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Court States You Can't Get Raped in Skinny Jeans

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People have connected clothing to rape for years, usually from the angle that the woman must want sex due to what she's wearing. Taking the discussion a dangerous step further, an Australian court acquitted Nicholas Gonzales of rape charges based on the idea that skinny jeans are so difficult to get off, that the woman would therefore need to consent to sex if the jeans were removed. In other words, the denim chastity belt defense.

According to the Sydney Morning Herald,

During the trial the jury sent a note to the judge asking for more information about "how exactly Nick took off her jeans."

"I doubt those kind of jeans can be removed without any sort of collaboration," the note read.

Today, the Sydney Morning Herald reported that District Court Judge Penelope Hock denied Gonzales' appeal for legal costs, citing "medical evidence suggesting the 24-year-old woman had been sexually assaulted."

Dr Rosemary Isaacs, who examined the complainant on April 10, 2008, had found "evidence of trauma" around her genital region. "In my view Dr Isaacs's evidence was compelling, particularly in relation to (the allegation of anal intercourse)," Judge Hock said, adding that such evidence had been available at the time the proceedings were started. Accordingly it was not unreasonable for the prosecution to have taken the matter to trial.

This isn't the first time skinny jeans has come up as a defense in a rape case, and this ruling sadly comes only weeks after April 21, or Demim Day, which is a yearly part of sexual assault awareness month. On this day, women are encouraged to wear jeans to protest this exact same denim chastity belt defense, which was used in Italy in 1992 to free a man convicted of rape.

The judge overlooked the evidence and the death threats. He was either unaware or simply didn't care about law enforcement's standard warning against attempting to fight a physically dominant rapist, lest it enrage him further. Instead, he relied on the archaic "she was asking for it" rape defense and freed a sexual predator.

But it's not just a "she was asking for it" argument. It's also a "she must have wanted it because she took off the jeans herself" defense. And it's coupled with the unbelievable fact that more than one man has used this successfully to explain a violent sexual encounter including two appeals cases in 2008 -- in South Korea (in which the conviction was overturned) and Italy (where it wasn't>.

Feministing decries that this defense "smacks of slut shaming and victim blaming." That it cements the idea that wearing certain articles of clothing makes rape permissible. Trespass Magazine wryly comments that skinny jeans must therefore be anti-rape jeans since no one can be raped in them./

Following this logic, one is to justifiably assume, if skinny jeans cannot be removed by one person, skinny jean wearers must regularly enlist the assistance of a removalist each time they need to take their pants off; when they, for example, use the toilet, or undress at the end of the day, or even undress when changing their minds about wearing skinny jeans in the first place.

And of course, they point out how rulings such as this one will not only allow a guilty person to go free and have a chance to perpetuate the crime again, but that women will think twice about stepping forward and turning in a man after a rape when they know that after all of the heartache of the trial, the message sent will be that they not only brought it upon themselves, but it was consensual to boot.

Shakesville seconded Tresspass Magazine's line of thinking, and checks in with her understanding of how clothing comes into play when discussing rape:

Just to be sure I understand The Rules, a short skirt means I'm "asking for it," and skinny jeans are axiomatic evidence of consent. Got it.

There was no room in the ruling for the idea of a survival strategy--that the woman may have helped take off the jeans in order to save herself from other promised violence, which is what happened in the 1992 case in Italy. There is only the idea that if the jeans came off, consent was given.

And that, frankly, makes me more than just a little ill.

What are your feelings on the ruling?

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens and Lost and Found. Her book is Navigating the Land of If.

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alexash 5 pts

Mel, I just saw this via Morgan of the818. Fifteen months later and BlogHer Entertainment has a story about the rape clause in the MTV reality show contracts. Will we ever live in a world where women aren't seen as somehow enabling the sexual acts of violence committed against them?

MoreThanABlonde 5 pts

This is absolutely disgusting. I am horrified by what I just read. I'm sorry when you have to choose between getting beat to hell (or worse) or being raped, while neither is a good place to be you know if you don't fight back too much you have a better chance of walking away with your life.

Morgan Shanahan 8 pts

This is so horrifyingly crazy...I just...I'm going to need to collect my thoughts and return.

Melissa Ford 7 pts

Which makes me wonder why anyone would step forward and subject themselves to a trial. What an awful world where people can do such heinous things and get away with them.

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

Melissa Ford 7 pts

That struck a chord with me here--can there ever truly be a jury of peers if the peers are so far outside the experience that they don't understand it? Are those peers?

I wondered how many of them had ever endured a violent situation like that if they knew what they would do when faced with the same danger.

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

bakingbarrister 5 pts

When someone has you trapped, or is threatening you with more violence, and you don't think you can overpower them or get away, you kind of just do what you're told. And in case these people haven't noticed, most skinny jeans I have seen are stretchy, so the notion that she helped him because they look tight is sort of far fetched.

Anyway, this sort of defense/assertion is part of the "Nuts or Sluts" defense we commonly see in sexual assault cases here in the US. Basically, defense attorneys try to paint women as either crazy or slutty in order to discredit them. Unfortunately, our courts, like Australia's, are also not immune to these kind of 'she asked for it' assertions. In fact, they're more than expected these days.

It's sad that justice systems around the world help validate such ignorant thoughts about women.

S.

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Keira 5 pts

I agree that this is completely sickening. What annoys me on top of it, though, is that it doesn't seem that anyone asks why she might remove them herself. I'm not at all suggesting that this woman did, but I am suggesting that in a hypothetical case, a woman may have reasons too that did not amount to consent.

Maybe she was threatened with other violence if she didn't. Maybe she thought she would be less likely to suffer further that way. Maybe she had consented to some level of intimacy and then things went beyond the consented acts (rape). Its not like so called 'date rape' never happens.

It makes me wonder about the benefits of having a jury made up of my (largely bigoted) peers.

IsleDance 5 pts

Exactly.

And why they can't grasp that is beyond me.

One Friday night, I loaded up my life and headed out... ( http://isledance.blogspot.com )

Melissa Ford 7 pts

And what do you do when your mainstream clothing options are clothes that would never make it through a school dress code? We had a terrible time with that when I taught. The clothing stores carried clothing that couldn't pass our very lenient dress code. It's as if we're setting up girls to fail and punishing them in these huge ways.

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

Blaubaer 5 pts

I should have said the jury before, not the judge since it was the jury that decided the outcome of the case. I tried to find out more information about this and it didn't seem like there's much around.

ms_lorelei 5 pts

...I'm nauseated.

My daughter is tiny - skinny jeans are sometimes the only things that fit her well. Plus, all her friends wear them and she wants to fit in.

Not that I think someone wanting to assault her is lurking around a corner, it just brings home the reality of what these atrocities mean.

Our daughters wear skinny jeans, and short skirts. Our normal, everyday, teen daughters.

Who apparently are viewed as potential sluts by the courts.

Melissa Ford 7 pts

Thank you for translating her weight into pounds. I'm not sure if people knew how small she was. Though we don't know her attacker's size.

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

Melissa Ford 7 pts

Because rape isn't really about sex. It's about power and it's about violence.

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

Melissa Ford 7 pts

And as they take those six steps backwards, I wonder how many other cases like this we're going to hear over the next years. Will this case simply be added to the list as someone writes a post the next time there is a ruling like this? Because my clenched stomach tells me that there will probably be a next time if this isn't overturned.

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

Blaubaer 5 pts

This is terrible! Especially as the woman only weighed 42kg (a bit less than 93 pounds). A tiny woman like that could be over-powered by a man effortlessly, and he could take as long as he wanted to get the jeans off. I don't think the judge understands how much physically weaker a woman can be sometimes. Poor girl.

IsleDance 5 pts

Of course women want sex. Just like men want sex.

But one still has to ask permission. And one still has to give permission.

Why this is so hard for people to grasp, is beyond me.

One Friday night, I loaded up my life and headed out... ( http://isledance.blogspot.com )

Deb Rox 5 pts

And I stand corrected: because I've worked on sexual assault awareness month campaigns for years and years -- and recently said that it surely must be time to be done with Denim Day--thinking that old case from Italy in the 90s can't seem very relevant anymore when trying to raise awareness about the issue now, can it? The Australian case is six steps backwards. Ridiculously wrong.

Deb Rox

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Melissa Ford 7 pts

Sadder still, how many more times will it happen in the future? Or how many more times will a woman not step forward after hearing the ruling on this case because they don't want to go through the trial only to be accused as being consensual?

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

sassymonkey 31 pts moderator

Though why the heck I knew about when I was barely a teenager is beyond me. I remember being horrified by it though and thought that surely that could not happen and if it did surely it couldn't happen again.

Sigh.

Contributing Editor Sassymonkey also blogs at Sassymonkey ( http://sassymonkey.ca ) and Sassymonkey Reads ( http://sassymonkeyreads.ca ).

Melissa Ford 7 pts

I hadn't heard of Demin Day until today and thought this ruling was the first of its kind. It made me feel more queasy to know it had been used as a defense before.

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

laurie 5 pts

I had never heard of the case in Italy or this one. I am furious. And nauseated.

Laurie

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