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The Choice Between Cloth and Disposable Diapers

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When my son was born eight years ago, I thought I would use cloth diapers.  Really, I did.  I planned to be a green, crunchy granola mother, using breastfeeding, attachment parenting and cloth diapers.  This was all before it was super hip to be green.  When I was pregnant, I spoke another mom and she said I was crazy to try cloth diapers.  Breastfeeding was good, because the "plumbing" was all there, but cloth diapers was another story. 

My mother had saved all my cloth diapers from when I was a baby and had given me a stack of around 40 diapers with pins.  Now, 33-year-old cloth diapers may not appeal to some, but they were super soft cotton in large rectangles. The new cloth diapers I received as gifts were not as soft as these. I looked up how to fold cloth diapers on the internet and I purchased some vinyl pants to go with them.  I also learned that you could buy paper inserts which you could use to capture the solids and flush them down the toilet, reducing the amount of cleaning.  When I was at work, I would practice folding napkins into the shape of diapers.  Really, I was committed to use them!  But as my due date approached, I started getting free samples of disposable diapers.  OK, I thought, I would just use them when I was outside of the home for convenience.  For that matter, I bought one package of disposable diapers "just in case".

When my son was born, he was immediately placed in newborn disposable diapers.  The first time I changed his diaper in the hospital (I was eager to practice and didn't pawn off this work to the nurses), I was shocked that meconium was like black sticky tar.  Gross!  No way would I want to have to clean that off cloth diapers.  When we brought our baby home, he was still transitioning from meconium to the mustard poop of breastfed babies, so we kept him in disposables.  After the first week, there was no turning back.  I didn't realize that newborns pooped every two hours (or at least mine did) and that nothing could contain blowouts.  For the uninitiated, a blowout is where poop comes out of the back of the diaper and up the baby's back.  Because breastfed baby poop is essentially liquid, it can go through several layers of clothing in a matter of seconds.  If that's the case, it would go right through cloth diapers as well.  Inserts would not make a difference.  I just didn't want to find out. 

In the early days of being a new mother, anything that made things easier was better in my book.  Breastfeeding was easier than having to prepare and clean bottles.  Disposable diapers were easier than cloth diapers.  That was probably my main reason for not ever trying cloth diapers.  We did make good use of the hand-me-down cloth diapers.  Both my kids used them as security blankets and my daughter, who is nearly five, still needs one when she is upset or when she goes to sleep.  They have been loved to tatters and only a few handful remain.  We did pay the price for using disposable diapers in cost, guilt for filling landfills, and prolonged potty training periods because they are too absorbent for kids to understand what is going on down there.

If you look around nowadays, cloth diapers have come a long way, even from eight years ago.  If I were a new mother today, and I didn't have the pressure of using old-fashioned cloth diapers that were handed down, I might just try the new cloth diapers systems.  According to Consumer Reports, major brands of cloth diapers, all-in-ones, and cloth diapering systems are Bum Genius, Bumkins, Fuzzi Bunz, Gerber, Kushies, and Swaddlebees.  Many systems are are convenient at disposable diapers, with velcro tabs, cool colors and designs.  Look at these cute options:

Prints from Swaddlebees.

Dr. Seuss from Bumkins.

The biggest obstacle to tackling cloth diapers is the cleaning.  According to iVillage, there are new materials that allow you to use a dry pail method without the soaking. An alternative to both cloth and disposable diapers are flushable diapers.  gDiapers offers a diaper where you can remove a biodegradable insert and

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TheFeministBreeder 5 pts

I just started cloth with my 9 month old second child, and have put my toddler in cloth training pants.  I was firmly against cloth for a number of reasons before (messy, expensive to start up, too much work, etc., etc.) but finally some moms I respect gave me a little nudge in the cloth direction and even helped me navigate the complicated waters.  I'm so, so glad they did.  Cloth diapers are just adorable.

Boy, if I had a dollar for everything I DIDN'T know with my first baby, I'd be a jillionaire.  I only became "crunchy" with baby #2, and now I wonder what the heck I was thinking the first time around.  I'm mom-less so I didn't have anyone around to tell me how to mommy, but normally I'm the queen of research.  I guess the first time I didn't research much past "what is this weird pregnancy pain I'm feeling."  I wonder how much better I'll be at this by the next kid?

The Feminist Breeder
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caninelover 5 pts

 I have been using a new type of disposable diaper called gDiapers ( http://www.diaperseek.com/diaper_brands/gdiapers/ ). Since reading how many tons of diapers go into landfills I have become much more environmentally concious. I stumbled across the gDiaper on a trip to the mountains. We went to a health food store and I discovered them. It's interesting how they work, not much more trouble than a regular diaper. They have an insert that is flushable and biodegradable. 

Amy Swenson

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amygeekgrl 5 pts

I've done both cloth and disposables over the past 4+years and each have their advantages. First of all, I never had poop blowouts using cloth (prefolds with Proraps). I have had blowouts using sposies.

My daughter had bad rashes in sposies, not in cloth.

I like that you can customize the absorbancy of the cloth by adding more inserts/layers/etc. (for naps. bedtime, etc.).

I keep my cloth dipes in a dry pail and when I wash them I run a rinse cycle, hot wash/cold rinse, and do a dbl spin (to help get out as much water as possible). I really don't find it to be a big deal and wash diapers once a week. 

As for sposies, I do like the 7th Generation brand when we go on trips, etc., but they are expensive. 

Ultimately, everyone has to do what works for them, but I think sometimes cloth seems very daunting before ppl try it, but once they do (esp. nowadays when there are so many options), they are pleasantly surprised and hooked! :)

Amy
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moonfever0 5 pts

We are all done with having kids, so I won't be trying any new diapers. But it's great to hear that you managed to do all six of yours in cloth!

Angela at mommy bytes ( http://www.mommybytes.com )

Carmen S 5 pts

And once I got the hang of it, I truly preferred them to disposables. I tried just about every brand out there, and by far I preferred either the kissaluvs or just a prefold, in a snap cover. 

I used a dry pail system and just washed them every three or four days.  I took them on trips, even, much to the dismay of my hubby, because I couldn't stand to throw away that much trash.

Try it.  You might be surprised at how easy it is!

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Carmen

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Blue State Cowgirl 5 pts

What's really come a long way is diaper services. Just bought three months for a shower present for a pregnant friend. Tiny Tots of the SF Bay Area requires only that you throw the dirty diaper in a closed, recommended diaper pail and put it outside. They'll pick it up, they'll do all the cleaning. NO rinsing, no muss. 

Blue State Cowgirl

moonfever0 5 pts

It's good to know that the new cloth systems contains blowouts! Not that I need another baby to find out ;).

Angela at mommy bytes ( http://www.mommybytes.com )

moonfever0 5 pts

By the time my second baby came, my first was still in diapers, so it was just easier to stick with disposables instead of trying something new. The only thing I did use for the second was a reusable cloth swim diaper. Those never got dirty anyway :).

Angela at mommy bytes ( http://www.mommybytes.com )

moonfever0 5 pts

I'm totally with you on being tempted to have another kid to try out these cloth diapers. But whew! Momentary lapse of reason. Maybe by the time I have grandkids, it will be the norm again.

Angela at mommy bytes ( http://www.mommybytes.com )

alyssaroyse 5 pts

Wow, diapers have come a long way in 10 years since I needed them. I'm alsmost tempted to have another kid just so I can use those. 

Wait, who am I kidding.  My daughter just got out of the shower, dried her own hair and made herself lunch..... 

But wow, I'd use cloth if I had those options!

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felicepd 5 pts

I used cloth diapers (Kushies and Bumkins) for my son, starting when he was a few weeks old. I had no problems getting the diapers clean (and I used a dry pail, rather than a constant soak). I did pre-soak them before laundering. I also breastfed my son and had much better luck with the blowout stype poops with cloth than with disposables. When I'd used disposables (on vacation, when all diapers were in the wash) I had more blowout leaks. The Kushies really seemed to absorb and contain well.

-- Felice

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AmberS 5 pts

I used disposables with my first, and now I'm using cloth with my second.  Although number 2 started out in disposables as well - most moms don't use cloth that first week, because of the meconium.  After doing both I agree that parental comfort is most important. There are pros and cons to both.

I also agree that it's way easier to use the new-style cloth diapers.  After a few weeks with older-style diapers from the service I can say I probably wouldn't be doing this if I had to fold and pin.  And I actually have far fewer blowouts with my pocket diapers than I did with disposables, probably because they're so huge.  Nothing can escape them. ;-)

~ Amber

www.strocel.com ( http://www.strocel.com )

moonfever0 5 pts

Choosing a diaper service would depend on your location. When I checked for diaper services near where I live in Massachusetts, the nearest one was 30 miles away. I think back when I pregnant, there was one closer, but they are still on the decline. The added carbon footprint of hauling diapers back and forth would definitely not be worth it for me!

Angela at mommy bytes ( http://www.mommybytes.com )