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I'm a freelance technical writer with a terminal case of wanderlust. I make most of my living explaining how technical things work to people that nee...
 
 
 
 

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Solo Travel: Why It’s Great

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I hike, I camp, and I do it alone. In the past five years since I started solo hiking and camping, I have encountered a lot of reactions, from the awed (“I could never do that, it must be amazing”) to the critical (“that is unnecessarily dangerous and stupid, and so are you”) to the curious and interested (“aren’t you bored/lonely/scared?”). I have often wished there was some resource or guide I could have looked to for advice and encouragement, and so…Her Side of the Mountain was born. May you learn from my mistakes, failures, joys and successes.--Her Side of the Mountain

Right ON, I say, and loudly. I used to do that stuff alone and have stopped, mostly, not out of fear or anxiety or misadventure, but because I ended up married. But I still love to do stuff solo now and then -- I just got back from a ten day solo trip and I was not lonely once. And I have many fond memories of pitching my tent on the Washington coast, making my dinner, and crawling in to my sleeping bag to fall asleep under the rain. I vote yes to Her Side of the Mountain.

...I’ve had the opportunity to visit a handful of countries on six continents. I’ve met locals who have helped me navigate tricky customs and cultures. I’ve chatted with travel enthusiasts personally and virtually who have inspired me to think about why and how I travel. Needless to say, travel is a large part of my life, and it’s definitely taught me a few things along the way. Here, in honor of Thanksgiving, are a few of the things travel has made me most thankful for... Kaleidescopic Wanderings

You think I'd be snobby about a blog that has a page called "I Love Las Vegas" but in spite of my sheer loathing of that city (sorry, Vegas, I find you a crime), I find much to like in JoAnna's blog. Plus, I like JoAnna, too, she's one of my Twitter pals and does lots of great writing all over the web.

While on the road, I’d met a couple of travel snobs – travelers who consider their travelling style better than others. In their opinion, backpacking is real travel, the best way to experience a country’s culture. They tend to belittle other forms of travelling (luxury, tour package, flashpacking) and think of themselves as the ‘better’ traveler.--Wild Junket

Nellie is thinking through all kinds of travely things on her blog and having some amazing adventures while she's at it. She's done a lot of writing about travels in the Caribbean and it looks like she's having an awesome time. Nellie is another all over the web writer, check out her work.

Finally, I'm just going say, yeah, some places you observe weird little thing and you think, well, I just don't know what to say about that. Here's a post from Louder than Swahili that leaves me with just that feeling.

What's new to you? What are you reading that I should be reading? Non-vanity links in the comments please (we'll save the vanity links for another time.)

Pam blogs about travel and other adventures at Nerd's Eye View.

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TheJobSearchCoach 5 pts

I admire any woman who doesn't allow anything to stop her from enjoying a great adventure. So often we want to take a vacation or just attend a local play or symphony, but no-one in our immediate circle is interested. Finding the courage to go it alone can often open the door to meeting new people and making unexpected friendships.

Roxanne Ravenel

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Mata H 5 pts

Yes, solo road tripping is great. I avoided main highways as much as possible and saw/experienced real American towns. I had no agenda, just woke up and decided where to point myself that day -- stopped when I was in the mood.  Close friends knew I might be stopping in at some point, but also knew I had no idea when.  It was exceedingly safe and carefree at the same time.

~~ Contributing Editor, Mata H. also blogs right along at Time's Fool ( http://timesfool.blogspot.com )

joanarc4 5 pts

Thanks for the shout out for Her Side, and I'm honored to be in the company of such interesting women bloggers! 

I've found that as I've been writing Her Side, more and more people -- some of whom I know personally, and all with opinions -- are coming out of the woodwork, either for or against solo hiking and camping for women.  While those opposed can be...adamant...about the danger of any form of solo hiking, male or female, I'm finding that the tales, comraderie, and mutual encouragement from a strong community of strong women is winning the day.  Keep coming out of the woodwork, and let's all continue to be spirited and pursue those things we love!

Mata H., isn't solo road-tripping like nothing else in the world?  I've never felt as free, capable and happy as the six weeks I spent on the road, and I fully intend to do it again someday.

Pam, you might also like Go Girl Magazine, at http://letsgogirl.wordpress.com ( http://letsgogirl.wordpress.com/ ).

Her Side of the Mountain (http://hermountain.wordpress.com ( http://hermountain.wordpress.com/ ))

Pam 5 pts

It's totally great that you did all that traveling alone, it must have been an amazing and excellent time. I really enjoyed my last solo trip, so much more than I expected, though I have to admit that I wasn't solo THAT much, I always seemed to have good company.

Did you read that story about the guy that was saved by his iPod? Lost in the woods, they found him by the light. I guess a CD has better battery power. :) Plus, it can double as a mirror.

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Mata H 5 pts

Your post made me think of a show I saw about traveling in the wilderness - the suggestion they said would save lives was to carry an everyday CD with you. Apparently, it can be used as a very strong flash to rescuers (off the sunlight) to signal where you are if you are ever lost. And it weighs nothing to carry in with you, although it can do the work of a flare. I haven't hiked alone for any time, but I did get in my car alone a couple of years ago and drove for almost 3 months with no particular destination in mind -- 11,000 miles of wanderings by myself. And I did get the shocked replies from silly people--"alone???" "at your age???" Hmphhh!!!

~~ Contributing Editor, Mata H. also blogs right along at Time's Fool ( http://timesfool.blogspot.com )