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Catherine Zeta Jones, Mental Health, and, well...EARTH.

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So as you may have heard, the stunning, successful, and talented Catherine Zeta Jones voluntarily checked herself into a mental health facility last week for treatment of bipolar II disorder. CZJ. I had a visceral reaction when I heard the news.

Like so many, I used to take news of others' mental illness with a grain of salt. Neither here nor there. But no longer an innocent to the ways of mood disorders I literally sat down on my couch to take a second and wish her a speedy recovery because I felt like I had just learned that this woman, who I don't know, who I've never met, and who I have virtually nothing in common with was in some way my soul sister.

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Maybe US Weekly has the right idea.  Maybe we too often forget that in some ways, Stars ARE just like us. That no matter how dreamy your life may seem, you just might not be capable of happiness sometimes. And that's something that everyone deserves to get help with.

When I sat down to write this post, my initial gut was to come at it from the defensive. Surely CZJ would be mocked for coming out about her illness. Surely this news would not be met with the respect it deserved. But as I searched the internet for snark and mockery to back up my certainty that this world is so intolerant of mental illness it would laugh in the face of a woman in pain, I realized that there was none. Even the nastiest of internet quipsters were commending CZJ's openness and decision to seek help.

While Radar Online and Pop Eater hinted at substance abuse in the wake of a difficult year in CZJ's personal life as the cause of the hospitalization, ultimately both offered the actress their support -- Sara at Popeater observed:

In addition to her duties as an actress and mother, Zeta-Jones has dealt with more than enough stress in the past few years to merit some much-needed time off and TLC.

Even Wowowowow's notorious Liz Smith couldn't muster more than kind words and well wishes:

...Good luck to Catherine Zeta-Jones and her battle with bipolar disease. Apparently, the gorgeous Oscar-winner has long suffered from depression; her moods were such that she could “bring a room down.” She admitted herself for treatment last week. I adore both Mrs. and Mr. Douglas (he seems to have overcome his own bout with cancer, during which time Zeta-Jones was by his side 24/7.) Yes, they are rich and famous, but their problems are as real as that couple down the street.

Sure, as per uge, celebrity psych whore Dr. Drew Pinsky was quick to weigh in.   But what he has to say was encouraging for those unfamiliar with the illness also known as Manic Depressive disorder.

"She understands her condition. She understands it's a medical condition with a medical solution. It's no different than if she had arthritis in her knee -- she can handle it, move on and lead a completely normal life."

So, Catherine, I stand with you, sister. I wish you a speedy recovery. I thank you for your bravery in your openness with your diagnosis. I feel for you that you live such a lovely life and probably torture yourself all the more when you're not able to enjoy it.

I can't stress enough how important I think it is for public figures to talk openly about their mental health issues. From Gwyneth Paltrow's frank Good Housekeeping interview on her experience with postpartum depression, to Demi Lovato's nervous breakdown, to CZJ's brave open-ness about her Bipolar II and the need to treat it seriously are all steps in the right direction of de-stigmatizing this thing we call "crazy".

What do you think?  Did the news of CZJ's diagnosis take you by surprise?

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Morgan Shanahan 6 pts

I don't know that anyone is claiming she's "cured" but I do think that a week of intensive therapy and away from the stresses of life could do wonders if we all had the means to take advantage of it.

liamsmommy2009 5 pts

this whole thing bothers me about her. dealing with depression for over half of my life, i know it takes longer than a week to feel better. it takes longer and a week for medicine to kick in. so what is it with this "week that made her all better?"

Morgan Shanahan 6 pts

Don't be scared. Mood disorders are manageable medical conditions, and you have a community right here.

candycohn 5 pts

It is indeed refreshing to see a celebrity treated with respect when she had the courage to be open about dealing with mental illness. I agree that Catherine Zeta Jones' openness made this the obvious response, although that doesn't always make it happen. As someone who has helped a family member deal with bipolar depression, and who has dealt with unipolar depression herself, my ears also perked up immediately when I heard this story. I try to educate people when it sounds like they have misconceptions about depression, and I certainly appreciate it when influential "soul sisters" use their voices to be heard. It's truly music to my ears:-)

Candy Cohn
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MamaRobinJ 5 pts

This is the first I've heard of it and I'm so grateful to hear that she's open about it and seeking treatment. Just yesterday I was at my psychiatrist's office and she was asking questions trying to determine if my issue is not just depression but bipolar II. It freaked me out.

This makes me feel like a little less scared.

Good wishes to her.

Robin is a mom to a toddler boy, a writer, a communications professional and a part-time runner. She writes about her struggle with postpartum depression and motherhood at Farewell, Stranger ( http://farewellstranger.com ).

Schwandy 5 pts

I think the media has been very kind to her. And I think that they are treating her with more respect because she openly discussed her diagnosis and didn't try to hide it. Had she tried to excuse her stay in the hospital there would've been much more negative speculation.

I hope that Catherine will continue to speak out about her Bipolar Disorder. It would be a shame if in a few years we had all but forgot she was diagnosed.
It would be great if there were another celebrity who could stand alongside those like Carrie Fisher and let others know it's okay to have an illness like Bipolar Disorder.

Stephanie, who blogs under Schwandy at Mommy vs Madness ( http://www.mommyvsmadness.com ), gives readers a unique & often humorous look at what it's like to raise kids while dealing with her mental illness that arose after the birth of he

Schwandy 5 pts

I think the media has been very kind to her. And I think that they are treating her with more respect because she openly discussed her diagnosis and didn't try to hide it. Had she tried to excuse her stay in the hospital there would've been much more negative speculation.

I hope that Catherine will continue to speak out about her Bipolar Disorder. It would be a shame if in a few years we had all but forgot she was diagnosed.
It would be great if there were another celebrity who could stand alongside those like Carrie Fisher and let others know it's okay to have an illness like Bipolar Disorder.

Stephanie, who blogs under Schwandy at Mommy vs Madness ( http://www.mommyvsmadness.com ), gives readers a unique & often humorous look at what it's like to raise kids while dealing with her mental illness that arose after the birth of he

nellewrites 6 pts

reaction to the report. We are finally reaching a level of maturity when it comes to such issues, a far cry from 1970s America.

Back then, people considered any interaction with a therapist, no matter how brief, to be a sign of personal weakness, something lacking in character.

I only wish that I had seen one far sooner, a lot of damage would never have occurred. By stripping away the stigma, the things that cause people to shy away from seeking any sort of help, people are far more likely to get whatever assistance they need to move on with their lives.

On the other hand, I cannot completely absolve media - or us. We are willing spectators to the travails of other celebrities who have issues but are more vocal and defiant. People go to performances to actually cheer them on towards a bad ending or boo their disapproval, and it all gets turned into grand media spectacle. No thank you.

nellewrites ( http://nellewrites.wordpress.com/ )

TheBlackTortoise 5 pts

Beautiful compassion in your words: I feel for you that you live such a lovely life and probably torture yourself all the more when you're not able to enjoy it.

Adela

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2commentaristas 5 pts

...because they are. They're human, and we all seem to forget that. When someone famous has an illness or a problem, we tend to blow it up. We don't like acknowledging their weaknesses (unless it's to somehow make ourselves feel better, which is what I see the tabloids doing). When we see "real pictures" of them doing "real things" (i.e. grocery shopping) for some reason society freaks out. Why is this? Why have we elevated our actors and actresses to something more than what we are - people that are doing their job?

Personally, I'm also glad that the media's not tearing her apart, and I wish her a fantastic recovery.

alexash 5 pts

Love what Liz Smith wrote, "Yes, they are rich and famous, but their problems are as real as that couple down the street."

CZJ's transparency not only validates that anyone and everyone can struggle with mental health issues, but that it is perfectly fine to be candid about them.

No drama. No secrets. Nothing for the tabloids to go after.

Amanda_Magee 5 pts

I am always so grateful when, for once, the media does not dive in for the slow kill.

Amanda

http://amandamagee.com