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It isnt just the Media's fault

Camera_Junkie — Thu, 12 Jun 2008 02:42:20 -0500

I am an 18 year old girl that has had a past with eating disorders, and yes, the Pink Patch's advertisement made me want to try it. Though it is the media's fault for making people want to look perfect, just think about who made us fat. Parents. With fast food at every corner, and parents working more and more, cooking less and less home-cooked meals, what else are we to eat. I do not think I would have had my past with anorexia if it were not for how I was raised. I eat McDonald's everyday when I was younger, leading to high-cholesteral at the age of 9. What happened to us? America is FAT. We do not need to tell our kids to be happy the way they are. We need to tell them to get outside, stop being lazy, and exercise. We need to tell them how to be heathy, not just to deal with it. Though it is better to be happy the way you are, it is not better to be over-weight.

That's the line that got me too...

debra roby — Tue, 15 Apr 2008 11:04:50 -0500

Hey, you're young and busy.. don't give up time hanging at the mall with your friends just to work out at the gym, getting all toned and healthy. Not to mention life-long benefits of exercise. (because this demographic still believes it will live forever as healthy as they are today. I remember that fantasy too well)...

Medicate your slightest imperfection and in a descreet way. "It's' just like wearing a band aid!" which should be an indication that something is wrong.

I'm joining backpacking dad at the gym!

Debra
A Stitch In Time
Deb's Daily Distractions

This is the part that gets me:

Backpacking Dad — Mon, 14 Apr 2008 22:38:44 -0500

"Don’t give up your social life and become a slave to the gym to achieve that perfect body."

Work and effort are equated with slavery. Everyone hates slavery right? So don't work hard for anything you want.

Excuse me. I need to go to the gym.

http://backpackingdad.blogspot.com

Diet pills

alivemagazine — Mon, 14 Apr 2008 10:20:42 -0500

Most of those pills/ patches are dangerous for our health. But of course in order to sell more, they don't tell us or it's only written in very small characters.

You are right. We need to start with our children and tell them how much we love them the way they are and how beautiful they are. Talk to them and make sure they understand that women in magazine are not "real", they are photoshoped.

Let's spread the good words about beauty.

"How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world." - Anne Frank

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The Pink Patch: Does Your Daughter Think She Looks Bad in Her Body?

Rita Arens — Mon, 14 Apr 2008 08:52:18 -0500

When I first heard about the Pink Patch, I thought it was stupid but probably harmless. That speaks volumes to my current state of mental health, though – I was transported back to my less-healthy days as I started poking around for more facts. The fact that I found a reference to the Pink Patch on a pro-ana (for the uneducated, that’s pro-anorexia) message board is enough to make my blood run cold. I suffered from anorexia starting at age 17 until I was around 20, and if this little patch had been around when I was hiding Dexatrim under my pillows, you can bet your chewing-gum dinners I would’ve used it.

The Pink Patch seems to be very targeted toward girls as opposed to women or men. (I almost forgot to type “men,” which makes me sad, as this is clearly a female topic, and why it’s a female topic is another post in and of itself). The targeted teenage demographic does seem to be the main issue for the blogosphere. Well, that and its sketchy medical claims. One blogger writes:

The Pink Patch’s approach is to pick and choose bits of information about various ingredients and slap them together to entice young girls into trying their product. 5-HTP for example, has been studied clinically and does have some evidence it can help with mood elevation. But studies showing a link to weight loss are mixed. And The Pink Patch conveniently fails to mention side effects, like nausea. But perhaps most importantly, all the studies cited in the literature were based on relatively high dosages (100 to 300 mg per day). The Pink Patch gives no information on the dosage of their ingredients so it’s impossible to tell if they are using very low and ineffective levels, or very high and potentially dangerous levels. For more information read this review of 5-HTP from Vanderbilt University.

As adults, we know to ask these questions: How does it work? Has there been research to validate its claims? Is it dangerous? But girls? This blogger questions their judgment:

When I see this page 'WARNING' flashes in multi colored lights behind my eyes, but sadly I'm sure it doesn't do that for everyone. The site is appealing to the lowest common denominator, kids who are so scared about their looks and figure that they will try anything, so I'm sure this has plenty takers. For those doubters out there I'll say 'SAVE YOUR MONEY'. There is no such thing as a miracle cure and anything which pretends to be that is taking money of innocent vulnerable people and SHOULD BE SHOT. The end.

Not only are women questioning the judgment of girls, but also of society at large. What the hell are we doing creating and marketing these self-esteem-destroying products to girls?

Perhaps if we projected a more positive example of a female role model to little girls, stopped throwing those horrendous Bratz dolls at them and started taking note of this alarming trend, I wouldn’t feel so disgusted by a “pink patch”. But I do. It's horrid and it's nasty and I seriously can't believe we even wnoder why we have young girls with eating disorders and who simply aspire to be "WAGs".

The good news (if there can be good news) is that we parents, especially mothers, don’t have to take this lying down. As the primary examples and opinion leaders for our children, our words can be more influencing than a pink, flashing ad. Or so we hope:

Parents, talk to your daughters about the uselessness (and possible risks) of the Pink Patch. You might want to read the ads with them and point out how they are preying on women's body-image issues.

Unless you are one of those parents who would use the Pink Patch yourself.

One MySpace-using mom tried her own offense. She bought an ad targeted at the Pink Patch demographic telling girls to love their bodies instead of attaching little pink Post-Its to them in an effort to look like Victoria Beckham.

I bought an ad: