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 <description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a rel=&quot;bookmark&quot; href=&quot;http://claudiabroome.com/blog/?p=218&quot; title=&quot;Permanent Link to LIFE IN A PERFECT WORLD!&quot;&gt;LIFE IN A PERFECT WORLD!&lt;/p&gt; &lt;a href=&quot;http://claudiabroome.com/blog/?p=218#comments&quot; title=&quot;Comment on LIFE IN A PERFECT WORLD!&quot;&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://claudiabroome.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/liberty.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img class=&quot;alignnone size-full wp-image-222&quot; src=&quot;http://claudiabroome.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/liberty.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; title=&quot;liberty&quot; width=&quot;500&quot; height=&quot;400&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Philadelphia is truly the city of brotherly love and I can attest to&lt;br /&gt;
that fact. I am a stay at home mom with four children, who lives on the&lt;br /&gt;
Main Line. I was attending a conference, for three very long days and&lt;br /&gt;
evenings in Philadelphia, last week. Each time I attempted to find a&lt;br /&gt;
parking garage or my car, I became frustrated and confused. I felt like&lt;br /&gt;
a child who was being spun around with a blindfold and then told to&lt;br /&gt;
locate the rear end of the donkey and pin on the tail. While this may&lt;br /&gt;
not make sense to those of you who have a sense of direction or a GPS,&lt;br /&gt;
it certainly makes sense to me because I possess neither. When the&lt;br /&gt;
conference ended one evening at about 9:00 PM, I headed for the lot&lt;br /&gt;
that I thought contained my car. My car wasn’t there. As I made square&lt;br /&gt;
circles around and around the city streets, my scary saga began. It was&lt;br /&gt;
dark and I was becoming acutely aware of my lacking navigational skills&lt;br /&gt;
and the growing number of Philadelphia’s after dark people and their&lt;br /&gt;
activities. Before I reached panic mode, I went for help.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I walked into one of Philadelphia’s many historical buildings and&lt;br /&gt;
met George, working behind a desk. I told him, “I can’t find my&lt;br /&gt;
garage.” George saw my bewilderment and sweet man that he is, offered&lt;br /&gt;
to walk with me and find it. Because I had been around the buildings so&lt;br /&gt;
many times in the past few days, my perception of what was familiar and&lt;br /&gt;
the north-south and east-west concepts had evaporated. George and I&lt;br /&gt;
walked and walked and the more questions that George asked, the more&lt;br /&gt;
puzzled I got! I looked at my watch. It was almost 10:30 PM.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When George suggested that we seek the help of someone named Juan, I&lt;br /&gt;
knew I was in big trouble. George introduced me to Juan. Juan asked me&lt;br /&gt;
questions that were similar to the ones that George had asked me&lt;br /&gt;
earlier. When I told him that I had left my parking ticket in my car&lt;br /&gt;
along with my pepper spray, he donned his stocking cap and coat. He&lt;br /&gt;
told me that he would help me find the elusive lot and my car. Juan and&lt;br /&gt;
I began another journey around the city, with stops that included each&lt;br /&gt;
and every garage in the area. We finally got to the entrance of a&lt;br /&gt;
garage that maybe, just maybe, looked familiar. I could not remember&lt;br /&gt;
from which day or which trip around the block, I had seen it. Hopeful&lt;br /&gt;
and guilty for having taken so much of his time, I thanked Juan and&lt;br /&gt;
headed up to the 3rd floor, where I was bowled over because my car&lt;br /&gt;
wasn’t to be seen. Since I knew that Juan had left, my anxiety level&lt;br /&gt;
sky rocketed for the umpteenth time. I looked at my watch. It was after&lt;br /&gt;
midnight. I went back to the street level and I was astounded to find&lt;br /&gt;
Juan leaning against a pole, waiting for me. “Not the right lot?” he&lt;br /&gt;
asked. ‘”Nope,” I said and off we went again. I was experiencing total&lt;br /&gt;
brain freeze by then and just walked along with Juan like a dog walks&lt;br /&gt;
on a leash with his master. As I walked, I realized that I had reached&lt;br /&gt;
the end of my rope, or leash as more appropriately stated.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I realized that my thoughts were filled with an appreciation for&lt;br /&gt;
having encountered these men. As I replayed the events of the evening,&lt;br /&gt;
I realized that I had met two angels. They weren’t very successful&lt;br /&gt;
angels at that point but they were still angels. Ultimately, Juan did&lt;br /&gt;
find my garage. This time he went with me to the third floor, “just in&lt;br /&gt;
case.” I think he was afraid that I would keel over, if my car and I&lt;br /&gt;
weren’t reunited soon. When we got off on the third floor, what to my&lt;br /&gt;
wondering eyes did appear, but my big black Suburban which,&lt;br /&gt;
extinguished, my fear. I thanked and hugged my new best friend for all&lt;br /&gt;
of his help. Just like George, Juan refused to accept a tip.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;These two men exuded the exceptional qualities that define our&lt;br /&gt;
city’s “Brotherly Love.” They were truly angels to me that night and I&lt;br /&gt;
will never forget their kindness. As I got in my car and made a few&lt;br /&gt;
more wrong turns and went back around, one last time, a thought came to&lt;br /&gt;
me. “What goes around, comes around” and around and around and around!&lt;br /&gt;
I love hearing about “Philadelphia’s Brotherly Love” but it means so&lt;br /&gt;
much more to me now because I experienced it first hand. George and&lt;br /&gt;
Juan are testimony to the fact that Philadelphians are caring, kind and&lt;br /&gt;
generous people.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
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