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 <description>&lt;p&gt;enise,&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I could have used this resource when I was teaching.  Another teacher and I were shocked to discover that many of our teen girls didn&#039;t know that it wasn&#039;t OK for thier boyfriends to hit them.  They didn&#039;t perceive this as physical abuse.  &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;And many of the boys didn&#039;t know that if a girl says &quot;no&quot; before penetration.. and the boy continues (&quot;because she gave signals that said &quot;yes&quot;) that might be pertetrating rape.  Yeah, there were some interesting discussions there...&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Debra&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href=&quot;http://astitchintime.blogspot.com&quot;&gt;A Stitch In Time&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href=&quot;http://debsdistractions.blogspot.com&quot;&gt;Deb&#039;s Daily Distractions&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Mon, 16 Oct 2006 11:37:01 -0500</pubDate>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;Thanks for bringing all these resources to the front.  In the early to mid 90s when I was in high school no one talked about or thought much about teen dating violence but it&#039;s very real. I lived in it for five years.  I&#039;m constantly trying to educate those around me about how it can happen without anyone knowing.  Keep it up!!&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Mon, 16 Oct 2006 11:12:09 -0500</pubDate>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://www.blogher.com/files/images/dv.thumbnail.gif&quot; /&gt;October is Domestic Abuse Awareness Month.&lt;br /&gt;
* 1 in 4 women will experience domestic violence in her lifetime.&lt;br /&gt;
* In 2001, 20% of violenct crimes against women was intimate partner violence.&lt;br /&gt;
* From 1992 to 2000, 54% of intimate partner violence was reported to police.&lt;br /&gt;
* Only 24% of rape or sexual assault was reported.&lt;br /&gt;
* Marital rape counts for 25% of all rapes, affection 75,000 women a year.  &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;There are pages upon pages of &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.ncadv.org/resources/Statistics_170.html&quot;&gt;studies and statistics&lt;/a&gt;, including individual state statistics.  (Click into the report for your state and blog the resource information, it might be just the help someone reading your blog needs.)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;How are we going to end domestic abuse when Americans don&#039;t seem to know what it is?&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.womensenews.org/article.cfm?aid=2907&quot;&gt;Jeers&lt;/a&gt; from Women&#039;s e News:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;When asked to define what actions comprise domestic violence and abuse, 2 in 5 Americans did not mention hitting, slapping and punching, a Sept. 21 study commissioned by Liz Claiborne Inc. found. Over 90 percent failed to define repeated emotional and verbal abuse, sexual abuse or controlling behaviors as patterns of domestic violence.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://homesweethome.wordpress.com&quot; /&gt;Home Sweet Home&lt;/a&gt; is a blog dedicated to discussions about crimes that happen within the home.  Her Domestic Violence Awareness Month post is &lt;a href=&quot;http://homesweethome.wordpress.com/2006/10/01/domestic-violence-awareness-month&quot; /&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;. The stories posted daily are astonishing and apalling.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Abused No More shares an interesting question from one of her readers, &quot;&lt;a href=&quot;http://lifemadesimple.typepad.com/abusednomore/2006/07/10_things_they_.html&quot;&gt;How could mental abuse have happened to me?&lt;/a&gt;&quot; Wendy shares a story about a &lt;a href=&quot;http://wendylinsalata.blogspot.com/2006/09/no-you-must-be-mistaken.html&quot;&gt;really great guy named Pete&lt;/a&gt;.  &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The National Crime Prevention Council has a blog and they share information about &lt;a href=&quot;http://ncpc.typepad.com/prevention_works_blog/2006/09/domestic_violen.html&quot;&gt;Domestic Violence Month&lt;/a&gt;.  &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.spousebuzz.com/blog/2006/10/domestic_violen.html&quot;&gt;Spouse Buzz&lt;/a&gt; shares resources for military families who may need Domestic Violence assistance.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Here are links where you can find information, support and assistance:&lt;/p&gt;
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* &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.endabuse.org&quot; /&gt;Family Violence Abuse&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
* &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.usda.gov/da/shmd/aware.htm&quot;&gt;Domestic Violence Awareness Handbook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
* &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.ncadv.org&quot; /&gt;National Coalition Against Domestic Violence&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://www.shop.ncadv.org/displayProductDocument.hg?productId=4&amp;amp;categoryId=4&quot;&gt;Don&#039;t Make Excuses, Make it Stop&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;~Denise&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href=&quot;http://flamingohouse.blogs.com&quot;&gt;Daily Dose of Denise&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href=&quot;http://fasttimes.clubmom.com&quot;&gt;Fast Times @ Homeschool High&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;Imaged Credit: &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.projectsarah.org&quot; /&gt;Project S.A.R.A.H&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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