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Choosing an Urban Public School

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A few months before our first son was born, my husband and I moved into a charming downtown sort of neighborhood with many amenities: historic homes, tree-lined streets, shops and restaurants within walking distance. The community was eclectic and diverse, but good public education not one of the selling points. It was assumed that by the time our not-yet-born child turned five, we would move to a standard suburb with high scoring public schools.

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So when I read Katie Granju’s Public Schools in Gentrifying ‘Hoods: Who Wants to Go First on Babble, I knew where she was coming from:

The public schools for which our neighborhood is zoned aren’t considered very good. Their test scores don’t measure up, and in some cases, the physical facilities aren’t great. They certainly don’t look or feel anything like the bright, shiny public elementary schools in the more upscale parts of town. Plus, as I said, I don’t actually know ONE SINGLE PERSON who is currently sending his or her child to our neighborhood’s public schools. And let’s face it, it’s scary to think of having my own child “go first,” as it were.

As Kindergarten loomed for our first-born, we researched schools: charter, magnet, private. I studied up on ways to apply for inter-district transfers, and attempted to juggle our expenses to squeeze out the annual private school tuition. For a brief moment, I considered home-schooling. Out of due diligence, we even toured our local public school.

The morning we visited the neighborhood elementary school will forever be one of those pivotal life moments for our family. There was the realization that significant percentage of the student body qualified for free lunch, that the same percentage also were non-native English speakers, and that the school’s overall test scores were not a selling point to people who are interested in such statistics.

But the kids looked happy. The teachers were experienced and caring. And as the principal informed me, “All public schools use the same curriculum.”

In the school office that morning, we met up with other families similar to ours. We all shared the same concerns. Like Katie Granju and her neighbors, we all looked at each other. Only instead of asking, “Who’s going in first?”, we said to each other, “We’re all going in together, right?”

That was five years ago. My older son just started fourth grade and my younger one is in first. I’ll admit, it hasn’t always been easy. Meeting the needs of disparate groups of children is a challenge. It’s not easy to bridge language and cultural differences to create a truly unified student body. Our population does not have the fundraising base that wealthy bedroom communities have.

In spite of all those things, our neighborhood -- and our school -- are the core of our community. And there is hope and enthusiasm for it.

Denene Miller of My Brown Baby recently wrote a piece called In Defense of Poor Public Schools on Parenting.com. I got all teary-eyed as I read it.

Classes were racially, ethnically and economically diverse; the school wasn’t some drab, dreary, gray affair but a bright, warm place that felt like kids could be happy there; teachers, staff and principal were friendly and accommodating and eager to show us that they could hang with our girls; and everyone welcomed me to become a part of the fabric of their vibrant school.

For all the negative stereotypes of urban public schools, they are also the source of life lessons that aren’t found in the standard core curriculum. The parents in our community are much more highly engaged than in more affluent neighboring campuses. Nothing catalyzes volunteerism and political involvement as much as seeing the effects of a broken educational children wrought on your children. Which is not to make it sound like sending my children to an urban public school is simply a bourgeois “do-gooder” act, or a holding hands across the railroad tracks while singing Kumbaya stunt.

The fact of the matter is that private school simply doesn’t pencil out for many parents – even educated, professional parents. Even if they are White or Asian. Unless something changes, inner-city public schools are a bellwether of what’s to come for all public schools.

I can’t promise that my children will always attend this kind of school. There are too many uncertainties. But for some, mainly low-income Latino and Black children, there are no other choices.

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getgln 5 pts

Hi Grace,

"Have you seen inequities in the public school system based on race and class?"

Yes, the students who attend the bilingual immersion schools (such as my daughter's) have an unfair advantage. To name one, they will be able to test out of the second language requirement in college.

"Where do we even begin to fix this?"

The U.S. should track student test scores by ZIP code (not 'race'). This will clearly show where the tutoring centers need to be located. If the U.S. is serious about no children being left behind they will build the tutoring centers where they are most needed.

jenmardunc 5 pts

My family lives in Iowa in a university town. Our neighborhood is very diverse, and our neighborhood school reflects that diversity. My husband and I never questioned sending our mixed race kids anywhere else because there isn't anywhere else nearby to send them where they can see other kids who look like them, and experience such diversity. The test scores for their school overall are not that good. As an educator, I know that standardized tests do not always truly reflect kids' knowledge, ability, and intelligence. The tests given yearly to meet NCLB requirements rarely cover material that is taught in my children's classrooms. How can we judge a school based on test scores over material the kids never learned? As a parent, I know that there are more important things than a school's overall test scores. The important factors to me: Are my children showing growth? Do they learn? Do they like school? Do they have friends and seem happy? If I want to give credence to the test scores, I look at their individual scores: Are my kids doing well, even if the school overall is not? My oldest just entered 6th grade. There has only been one year, one teacher, who made me question whether or not we'd made the right decision--and that doubt didn't have anything to do with the quality of instruction; rather it was about a personality clash that made life uncomfortable for my kid in the classroom. With the exception of that one year/one grade, all three of my kids have thrived in their neighborhood school. They are growing as readers, writers, and mathematicians. They are happy--and also are doing very well on the standardized tests, despite the fact that their school has been on the "failing" list for the past 4 years. Their success sure doesn't sound like failure to me.

HomeRearedChef 86 pts

Because we had no choice or say so where our kids would go to school, we home-schooled our children. The school they would have gone to also had low scores and were rated high for violence. As it turned out, since I was a stay-home mom, our kids remained in home-schooling, This worked very well as our children all had high SAT scores (in the high 90th percentile).

Home-schooling them meant we needed to make sure they were involved in activities outside of the home. This kept us very busy!

Grace Hwang Lynch 22 pts

HomeRearedChef I didn't know you home schooled your kids! We have several friends who home school, although I never really felt that was the right option for us. Sounds like you did a great job, though.

HomeRearedChef 86 pts

Grace Hwang Lynch It was through a Christian organization in Washington, Hewitt Research. My oldest got married and became a mom (smile!), my middle child is a writer, and my youngest, our son, is a math major. He has passed his first actuarial test with 100%. Yes, I am so very proud of my children. If you could see me now, I am beaming!

Jody Chang 5 pts

I really resonate with this posting, Grace.

We love our public school (just around the corner from Grace's!), and are very glad we chose it for our two daughters. As my husband and I have discussed our educational philosophy, we've realized that being in a mixed-income, urban, multi-ethnic elementary school is something we value highly for our girls' development.

We've chosen to go the private school route for middle school, but felt that the life lessons learned in a diverse environment were not to be traded at the elementary school level.

Grace Hwang Lynch 22 pts

Jody Chang

Thanks, Jody! I knew there would be other public school parents who could relate. And hopefully, others who are on the fence who will see the nuances of this kind of educational environment.

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hapamamagrace one of the preschools I visited was mostly asian. i chose it on purpose