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Why Do We Love Reality TV Stars? They're Accessible.

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Yesterday, I was contacted by CNN writer Stephanie Goldberg to give my opinion about Teen Mom. My recent post about the show had led the behemoth media outlet to my tiny doorstep in rural Iowa. So I gave my interview and suggested that Goldberg contact Jenna Hatfield here at BlogHer who wrote MTV's Teen Mom Falls Short, Bloggers Step Up. The result of all this chatter? See for yourself in CNN's article The 'Teen Mom' phenomenon (where I'm referenced as Bondie. I would have preferred James Bondie, but whatevs.)

One of the things I've noticed about Teen Mom is that Perez Hilton totally hates it. He has written a few posts showing the cover stories about the Teen Mom girls and is totally rude about them. One post read: "Seriously -- WHO CARES?" He ended the post with "Are U interested?" One could make the argument that Perez Hilton has no interest in teenage girl-moms because he is a grown-up gay man. But since he writes about everything-pop-culture, why has he been so snarky about Teen Mom? Well, that's another post.

To answer his question about the covers: Yes, we are interested. Very interested. The proof is in the skyrocketing sales of these magazines and the obvious war between the tabloids to get the next interview. Magazines don't put people on covers unless those covers will SELL. So what is it about reality stars like the Teen Mom girls who make us want to read more? My theory? Accessibility.

Let's think about the people who have shown up on the covers of magazines for the last year or so. Jon and Kate, Heidi and Spencer, all 19 Duggers, Bristol (sigh) Palin, any Real Housewife, the cast of Jersey Shore, Jake and Vienna (and anyone else remotely related to The Bachelor/The Bachelorette or the new and oh-so-bizarre Bachelor Pad), and the entire family of Kardashians/Jenners.

And then we have "stars" from American Idol, Dancing with the Stars, America's Got Talent, and all of the other reality show crazes that light up DVR lists all across America. What ties all of these people together is that their brands are themselves. They want to talk, and they want you to listen. Presto magic! Magazine sales! You don't have to read about a "source" who said Britney Spears is bad to her babies. You can hear directly from Kim Kardashian about what she's up to. And she is up to a LOT.

When I was younger (cough), we didn't have the plethora of "tabloid" magazines that we have today. I remember bonafide Movie Stars being on the covers of magazines. Now, the trend has gone Reality. I believe this has to do with the fact that reality stars will actually talk to the magazines. The trend with Hollywood heavy-hitters is to "maintain privacy." Even though the general public puts food on their tables, the elite stars have no interest in talking to US Weekly or Star magazine about their personal lives. But the reality stars? All systems GO!

So the question becomes: Are the "big" movie stars making a mistake by being so closed off? Sure, some of them have Twitter accounts. Here and there, you can find a really good interview. But the sound bytes usually only appear when they are promoting a movie, book, or cause. They block paparazzi photos with bags or arms. They show up on the red carpet in designer clothes (or not -- note that Brad and Angelina almost never attend award shows anymore.) They "rise above" the tabloid magazines. They only talk to Oprah.

So this makes me wonder about the "big" celebrities of our time. I ask Perez Hilton and anyone else: Who cares about THEM? They won't give Jane Doe Jones the time of day! But Bethenny Frankel? She will tell me EVERYTHING. She will even pee in front of me -- and anyone else who watched her wedding on "Bethenny Getting Married?" And that is why I love her and will buy any magazine that is lucky enough to nab her for a cover. Sure, she has made some missteps in her life and on her shows, but that's what makes her real. And personally, I find her far more inspiring than Cameron Diaz or Leonardo DiCaprio or any other A-lister who avoids the public like the plague.

I can't even remember the last time a real Movie Star gave

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laholder 5 pts

Ha! Great post & so true!! I never thought about why realty stars are so intriguing but you make perfect sense about the accessibility.I think this trend will only increase in the future even our fashion mags will see Reality stars on the cover.

Thanks!
Lindsey
www.lindseyholder.com ( http://www.lindseyholder.com )
And P.S. -Yes! I did see that episode of Betheny at her wedding, lol!

BlondieChicago 5 pts

The interesting thing about Bethenny peeing in a bucket is that she was almost-ready-to-pop pregnant on her wedding day and had to pee in her wedding dress. Every mother I know who saw that episode related in a big way to having to pee at uncomfortable times. They related to Bethenny and felt her "discomfort."

But I do like the idea of us bloggers thinking of ourselves as the true reality stars. Good point! But it does lead me to the question: Is reality only real when it's typed? What's the difference between blogging and having a reality show?

BlondieChicago 5 pts

I don't have a Twitter account, but sometimes I look up famous people's Twitters to see what they are up to. Some of them just return "thanks" for praise, but others say what they are up to or post pictures, so those are fun for me.

Virginia DeBolt 5 pts

I've never been able to get into reality shows. I think I prefer to get away from real life when I'm seeking entertainment. But I've been fascinated by the big name people who choose to share on Twitter. Prolific tweeter @MarleeMatlin ( http://twitter.com/MarleeMatlin ) comes to mind.

Virginia DeBolt
Web Teacher ( http://www.webteacher.ws/ ) | First 50 Words ( http://first50.wordpress.com )

BlondieChicago 5 pts

Yes, I agree. The reason I am drawn to bloggers as well as reality stars is the "realness" about them. They are willing to expose the ups and downs of the human experience. Especially in this day and age when everything is out there for everyone to see, it's refreshing to have people be open about what they are doing. I like to read books, too, but I need some eye/brain candy once in a while. Hello, Survivor!!

Love,
Bondie. James Bondie.

MelysahBunting 5 pts

I never thought about it before actually. I like reality TV (as some like soaps). It's all about drama.

I've been wondering what draws me to these shows and people. You said it. Accessibility.

I'd rather support someone I feel I can relate to. The "big stars" feel more distant and cold. The secret is out; they're just like everyone else. Now they have to get off their high horse so to speak and join the rest of us. I am not saying act a fool, but let down the wall a little more.

JennaHatfield 9 pts

Kind of neither? LOL

I'm more interested in what bloggers are saying and doing than what any so-called celebrities are shelling out at any given time. I've never been much for the typical movie/tv/etc star in the first place, except in relation to what they're actually doing work wise. Meaning, I don't care what Tom Hanks does on Wednesday evening, but I do care what he's doing on the big screen.

But I also don't care much about reality stars. They are fun while they last, but mostly in whatever context they appear on my television screen. I do like some reality shows, but like traditional celebs, I don't understand the draw to their personal lives.

Then again, I'm the dork with her nose shoved in a book even when she's watching TV.

Also, I shall now refer to you as James Bondie.

Contributing Editor Jenna Hatfield (@FireMom ( http://twitter.com/FireMom )) blogs at Stop, Drop and Blog ( http://stopdropandblog.com ) and The Chronicles of Munchkin Land ( http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com ). She is a freelance writer and newspaper photographer.

AnInquiringMind 5 pts

The only reality show I watch is America's Next Top Model. I don't understand the fascination of reality tv. I don't find the participants relateble at all. So I guess I am firmly in the Who Cares?! camp. Bethenny Frankel peeing in front of the world is entertainment? What does that say about us? Time to change the channel! Bethenny isn't real...she's a tv star. How can I relate to someone with cameras following them around all the time?

I find bloggers much more real than any single person on TV. Those women (and men!) typing out their lives are the real "reality stars".