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I don't know much about Elizabeth Edwards, the late wife of politician John Edwards. I will say what I have observed of her in the press were unmatchable qualities of strength, courage and family-focused devotion.
During the zenith of her turmoil with her unfaithful husband, many people disparaged her, criticized her and some were even accusatory. Knowing her type of pain and betrayal personally, I championed her strength to continue on and to stay strong for her children. If you are currently experience such a betrayal, remember God is your refuge and hiding place (read Psalms 32:7).
Some sources have reported that the Edwards children will live now with their father. Grapevine sources say otherwise and they will be raised by the eldest daughter. I dunno.
What I do know is that Elizabeth Edwards' death and life raised a question that demands some critical thought.
Question: is it possible for a person to be a bad husband/wife and yet be a good parent?
Some say "NO" because the core issues of honesty, truthfulness and integrity lie at the root of any relationship, hence a person that dishonors his most intimate relationship will likely dishonor the relationships with others.
Others say, "YES" because the marital relationship is completely different from the parental relationship, thereby meaning a man/woman can be a good parent in spite of their inability to be a good mate.
What say you?
