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 <title>A Modest Proposal</title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;ROCKS!!!! Thanks for sharing it with us.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; Helene&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;http://themodernwomansdivorceguide.com &lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 15:00:22 -0500</pubDate>
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 <title>You&#039;re welcome, Jill!</title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;Thanks for reading!&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Sat, 26 Apr 2008 22:22:42 -0500</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>Bianca Reagan</dc:creator>
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 <title>Love this!!</title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;Wow  I&#039;ve been through a lot of patriarchy driven crap this week - I really appreciate this post.  Plus, I&#039;m a white woman who has only recently heard about and started really researching WOC and feminist stuff and all the ways they intertwine and differ - so again, thank you for posting this entry. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Jill&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.writeslikeshetalks.com&quot;&gt;Writes Like She Talks&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Sat, 26 Apr 2008 14:45:51 -0500</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>Jill Miller Zimon</dc:creator>
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 <title>Someone&#039;s cruising for a bruising.</title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://bp1.blogger.com/_df1v8KyiI6I/SBFgZsnUn2I/AAAAAAAAAqY/dekguKZOzAk/s1600-h/angry+lady.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5193037839923978082&quot; src=&quot;http://bp1.blogger.com/_df1v8KyiI6I/SBFgZsnUn2I/AAAAAAAAAqY/dekguKZOzAk/s400/angry+lady.jpg&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I started reading here: &lt;a href=&quot;http://theangryblackwoman.wordpress.com/2008/04/09/allies-talking/&quot;&gt;Allies Talking&lt;/a&gt;. Then I read this: &lt;a href=&quot;http://coffeeandink.livejournal.com/809996.html&quot;&gt;An Open Letter to Jezebel&lt;/a&gt;, which included this--&lt;a href=&quot;http://jezebel.com/383321/open-source-boob-project-the-true-story-of-one-epic-day-nerds-groped-free&quot;&gt;The True Story Of One Epic Day Nerds Groped Free&lt;/a&gt;--which was in response to this--&lt;a href=&quot;http://theferrett.livejournal.com/1087686.html&quot;&gt;The Open-Source Boob Project&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;So I wondered what Feministing had to say, and I found this: &lt;a href=&quot;http://feministing.com/archives/009066.html&quot;&gt;Women&#039;s bodies: Just like open-source software!&lt;/a&gt;. I found a Nipsey Russell of responses here: &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.journalfen.net/community/unfunnybusiness/9338.html&quot;&gt;Dear sir: I believe your patriarchy is showing.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;In conclusion, my favorite reaction was this: &lt;a href=&quot;http://misia.livejournal.com/1055120.html&quot;&gt;A Modest Proposal&lt;/a&gt;, by misia.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;As we all know, many women long to give a swift kick in the balls to some male person or other. Yet all too often women are prohibited from doing so.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Sometimes this is due to our culture&#039;s repressive attitudes toward female violence or because of societal pressure for women to behave in &amp;quot;ladylike&amp;quot; and feminine ways. At times women must censor themselves from administering a good solid boot to the greater masculine crotch due to historically justified fear of reprisal. At yet other times it is nothing more or less than men&#039;s self-serving, self-glorifying attitudes toward their precious little patriarchal testicles that lead them to cravenly avoid supporting women&#039;s emotional and political expression.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;All in all, we live in a culture that routinely prohibits women this useful and healthy outlet for the outrage that almost every women eventually feels as a result of living in a sexist patriarchal society. Indeed, we live in a culture which punishes women for even thinking or talking about expressing their rage in this way.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This must change, and men, who after all have an obligation to help redress thousands of years of unearned patriarchal privilege, also have a moral obligation to help solve this problem.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;To this end, we propose a community-based Open Source Swift Kick to the Balls Project.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Like other Open Source projects, the Open Source Swift Kick to the Balls Project (OSSKBP) relies on a wide pool of volunteers working together for the common good.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The Project has very simple parameters and it basically works like this:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Men who are open to being given a swift kick in the balls need do nothing. &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Women will simply assume that any man not clearly indicating his position vis-a-vis being kicked in the balls with an approved OSSKBP badge or pin is open to being kicked in the balls, as any progressive, free-thinking, feminist man ought to be, by any woman who wishes to do so . . . &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
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