http://www.blogher.com/how-long-too-long Comments for "How Long Is Too Long" en http://www.blogher.com/how-long-too-long#comment-54930 <p>It depends on what the individuals are searching for.  If the person is looking for a husband/wife then yes, after a year the subject should be discussed and determined if that is where the relationship is heading.  In my situation, I am not looking for marriage at this time.  It will be at least 7 to 8 years before I would even consider it.</p> <p>Great question!</p> <p>Laura</p> <p><a href="http://www.lbethea.com" title="www.lbethea.com">www.lbethea.com</a> </p> <p>&nbsp;</p> Fri, 22 Aug 2008 06:05:11 -0500 lbethea comment 54930 at http://www.blogher.com http://www.blogher.com/how-long-too-long#comment-54923 <p> It completely depends on the individuals involved.  Personally, I feel there definitely is a point where enough is enough....it's either right or it is not.   Your past experiences with relationships as well as where you are in life will help to dictate what you want and what you will tolerate.  For me, I think about a year and a half to two years is plenty! </p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Andrea</p> <p><a href="http://www.Kayoh190.com" title="www.Kayoh190.com">www.Kayoh190.com</a> </p> Fri, 22 Aug 2008 01:29:09 -0500 Kayoh comment 54923 at http://www.blogher.com http://www.blogher.com/how-long-too-long#comment-54915 <p>For me at 37, I've got to know it's on the table by year two, but when you're younger it's a different ballgame.</p> <p><a href="http://blogher.org/blog/liz-rizzo">Liz Rizzo</a></p> <p>I blog at <a href="http://everydaygoddess.typepad.com/">Everyday Goddess</a>.</p> Fri, 22 Aug 2008 00:13:39 -0500 Liz Rizzo comment 54915 at http://www.blogher.com http://www.blogher.com/how-long-too-long <p>I recently had a friend who recently broke up with his girlfriend.<br /> When I asked my other friends who spilled the beans why they broke up<br /> they had no idea, but replied “It must be hard though, because they had<br /> been together for 12 years.”</p> <p>Twelve years?!? Goodness gracious! Twelve years and no ring, thats<br /> crazyness. I had never heard of that before. I’m guessing alot of women<br /> start to itch for that ring after that 3 year mark? Probably more like<br /> 4 years? What do you all think? How long is too long to wait for that<br /> ultimate commitment?</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p><a href="http://colbielena.com" title="http://colbielena.com">http://colbielena.com</a> </p> http://www.blogher.com/how-long-too-long#comments Sex &amp; Relationships dating love opinion relationships Wed, 13 Aug 2008 17:59:09 -0500 ColbieLena 50589 at http://www.blogher.com