Cheapskate is the new Black: How I'm cutting back on my fashion and beauty spending
by jen.scharpen

I was getting dressed for work this morning when I saw that my sandals were showing off my gnarly toes.  I had a pedicure (minus the manicure) in late spring when I began wearing sandals again, but I can't afford to go back often.  My solution?  Put on my sandals, size up the direness of the situation, and then touch-up where needed.  I figure that my feet are rarely still anyhow, so the polish doesn't need to be perfect, just passing.  I may splurge for a special occasion (like that outdoor wedding I'm going to next weekend)

but, this year the pedicures will be home-administered.  Maybe you're more talented than I am, and can always DIY your toes, but it really helped me to have the initial job done by a pro.  If you've got a friend or loved one who's game, you can always do each other's toes while you catch up or watch a movie (free, on the internet, natch).

As I filled in the polish chips this morning, I started thinking about other ways I've cut back on my bodily care and upkeep expenses.  Off the top of my head I could think of several changes I've made:

  • Last year's bikini wax has become this year's razor.  And I've got a pair of $12.50 board shorts for back up.
  • I added a week to the time between appoinments for eyebrow waxing, as this will be cut from my budget approximately never.  (We all have our issues.)
  • I found a face moisturizer with a higher SPF, so I don't need to get a separate sunblock for my face.  I also buy moisturizer at the grocery store lately, and look for discounts.
  • I gave away a couple of bags of dry clean only clothes that I didn't want to have to pay to wear again, and I tried laundering the rest myself.  The results were great, but I only experimented with items that I figured the manufacturer was being overly cautious in labeling "dry clean only."  Also, in my laundry room "hand wash" equals "wash in a pillowcase with a knot tied in the top."
  • To stretch my wardrobe, I spent a couple of hours adjusting waistlines and mending some sweaters and skirts that had been in my fix pile so long that no one I currently spend time with would recognize them.
  • I'm hoping to attend another clothing swap party this summer, like the one that Anna hosted recently.  I went to one a few years ago and can attest that they are super fun.  In addition to clothes, you can bring shoes, accessories, jewelry, handbags, and sunglasses to trade.  New To Me is still new, you know?  
  • In the hair department, I decided to use up all the products I have before buying anything new.  I discovered that a couple of products I gave up on after one or two uses are actually pretty great (dry wax, I'm looking at you), and I shouldn't have to buy anything new until the fall, when the economy has made a full recovery.  (I'm thinking positive.  It certainly can't hurt any.)
  • I buy really cheap shampoo that smells good (from Trader Joe's) and, wow -- I've never admitted this to anyone -- I'm SO cheap that I water it down.  Same with liquid hand soap.  I figure if it still bubbles, it's still doing its job.
  • I get my hair cut by a licensed professional who I've been going to since we were both 18 (that's ::cough cough:: 20 years now ::cough cough::) but I've added more time between visits there, too, and may attempt to do my own color, under her guidance.  We shall see.
  • On the fitness front I finally, reluctantly, let go of my yoga studio membership and bought a couple of second-hand DVDs so I can have a structured practice at home.  This was a really tough change for me, but probably accounts for my biggest monthly savings.

It's astonishing how quickly all those cut corners add up to real money every month.  I'd still like to cut back further, though, so if you've got some tried and true cheapskate methods for looking good, feeling good, or smelling good, I'd love to hear them!

Comments

 

You're Not the Only One!

Hey I do some of those things too!  I water down liquid soap too.

My crafty friend did have a great idea once though.  She invited all us girls over for a little "spa day" to her house for a diy party.  We all made our own homemade soaps and sugar scrubs.  They were actually pretty amazing!  They were simple and cheap- it didn't have any extra additives and we got to choose the scented oil that we liked for the sugar scrubs and for the soaps.  The soap was just glycerin, oatmeal and the scent of your choice.  And the sugar scrub was just sugar, oil and the scent of your choice.   There's of course many different combos that you can do for soap.  But for us beginners it was the basics.  And it was fun to just have a girls day in, with all of us chatting and snacking.  The scrub was amazin, I picked a combo of different fruity smells.  Perhaps a melon and pomegranate scent - I forget.  

So I guess another fun way to save money is you can have a diy party with all the girls and everyone can just chip in a few bucks and come away with a whole basket of diy bath and body works kit that is more natural and organic.

 

What a great idea!

That would make a great holiday party, too, because you'd leave with gifts to give.  Thanks so much for sharing, and I'm happy to know that I'm not the only one stretching out that liquid hand soap!

 

I'm Cheap Too!!!

My girlfriends and I have "Swap Parties" every season, to get rid of good condition clothing that we're bored with. Sharing is the key -- rather than buy several nail polish colors, we each buy one and then share!!

Also, for high heel lovers, I just discovered this website that I am in love with!!! www.newheeltips.com

You can save HEAPS of money ordering new tips for your heels rather than going to a cobbler or buying new shoes... like I used to do (guilty)!!! 

Crafty Greer

 

 

Perfect!

Sharing nail polish -- what a great idea!  It takes like, ten years for me to use up a bottle.  Actually, now that I think of it, I'm pretty sure I never even have.   

 

hair

Pedicure parties are good for those without foot issues. Friends can do each other's toesies -- before breaking out the cocktails, ideally. Same with hair dyeing. Easier if someone helps you (and more effective if you don't use KoolAid).

I believe you are familiar with our giant bottles of Costco-bought Shampoo & conditioner. One trip + your watering down ways and you'd be set for almost a year.

This is a lot of really good advice, thank you smart lady!

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Pedicure party :)

Just tell me when and where, and I'll show up with my bottle of "I'm not really a waitress."  Who even cares what color it is, it's the Best Polish Name Ever!

 

Long hair, no layers, no bangs

My very simple haircut is one of my biggest money savers. I only go to the hair salon twice a year.

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Excellent advice!

I recently went shorter (and layered, but that's a long, sad tale) and I miss the days when I could go for months at a time without cuts.  Know any good, inexpensive products that will make my hair grow out faster? ;)

 

And then there's me...

Definitely some good tips here, for sure. I haven't thought about watering down the products, but I did get the generic versions at CVS this year. So far so good.

I miss the pedicures the most. I've tried DIY but seriously, I think a kindergartener could do a better job. I spend more time cleaning up with a q-tip and some nail polish remover than I do polishing the nails. Looks okay in dressy shoes, less so in flip flops.

Fortunately, or unfortunately, depending how you look at it, hair isn't my problem--I don't have any! Guess now I'm finally reaping the financial benefits of a long struggle with alopecia and hair loss.

Good luck to you and keep sharing your tips!

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Growing It Out, Again

Like Vered, the big money saver for me is the hair. I'm growing it out, planning to give away a dozen inches to Locks of Love. Yeah, yeah,  it'll take me two years and, in the meantime, no hair cuts. (This will be my third donation.) As for shampooing? I've started sending away for samples. It'll take me another two years to get through all those freebies.