you want to happen does. The boring sheltered-dom is even something most teen girls/women can relate to, and the love triangle is fun (for the first 10 minutes anyway). I hope she doesn't get all moral and worry about her "responsibility to young people" in book 4. I think with all the vampires and werewolves as main characters we can agree this series is just for fun.

Denise 9 pts moderator

Doris, you're not helping matters! Now I'm despearate to read the book and I still have 70 pages of the book I'm currently reading - plus I'm still working and haven't had time to go and buy a copy yet.

I am fascinated by all of the responses to Breaking Dawn.

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Doris 5 pts

Since I teach the target audiance of this book I did go to the midnight release party and read the last chapter of the third book at 1145, then at midnight the manager gave me the book and I read chapter one on the loudspeaker system while they handed out books.

I sped through the book trying to finish it before I was spoiled by some of my online friends, what I found while I read was an increasing frustration with some aspects of the plot.  I did find some things about this book that I truly enjoyed.

I really feel I should read it again before I make my final decision.  Overall the story belongs to the author and she gets to decide the fate of the characters.  I might have wanted something else, but it's not my tale to tell.

I won first prize as Bellatrix at a Deathly Hallows party!  I decided that I didn't want to "vamp" it up!

Doris

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sassymonkey 6 pts

A time or two in that comment.

Hey, I didn't plan on buying it either. I was grumbly at a couple of points but I kept going. I didn't feel like throwing it across the room like I did with Eclipse.

Have fun at the bookstore!

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Denise 9 pts moderator

I wasn't going to buy it. I was going to wait MONTHS before reading it because I have no library card and can't even get on a waiting list for it. But now. I must go ahead and by it and push my From the Stacks challenge off to the side and just read it.

You've tempted me with this post - and I haven't even clicked the darn links yet. I want to click them so much that as soon as I finish working, I'm going to the bookstore.

Darn you. Just. Darn you.

I wasn't even looking forward to reading it but now, I am.

Did I say Darn YOU?

~Denise
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