Christmas for two?
by kazariFor me, Christmas has always been about loud and joyous gatherings of relatives. We are not churchy people, my family, and my husband calls himself an evangelical atheist. So our Christmases have been about generosity, sharing, gratitude and loved ones. Oh, and lots and lots of food.
This year is different. Our family is on the other side of the country and we won't be going home. We have celebrated other Christmas's away, but this year our friends have scattered to the four winds. In all probability, my husband and I will celebrate this Christmas alone.
It feels odd.
We will dig out the decorations and make gingerbread and send cards. But how do you fill a whole Christmas day without gathering people? What will we do without two separate lunches, and group present openings, and boozy reunions? I've been garnering suggestions from friends and colleague, and we haven't quite decided yet. I'm sharing the list in hopes of further inspiration. Please let me know if you have any big ideas!
Idea No 1. Stay in bed.
Give each other the gift of a whole slothful day, with dvds and new pjamas as presents, and lots of finger food to eat.
Idea No 2. Volunteer at the Salvation Army Christmas Lunch.
Does this happen in your town? Here it is quite an institution, and I've always wanted to help out.
Idea No 3. The swanky restaurant lunch.
Get dressed up to the nines and eat out. Requires booking ahead, apparently. And if it's a typical Australian Christmas, it will be stinking hot. But it could be quite special and very romantic.
Idea No 4. Weekend away.
For us this would mean a weekend at the beach, but I it could have been the ski fields if we lived elsewhere. Packing the swimsuit and the sun screen is very appealing, but the hundreds of other beach bunnies? Not so much.
(For clarification: for those of us in the southern hemisphere, December is the middle of summer. We still celebrate Christmas in December. And our Christmas lunch is just as likely to include cherries and prawns as baked ham and steamed pudding)
How do you celebrate a small Christmas? And what will you be cooking if there's not enough people for a big roast with all the trimmings?
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Movies
Here in the states there is usually I movie opening on Christmas day and it is a tradition in our house to go to the movies.
Of course I always get to pick which one, it is one of my presents.
You can do whatever you want
Really, you can. After spending the past 8 or 9 years doing Christmas predominantly alone I'm thrilled to be having a Christmas for two. lol We're planning to open presents, have a nice brunch, then a big dinner and spend the day in our jammies in front of the fire watching movies and reading books. And maybe playing some Wii. We might have people come over in the evening if they want but probably not.
Sassymonkey and Sassymonkey Reads.
The movies?
Wow, I would never have thought of that! I'll have to see what's showing.
And sassymonkey, your day sounds like it will be wonderful. I think ours will end up similar.
Thankyou both for your responses : )
We're considering a movie marathon
A Die Hard movie marathon to be specific. The first two *are* holiday movies...
Sassymonkey and Sassymonkey Reads.
We've just been to New Zealand
so i was thinking about sitting down to watch all the Lord of the Rings movies again. But Die Hard would be awesome!
In addition to the suggestions above
See who among your friends or co-workers who might want to join you.
One friend has contacted her local college to get the name of students who aren't able to go home. She always invites a couple fo her dinner.
There are often people we work with or who are in our neighborhood who might appreciate an invite.
And Christmas for two can be whatever you make it...as self-indulgent as you like. I'd probably do a combo of private and some public event like the movies, or volunteering, etc.
Enjoy!
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Good and plenty!