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 <title>I agree, it is a crime against human decency</title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;Thank you for posting this. It is important for us to remember how great we really have it here, in the US, expecially as women.&lt;br /&gt;
And it is our responsibility to give those who do not have a voice, our voice. Yes we are, and should be responsible for each other. How can we build a better world for all of us, if we would look the other way, when women get treated like this on a daily basis?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Peace and Love&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Claudia Blanton&lt;br /&gt;
Motivational Coach, Fundraiser&lt;br /&gt;
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 <pubDate>Wed, 21 Nov 2007 14:09:32 -0600</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>Claudia Blanton</dc:creator>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;Have you seen &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,312372,00.html&quot;&gt;this&lt;/a&gt;?&amp;nbsp; A 19-year old woman in Saudi Arabia was gang raped by seven men.&amp;nbsp; Because she was in a car with a male who was &lt;em&gt;not&lt;/em&gt; her relative, but rather a student she used to know, she is being punished with six months in jail and 200 lashes.&amp;nbsp; She will be permanently scarred from those lashes, not like being gang-raped by seven men wouldn&#039;t be scarring enough or anything.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It&#039;s when I read about things like this, that it makes me appreciate how lucky I am to live in the country that I do.&amp;nbsp; We&#039;re not perfect here.&amp;nbsp; We have problems with womens issues and we certainly have issues with rape here too.&amp;nbsp; But I doubt there is a single person in this country who thinks that a victim of gang-rape by seven men needs any additional punishment for her so-called &amp;quot;crime.&amp;quot;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When I was in graduate school, I used to tutor three master&#039;s level students from Saudi Arabia.&amp;nbsp; I helped them as an ESL (English as a Second Language) tutor.&amp;nbsp; We would often sit and have long conversations about Saudi Arabia and what life was like there.&amp;nbsp; One of my students told me that there was virtually no crime there because those who steal lose their hands, quite a deterrent for a shop-lifter.&amp;nbsp; While it&#039;s all fine and good that their robbery rates may be lower, the media is often reporting vicious rapes that punish the victims.&amp;nbsp; We also hear about &lt;a href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Honor_killing&quot;&gt;honor killings&lt;/a&gt; where families believe that once a woman has been raped, it&#039;s their responsibility to kill their own family member to restore honor to their family.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It&#039;s this warped kind of thinking that infuriates me.&amp;nbsp; It shows a complete lack of respect for women.&amp;nbsp; It shows a complete inability to empathize with a victim.&amp;nbsp; It gives men free reign to do whatever they want to the poor women who live in countries with ridiculous laws like these, because women don&#039;t want to report the crime for fear that they&#039;ll be given lashes and jail time as well, if not worse.&amp;nbsp; While the men in the Saudi Arabia incident are being punished with jail time, what they&#039;re doing to the woman is nothing short of disgusting. They are taking a young victim of a violent crime and further destroying her.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;For those who might say that it&#039;s none of our business what they are doing in Saudi Arabia and other countries that buy into this ridiculous mind set, I couldn&#039;t disagree more.&amp;nbsp; What they&#039;re doing to that woman and others like her is a crime that should concern us all.&amp;nbsp; It&#039;s a crime against human decency.&amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; &lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Wed, 21 Nov 2007 11:59:28 -0600</pubDate>
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