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As much as I complain during the school year about school lunches, driving kids back and forth to school, after school clubs and concerts... I CANNOT WAIT for school to start again.

I know, I'm such a contradiction.

I really do hate all of those things but what I love is a good schedule. Without a schedule I'm doomed, doomed I say. (Was that a wee bit melodramatic or what?) It isn't the kids who are driving me nuts... it's the freedom. I need schedules.

I like knowing exactly what time I need to get up in order to have an hour of quiet work time before the kids start moving toward the showers. In the summer, I never know when someone is going to wake up. It could be early, it could be late, it could be not until the kid is dragged from his bed.

The drive across town, to the kids' schools is a pain, but I enjoy it because we read the paper together or listen to oldies or find ourselves discussing things we never expected to discuss. In the summer, everyone is off doing their own things and we don't always have that forced together time. With teens, sometimes that's the only time you can get them to talk with more than a grunt or two.

I like the set dinner times during the school year. I like the set bedtime. In the summer, everything is looser and easier and it drives me nuts.

Here are some moms who are starting to think about back to school... and they don't all agree with me. Who knew?

  • I am that mom
  • School? School? School!
  • Less than 3 weeks 'til school starts
  • How many more days 'til school starts? Are you looking forward to it, like I am?

    ~~Denise
    Flamingo House Happenings

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    Denise 9 pts moderator

    That has always been tough. It's actually why I sent my two younger ones (I'm just talking about my original three) to pre-school. They both were just livid that they could not go to school when the older one(s) went. So preschool a couple of days a week helped that.

    ~Denise
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    Denise 9 pts moderator

    And they aren't driving you crazy? I'm in awe.

    ~Denise
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    Denise 9 pts moderator

    What does that look like? What's the best "ME time" tip you can give?

    ~Denise
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    Denise 9 pts moderator

    OK I'll admit to liking that part too. It's been a long time since I had the house to myself with TW working at home, her mom living here... and then before that, we were homeschooling Michelle.

    It's been years... I'm looking forward to them all going off to college, hah.

    ~Denise
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    Denise 9 pts moderator

    Magic school schedules. Hmmm need to sprinkle chalk dust on your summer schedule maybe?

    ~Denise
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    Denise 9 pts moderator

    When my older kids started driving, it drove me insane. The worry was worse than having to drive them everywhere.

    ~Denise
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    Denise 9 pts moderator

    And personally, I think bad moms are great moms. But I would since I'm one of them. ;-)

    ~Denise
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    B_houseoverflowing 5 pts

    I am completely ready for the older 3 to go back to school.  I think there will be less bloodshed.  The twins and the oldest start the week out well but by Thursday or Friday they are at each other's throats.  They have a schedule every day but I think it is the schedule inside the school building that must have a magic affect upon them.  I know life is much more pleasent when they have a few hours away.

    B

    FeeFiFoto 5 pts

    The scheduling is definitely a double-edged sword.  My son definitely does much better when he knows what's coming and what has to be done.  On the other hand -- the driving.  The Driving!!  I swear, the minute my son turns 16 my driver's license is going in the shredder.

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    Southerngirl 5 pts

    I hate all of the diving and running around during school but I love KNOWING where we need to be and when.  The summer is just too much open time. The bad mom in me also loves those karate and dance nights when I know they are so tired that bedtime is a forgone conclusion, no fighting or negotiating.  LOVE IT. I know, bad mom! 

    Michelle

    I blog at http://www.mommycan.blogspot.com/

    Baya G. 5 pts

    As a mother of two,  the hectic pace definitely comes to a screeching halt during the summer. 

    With two kids, at two schools, out the door almost every night because of extra curricular activites, homework demands, school projects, etc, I absolutely LOVE the break.

    Most importantly, I love having my children home during any break during the school year.  Their childhood is going by so fast and I cherish every moment with them.  Before you know it, their friends become a priority, they have summer jobs, they are out more.

    At this moment, my son is working two days a week at Santa's Village,  because as he says, "mom, i'm still a kid and want to enjoy the summer, and my little girl is enjoying each day whether she is playing with her friends, or hanging out with good old mom.

    Oh yes, the good old days of summer will be coming to an end soon, and we will be back to a hectic life, but I certainly will look back to summer with fond memories.

    Baya

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    JennaHatfield 10 pts

    I know BB is only in preschool but, I have to agree: we function better with a schedule as well. Similarly, BB has been asking about school for the past week. I know he'll be happier when he is back in his school setting. However, I'm kind of dreading the first week or so as LB is likely to be quite peeved that he's not going to school with his brother. I've been working a blog in my head on this very subject as of late. 

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    cerebrally_orgasmic 5 pts

    I have mixed feelings about the beginning of school. Even though it's summertime, I still try to have some sort of schedule for the kids to follow, cuz if not, our house would be in TOTAL chaos!! I'll miss them being here during the day, but on the flip side I look forward to havin' more ME time while they are in school.

    If drama were vodka, my family would be SO wasted!!

    laurie 5 pts

    I work better when I have structure, too. And I love having the house to myself.

    Laurie

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