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Can You Prevent Your Child's Eating Disorder?

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I've worried before that writing again and again about eating disorders on BlogHer and on my personal blog could turn me into a one-trick pony. I've said I don't want to be ED Girl. I've told people I just want to be me, recovered, and be the proof that it's possible, publically. But then I recently got an email from a woman with whom I'd gone back and forth several times, and she'd decided to check herself into treatment:

It's much easier to ignore a single doctor telling me that I'm in trouble, but hearing it from someone who actually knows what it's like to be my position right now was really helpful. So thanks very much! I'll be working on recovery for the next few months instead of school which will be good I think.

And so here I am, again, writing about eating disorders. If it's helping anyone, it's worth doing.

This time, I'm talking about kids and adolescents with Dr. Bermudez of the Eating Recovery Center in Denver, Colorado.

Background on Diagnosing Eating Disorders in Kids, Adolescents and Adults

Dr. Bermudez is a pediatrician, not a psychologist, and eating disorders have been the focus of his career for the past 22 years. Yet, he seemed surprised when I asked he had any personal experience with eating disorders -- which he has not. In fact, he said no one had ever asked him that before.

It's hard for me to fathom how anyone with no personal experience with eating disorders could successfully treat them, but Dr. Bermudez is tremendously successful. I called him to talk about treatment for eating disorders, certainly for adults but particularly for adolescents.

Dr. Bermudez believes eating disorders are biopsychosocial illnesses. In other words, they are truly mind/body/spirit, with a healthy dose of environmental triggers thrown in. He rejects the idea that they are inevitable based on genetics or society. He rejects the idea of treating just the mind and not the body or vice versa, and he pointed out that as an anorexic restricts, her gastrointestinal tract can develop problems that makes it then difficult to eat normally (I'm paraphrasing), which makes recovery more difficult. As he talked, I sighed, as this communication of truths has become a bit of an obsession for me -- it seems so many eating disorder (ED) sufferers and particularly their families and friends have a tough time wrapping their heads around how the mind and the body negatively and positively impact each other as the anorexic or bulimic or overeater or what have you struggles to recover.

As we talked, I asked Dr. Bermudez how to advise friends and families about this problem. We discussed diabetics -- diabetes is a disease not the "fault" of the diabetic, but the diabetic has control over how ambitious she is in her treatment and control of the disease. It's similar with eating disorders, however, there is a mental illness component of ED that complicates the free will part of recovery.

According to Dr. Bermudez, roughly 2/3 of patients with eating disorders at the time they are diagnosed are also diagnosed with psychiatric comorbidity (they are also diagnosed with another mental illness at the same time). Mood disorders are the most common (depression and anxiety). He's quick to point out that mood disorders are also more common across the board in terms of mental illness, than say, schizophrenia, so it does make sense -- but to me the important part is what comes next.

Tween Girl


Half of that 2/3 who are diagnosed with a mood disorder at the same time as the eating disorder had the mood disorder first.

Anxiety is most prevalent, followed by OCD, then depression. The average date of onset of anxiety syndrome is around 11 years old, while depression is a little later than that.

Recognizing Opportunities to Intervene With Eating Disorders

Here's where it got tricky for me, as a recovered anorexic and bulimic and a mother of a seven-year-old girl. I wanted a hard-and-fast, here's-when-to-worry checklist. And I wanted to freak out if my daughter showed any signs of anxiety, because it sounded like Dr. Bermudez was reading me my life story -- undiagnosed early-onset anxiety followed by a perfect storm of environmental triggers. But Dr. Bermudez is not that kind of doctor and refused to let me form that kind of a plan as a mother. Here's what he said:

All human characteristics can be considered part of our traits. You have to differentiate

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Rita Arens 7 pts

Will correct the typo now! This is what you get for doing phone interviews in this day and age. :)

I'd be happy to talk to you any time. rita@blogher.com.

Rita Arens authors Surrender Dorothy ( http://bit.ly/Qp0sS ) and is the editor of Sleep is for the Weak ( http://tinyurl.com/9pg62e ). She is BlogHer's assignment and syndication editor.

Dr. Michael Katz 5 pts

This is an excellent article on a very important topic.

Personally, I'm developing an interest in the psychology of the parent; I want to know what prevents parents from intervening when they suspect their child has an ED.

I would be interested in hearing your thoughts, and the thoughts of anyone who reads this.

I hope that by developing a better understanding of parental psychology we can help speed up intervention times and, therefore, speed up recovery times.

Again, great article!

Side note: In your article you state that, "roughly 2/3 of patients with eating disorders at the time they are diagnosed are also diagnosed with psychiatric comobility." What you mean to say is "comorbidity." :-)

Michael Katz, MD, MS
President, EatingKids.com
www.EatingKids.com

jjdbruno 5 pts

Rita

As a long ago corporate management geek for you, it now all falls into place. You learned a lot: knew what the issue was, what you needed, and the solutions to solve.

Frankly, made it very easy to mentor you. You've done a lot of work to get where you are and I am so proud of you for it. Wish I had been astute enough to tell you at the time.

This journey has made you an amazing person. We are all fortunate to have had the luck to work with you!

Best
J

2commentaristas 5 pts

It's pretty crazy how wide-spread this kind of thing is, especially for teens. Countless online forums centered around things such as "thinsporation" (or "thinspo" for short), and as far as moods go, I always wondered: is it really just teenage angst or is there something much deeper going on?

Thanks so much for this article.

Rita Arens 7 pts

I am frankly beside myself with the messages in media for kids. Reality TV is not for anyone whose frontal lobe hasn't finished maturing.

Rita Arens authors Surrender Dorothy ( http://bit.ly/Qp0sS ) and is the editor of Sleep is for the Weak ( http://tinyurl.com/9pg62e ). She is BlogHer's assignment and syndication editor.

CatbTan 5 pts

http://www.breakfasttobed.com

Don't you think shows like "too fat for 15" might also be exploiting overeaters etc? I am terrified by what we see on a daily basis! What a poignant post.

fouragainsttwo 6 pts

I have two daughters (9 and 11)with mood disorders. One is doing well with just monthly counseling and the other gets weekly counseling, bi-monthly Dr. Psch visits and medication. It is good to read that treating these mood disorders effectively may help down the road with eating disorders. As they are very vocal about not likeing their bodies, I have worried a lot about future problems with eating disorders.
Thanks!

P>Mandy W.

FourAgainstTwo.com

fouragainsttwo 6 pts

I have two daughters (9 and 11)with mood disorders. One is doing well with just monthly counseling and the other gets weekly counseling, bi-monthly Dr. Psch visits and medication. It is good to read that treating these mood disorders effectively may help down the road with eating disorders. As they are very vocal about not likeing their bodies, I have worried a lot about future problems with eating disorders.
Thanks!

P>Mandy W.

FourAgainstTwo.com

LBDinNYC 5 pts

Hi,
This is a beautiful and very informative article. Thank you for posting.
Best,
Lindsay