Raising Kids With Trauma Bonds

Trauma bonds. Mmmmm. It's a phrase which warms the cockles of some of our hearts. *cough* Children who come from traumatic histories share a bond ... a trauma bond. For children who have lived together during that trauma, it can be even more pronounced. What does this mean - this "trauma bond" thing? ...more

No she does not want our help. She lives with her other mother who spoils her with the ...more

Teen Dating Violence

Teen dating abuse and violence is a growing problem; some recent reports in the media shed light on it and programs that have been set up to help address it....more

How to Stick to a Schedule, when you're a BUSY Mom!!!

 Lately, I've gotten several emails about putting your babies on a schedule like Brayden is. I thought it might be best if I answered you in a post in case anyone else was interested. I'm by no means an expert - this is just what worked for us and for Brayden. All babies are different and what works for B is just what works for B.I'm a stay at home mom....more

Dress Codes are for Everyone

I just became aware of the dress code issue in Mesquite County Texas regarding the length of 4 year old Taylor's hair.  If you aren't aware, here's a link to an AP story and video....more

Do special diets help autistic children? Absolutely!

I saw an article with the following headline, dated January 04, 2010: Journal Says No Proof Special Diets Help Autistic ChildrenHaving a child on the autistic spectrum, I can truly attest that this latest finding is infuriatingly shocking to me. I can only guess that it is inconclusive and nobody is willing to make a claim that they can't seem to find any hard proof to back it up with.Here's a portion of the article:...more

Mr. Binks and Mr. Blankie

MOMS - I need your help!Somebody is very attached to his Mr. Binks. So much so that if you ask him where Mr. Binks is, that he hunts it down and shoves it in his mouth. This is, of course, assuming that it isn't already in his mouth....more

From Teenage Mother to Parenting a Teenager - Ooooh, Scary

Occasionally, me and my Mom would get into a disagreement that would make my mom so fed up that she would force a conclusion to the discussion by saying, "Wait 'till you have your own kids. You'll see." As a kid, I felt like just getting that statement out of her meant that I had won the argument. Whatever she was saying that I did not agree with would be heard no more because I had forced a conclusion to the discussion. . But then there's the element of Kharma. ...more

Lessons from a 6-Year-Old

My son started Grade 1 this year, and he had very mixed emotions going into it. He was excited to be a "big boy," but he didn't want to leave behind playing in the pirate nook and dressing up as Spiderman during free play....more

Fit Mom = Fit Family

Fit momma. That is what I want my nickname to be. At the moment I am about 40 pounds away from that moniker but I am working on it. Avidly. Right now a more appropriate name for me is Fat Mommy. Not Phat or any other cutesy way of defining it but fat. Obese actually. My body mass index is in the obese range and has been there since my pregnancy. I had my son 2.5 years ago and I have done very little to rectify the situation. ...more