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CBS Tackles Breastfeeding Etiquette and Ends Up With Milk on Its Face

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CBS released an interesting article and slideshow on Monday, just a week after World Breastfeeding Week ended. Perhaps attempting to be tongue-in-cheek about the hotly debated subject of breastfeeding, specifically breastfeeding in public, they managed to confused and offend readers.

The article starts out with talk of how doctors and research state that “breast is best” and then moves on to a discussion of “breast etiquette.” The lead in to the slideshow reads, “9 Places “They” Say You Should Not Breastfeed.” The “they” in quotes refers to... society? Your grandma? Who?

Clicking through to the slideshow, the title then becomes “9 Most Awkward Breastfeeding Situations.” I wasn’t sure what to expect from a slideshow about breastfeeding. I figured maybe we’d see some celebrities nursing in public as they have been a big topic of discussion in the past. Instead, of the 10 slides, only two are actual nursing shots. The rest are stock images of men with bulging eyes, nuns wielding Crucifixes and a woman in a restaurant who is visibly distraught. You know, by your boob.

The advice accompanying the slides is equally confusing. If men are uncomfortable while you’re nursing, they should leave, not you. We are told to be discreet in public, but not told what that means. The picture accompanying that advice shows a mother at the lake, nursing her baby under a blanket while her nipple is pixelated out of the shot. Apparently skimpy bikinis are okay whereas a baby under a blanket is not. Their wording about nursing in a restaurant prime example of the confusion factor:

The law in many states says moms have the right to breast-feed their children at the dinner table, but is a public restaurant really the best place for mother's milk?

Advocates say serve it up, but some doctors worry that if a mom has an infectious illness like HIV, her breast milk can spread the infection to others. So, moms should be careful to keep breast milk off surfaces.

Whatever you do, remember to tip your waiter well.

PHOENIX, AZ - NOVEMBER 21:  Christia Bridges-Jones, of Chandler, Arizona, wears buttons on her chest in front of the Delta Airlines ticket counter during a Nurse In protest at Phoenix Sky Harbor International Airport November 21, 2006 in Phoenix, Arizona. The mothers were protesting as a result of a prior incident in which Emily Gillette was breast feeding her child on a Delta Airlines flight prior to take off when the flight attendant told her to cover her breast feeding child with a blanket. The flight attendant had Gillette and her family removed from the plane when the mother declined to cover her baby.  (Photo by Jeff Topping/Getty Images)

True, they mention that most states protect a mother's right. But the HIV info? According to the CDC, "Occupational exposure to human breast milk has not been shown to lead to transmission of HIV or HBV infection." More over, like in other forms of bodily fluid, the air and your own stomach acids will likely kill the virus. So, unless the waiter runs up and laps the sprayed breastmilk off the table the instant that it lands there, and he happens to have poor gastric acid, the worry should be minimal. Confusing "information" followed up with an attempt at humor doesn't really help moms seeking advice on the topic.

Perhaps CBS was trying to help mothers who are trying to figure out the ins and outs of public breastfeeding realize that they can nurse in public. Their message, however, got lost somewhere deep in translation. If the pictures matched the word -- a woman at a restaurant sitting across from a nursing mom without batting an eyelash, a man asleep on a plane next to a breastfeeding mother and child -- maybe their intention would be heard loud and clear. Instead, commenters were riled up while shares on twitter and Facebook were quick to point out information while still being offended.

CBS News and Breastfeeding Situations: The Only Awkward Thing Here Is Bad Information and Demeaning Undertones http://bit.ly/ckKB4sless than a minute ago

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EllieLS 5 pts

I agree that the slide show is confusing and I think the pixelated breast on the first slide really sets the tone for the message of the whole slide show.

I think mom's should be free to breastfeed anywhere that they feel comfortable. Only once in the two years of breastfeeding my daughter did I refrain from breastfeeding her for fear of upsetting someone else. I was in the home of my friend's older Iranian parents. My friend was unsure how they would feel about me nursing my daughter in their living room so I decided, out of respect for their home and the modest culture in which they were raised, to feed my daughter in private.

jessielme 5 pts

Can't you see they were just trying to get a laugh?

No, I completely agree, the slide show is confusing and perpetuates inappropriate feelings about women's bodies. According to this article, breast feeding etiquette dictates that I'm not to leave my own house during the months that I'm breast feeding!

I'm having my first baby in January and will be facing this issue for the first time. When I read stories like this, I picture myself unabashedly nursing in public until policemen escort me out - but, I don't know what I'll really do. Perhaps I'll constantly be hiding so as not to experience the stares that this slide show suggests are inevitable.

The saddest part about the whole issue is that many women who may already have conflicting feelings about the natural functions of their breasts (because of our over-sexualized culture), may be pushed over the edge by anti-breastfeeding-in-public sentiments and stop breastfeeding early, or never try it at all.

Jessica

( http://thejoyfulhousewife.net/ )

broccoliandip 5 pts

All I can say is WTF?! Its disappointing to see such negativity towards breastfeeding. As a first time mom, I have been hestitant to nurse in public. I will usually avoid confrontation at malls, and since they have a very well equiped Nursing room with leather couches and etc, I will usually go there (who wouldn't its a luxury ONLY for nursing Mamas) I actually get bothered when there aren't Nursing rooms available, because although I have never personally been asked to stop nusing in public, I want to try and avoid the awkward situation all together. BUT, at the same time, I get so mad when I think of all the Moms who have "offeded" people by Breastfeeding in public, and something inside me wants to just sit in the middle of the mall or where ever without a nursing bib or without "making sure no one sees my nipple" just to SEE what people would say. When I'm in an already agitated mood, in my head I will think of how awesome it would be to have someone come up to me and ask me to stop, JUST so I could give them a piece of my mind. PLUS, is it not illegal to ask someone to stop Breastfeeding? I feel like it my area it is, or somewhere it is. Because someone once told me, that if someone asks you to stop, just call the police because then they will have to explain to them WHY they think you should stop...sounds spiteful, but as a nursing mother...its bothers me soo muchhh. Especially since bottle fed babies dont have to go anywhere else to feed. Its like being racist...but BOOBIST...
Thanks so much for posting, I can't wait to share this with every nursing mother I know!

Melissa Ford 5 pts

There are a few topics I'll never touch, breastfeeding being one of them. Someone is always offended at the coverage--and my offense with that article wasn't even covered in your post :-) It works on so many levels.

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).