Childfree Women Bloggers

Hey Teri!

I just started my own blog about being childfree by choice http://www.childfreelifecoach.com

Up until a few months ago, I felt quite alone in my decision to remain childless, until i stumbled upon someones childfree blog. Then i came across many others and finally I decided to start my own. I think it's important to talk about this and not to remain silent.

I'm 22, married and have chosen to be childfree. We made this decision before getting married.. Now if only everyone else in our life would accept it!

I love the way you labelled us without labels :) Thank you for the definitions! It makes it easier to speak about the many and diverse women/men who do not want kids without directly calling them childfree.

My childfree blog is childfreefeminist.wordpress.com!

I am over 40, no kids, and it took me a long time to accept it.

Teri-
Hey, I'm glad you pointed out that couples are families. Really liked your post and just wanted to say- hey, I'm here to be counted. I recently started a blog about how moms and women without kids can be friends because there really seems to be a big drop off in friendship once kids arrive.
http://thebigbabydivide.blogspot.com/

I have recently started a blog about my decision not to have children:

http://whydontyouhavekids.blogspot.com/

I am very happily childfree by choice and thrilled to find this thread of other women like me.  Nice to hear "Me too!" instead of "You'll change your mind in a few years." 

I think there are many of us. I made a choice I can live with and really enjoy!

It is natural for me to think of what I am rather than what I am not.

Very happily child-free, taking in homeless dogs, traveling, dancing, cooking, and starting to write about it at www.anklebitingterrier.com ( http://www.anklebitingterrier.com )

I found this discussion via the "What Am I Missing" discussion.  I know it's old, but figured there was no harm in adding a post.  I've only written one post specifically about being childfree, but when it's relevant, I might mention it.  It's something I feel like I want to explore a little more on my blog, but I have concerns about how it would be received.  I feel like there can be an almost militant attitude in the diabetes community about diabetic women having children.  I've read many discussions about people getting upset if anyone suggests they shouldn't have children because of their diabetes, as if it's a ludicrous suggestion, however it's a big reason I opted to be childfree.  So many of my readers are diabetic parents or parents of diabetics, that I feel like anything I write will reflect too much of an effort to not offend them and thus won't be sincere or forthcoming, or conversely, it will just offend most of my readers.  I haven't really figured it out. 

Lee Ann Thill

The Butter Compartment ( http://www.thebuttercompartment.com )
A Lifetime of Type 1 Diabetes: War, Peace and My Mission to Help & Inspire Others

I'm originally from Brazil and have lived in the U.S. for over 6 years. I'm 43 , married and have been childfree in my body and soul ever since I can  remember.

My husband and I are happy with the lifestyle we chose for ourselves and wouldn't have  it any other way. We love to travel, eat out at fancy restaurants, sleep late and wake-up late on week-ends and we DON'T  care if we're not leaving our DNA behind us when we're gone!

We  have a cat and a dog ( our children)  and  I have recently published my first novel  'Copadrama- a Brazilian Tragicomedy' - a romantic  satire and faithful portrait of contemporary Brazilian society.

My blog's address is:  www.pamelli.blogs.sapo.pt ( http://www.pamelli.blogs.sapo.pt/ )    ( it is , however, in Portuguese)

In it I  like to write about everything - especially culture and travels- but it is also a 'diary' and definately has a 'childfree'  bend to it... - including a couple of posts  that I've specifically about childfreedom. 

Childfree Women   Women who have chosen not to have children are needed for a research study. This research is being conducted by a doctoral student who is interested in learning more about the experiences of childfree women so that mental health professionals can provide better support for these women.  To qualify for this study, you must be female, heterosexual, over the age of 40 and have no history of infertility.  If you would like to learn more about this research, please contact Dara Reyes, M.A., a doctoral student at California School of Professional Psychology – San Diego, at (619)-410-3207 or delanodumas@hotmail.com ( delanodumas@hotmail.com ). Thank you!

Hi.  I'm another "cats not kids" person, sort of.  I love other peoples' kids (which is unusual, no?)  Miss my nieces and nephews.  And I did have some feelings of sadness after my hysterectomy 2 years ago, even though I'd pretty much decided I wasn't going to procreate. 

I've been accepted into the Green Moms Blog Carnival even though I don't have my own kids.  They call me a "mother of the earth."  I'll take it, although given the choice, I'd rather skip the Mom part altogether.

I really don't blog about being child-free either, my focus being on environmental issues, especially plastic.   I do, however, find myself blogging about my kitties in spite of myself.  They are the real stars.

While I don't blog about the issue, I'd love to be included in any child-free women bloggers groups.

Beth Terry@fakeplasticfish
www.fakeplasticfish.com ( http://www.fakeplasticfish.com )
( https://twitter.com/fakeplasticfish )
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My husband and I live by the motto "Cats not kids." We have rescued many cats, and we have three of our own.

Last year, we moved to Nicaragua, and I get even more questions here than I did in the US about when I'm going to have children. So now my response is, "Gatitos, no hijos."

I recently started a blog with a friend called "Be an Anti-Goddess ( http://antigoddess.com )." The main point of the blog is to celebrate the uniqueness of all women, no matter what their life choices may be. It doesn't specifically focus on being childfree, but it does allow me to tell my story of being a childfree woman. The blog is mainly supported by user-provided content -- photos and stories from amazing women doing amazing things. I hope you will check it out if you get the chance.

Rachel, the original Anti-Goddess

Blog: Be an Anti-Goddess ( http://antigoddess.com )

 My husband and I decided that we wanted to focus on our relationship and providing a great home for our two rescue dogs.  I'm in my late twenties and don't have the need to have children.  Right now we're putting it off and going to discuss again in five years to see if our opinions have changed at all.  At that point we will pursue permanent contraceptive options.  

That being said I don't blog about it except to discuss my mirena (IUD) in relation to my healthy lifestyle quest.  

[Blog ( http://jessicaisgettingfit.blogspot.com/ )]

My co-blogger Lisa and I (at Onely.org) have both pretty much decided that we don't feel the need to have children.  I would like to read more about the community of child-free women who are also single. Much writing about child-free women focuses on coupled women (note above post's comment, " we are family members too (families of two)".

Thanks,

Christina 

I have two rescued dogs of my own and a revolving stream of foster dogs and cats who bring me endless joy and fulfillment. I also have a maternal protective feeling toward all the wildlife and plants and ecosystems on the planet, and have no desire to bring an additional human into a world that already has so many. One more human means less space more danger of extinction for my existing family, and a good mother would not expose her family to these risks.

Hi there -

I'm in my late twenties and have never wanted children.  Though I don't post about it all the time, my blog is angieoneal.com.

Take care!
Angie

I am childless by choice, having gone as far as having my tubes tied in my 20s. But I don't blog about it. It's just a part of who I am. I am not a mother... but I'm also not pro athelete and not a chef, not a gamer, not a political hot-shot, not a whole lot of things. And I rarely blog about what I'm not. So while as a woman I fit this group, as a blogger I don't.

Debra
A Stitch In Time ( http://astitchintime.blogspot.com )
Deb's Daily Distractions ( http://debsdistractions.blogspot.com )

I'm childfree by choice and have been for over two decades now. It's one of many topics I discuss on my blog. I would not feel comfortable in a category dominated by mommies, because I don't share so many of their life experiences. "Mommy and Family" is off-putting to me and is definitely NOT where I'd go on a search for childfree women's blogs.

Angry Grrl

I'm guessing you saw my comment in the thread where I talked about our invisible sub-topics and the use of "free tagging". I'm thrilled and I really hope you and many other childfree women will blog on BlogHer and take advantage of free tagging.

:-)

~Denise
BlogHer Community Manager

Fast Times @ Homeschool High ( http://fasttimes.clubmom.com ) & Flamingo House Happenings ( http://www.flamingohouse.net )

Hi Denise,
Thanks so much for your comment.

I really think you are right. I was advised to make use of BlogHer's tags in the meantime. I plan to start cross posting on my chosen topic (it's all about choice ladies), on this site, and I plan to tag as above!

BTW, we just hosted a Purple Women Count Day on November 15th from our blog. We learned that childfree women would like to read other childfree women bloggers, so we plan to create our own PW Blogroll.

Be well,

Teri Tith
Creator & Contributing Editor
Purple Women & Friends ( http://purplewomenblog.blogspot.com )

I am childfree by choice. Never wanted them ever. And despite the number of people who were sure I'd change my mind, I never did. It's funny how many people ask about the kid thing now that i've recently gotten married. I start out by saying that I'm 43, so you know, that horse has left the barn, but I'm amazed at the number of people who think 43 is a perfectly reasonable time to start procreating. So, then I have to really specify: no thanks, not interested.

All that being said: I don't blog about the issue. Now, this is part of the not blogging about many aspects of my personal and family life. My personal blog doesn't run to the intensely personal, if you know what I mean.

So, I don't even know if I fit into a category of Childfree Women Bloggers, because it's not at all a topic I cover or discuss.

Elisa Camahort
BlogHer
elisa@blogher.org

Life would be the section I'd drop my childfree blog into first - If I had a childfree blog, that is. Then, if I wrote about family on my blog then I'd also fit into Mommy & Family - that "& family" part means "AND" family - all sorts of family. BlogHer doesn't attempt to define what a family is.

:-)

~Denise
Fast Times @ Homeschool High ( http://fasttimes.clubmom.com ) & Flamingo House Happenings ( http://www.flamingohouse.net )