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Perfect,! Ruffle away.

Wilma Ham — Wed, 12 Nov 2008 16:25:16 -0600

Valuable observations.
Where is our *intent* in life and how do we deal with the resonsibility of what we are creating here.

Great questions you are briging up and the internet is such a fertile ground to really observe what we are doing.

Intent is something I am questioning lately.
I do agree, with what intent do I Twitter, am I just a sheep following the sheep because someone says it is what you do?

Am I blogging for attention and if 'yes' what and whose attention am I inviting?
Can I handle all that intention.

Why would I want to rake up my past via facebook or whatever. Do I have an intention to give those people the time and attention now I have contacted them or looked them up?

I so agree that ignoring your direct community for old friends or new friends on the internet could take us away from a very valuable recource right under our nose.

What do we intent when we enter internet?

I think you ruffle is perfect.

Wilma Ham

www.wilmasblog.com

Facebook Frenzy!

Liz Rizzo — Tue, 11 Nov 2008 09:39:30 -0600

Sarah - Thanks for your interesting post! You know, I think the "serious" and the "fun" are like colliding worlds these days. Cats and Dogs! Living together!

Zandria - Yeah, it might be that I'm just now on it, but it seems like a bit of a Facebook tipping point time right now.

Christina - I do find that Facebook really facilities the actual communication with your list of friends. More than just collecting them and then never talking.

Bill - Thank you! :) And yes, the power of tabs!

Liz Rizzo

I blog at Everyday Goddess.

Welcome!

Bill Cammack — Mon, 10 Nov 2008 16:19:02 -0600

Welcome to Facebook! :D

Don't worry about filling in those lists. Nobody reads that stuff anyway. They just look at your pictures.

That's why they're in separate tabs.

~ Bill
I blog at billcammack.com

Back on facebook

christinajeanne — Sun, 09 Nov 2008 19:31:02 -0600

I kind of took a break from the whole social networking internet scence. I've just started using myspace and facebook again. I guess it just didn't appeal to me a lot because even though I have lots of old contacts/friends I hardley never talk to them. So I wondered why I should bother using these sites if they didn't even serve a purpose for me. But, I'm back using them again. I admit I missed them. But I'm not addicted like I used to be.

Christina

I joined Facebook years ago,

Zandria — Sun, 09 Nov 2008 10:55:31 -0600

I joined Facebook years ago, but it's just been in the past few months that I've started using it more. Definitely trippy how you can find all these people from your past that you never would have found otherwise.

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Thanks!

Sarahcrowley90 — Fri, 07 Nov 2008 15:58:58 -0600

Hey Liz,

Thanks for the shout out regarding my blog "The Facebook Relationship Status Symbol." After years of refusing to join the social-networking masses, I too have joined Facebook. It's been pretty entertaining so far; I have reconnected with several friends I haven't talked to forever and with some people I talk to all the time. I don't really pay any attention to the applications but I do like reading the newsfeed updates and perusing pictures. For the most part I don't take any of it too seriously, yet ...

Cheers!

Sarah

Thanks!

Sarahcrowley90 — Fri, 07 Nov 2008 15:58:15 -0600

Hey Liz,

Cheers!

Sarah

Facebook Fun!

Liz Rizzo — Fri, 07 Nov 2008 11:02:19 -0600

Rori - Seriously, when I think of the friends I have who I wouldn't even know if it weren't for the blogosphere, and then how Facebook helps me stay connected to them, it blows me away.

Vered - I get what you're saying, but I suspect that for me Facebook will remain a very present, ongoing tool.

Wilma - Excellent point about integrity and how we so regularly nowadays have to make choices with our time and attention. I go through constant evaluation about time and resources.

Virginia - lol I sent you an invite! :)

Christina - You know, I think because I'm in the entertainment industry in L.A. Facebook probably will have an ongoing value for me.

Debra - Totally ignore *so* many Facebook apps! I am beginning to wonder about sending "gifts" though... No! I ignore! lol I do still enjoy a visit to the MySpace backwater. :)

Giyen - Connecting and staying connected with old friends is *so* amazing.

On Da Road - But more people are on Facebook, right? That's part of the power of it, I think; that people are on Facebook as their first social networking experience. Still, not everyone, of course.

Liz Rizzo

I blog at Everyday Goddess.

Okay with Facebook

On Da Road — Thu, 06 Nov 2008 20:12:00 -0600

I just started Facebook a couple months ago to test the waters so to speak. I reconnected with a few friends from my past, which has been a great experience so far. Most of my friends just aren't social networkers yet ...

On Da Road

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I heart Facebook

Giyen — Thu, 06 Nov 2008 19:57:41 -0600

Only because it got me in touch with two long lost friends ... in the past 2 weeks even!

Giyen

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Facebook, MySpace

debra roby — Thu, 06 Nov 2008 19:01:12 -0600

I'm on FaceBook and I like it. don't love it.

It makes more sense to me since the redesign, but I still don't get all the frivolous apps. I ignore them. At the moment, I often us it to see what local friends are involved in and attending. I find more great things to do through friends' profiles. Makes me wonder how they find them, though.

Myspace is my quiet little backwater. I don't have many friends there, and they don't seem very active (or is it the interface?). Sometimes I wonder why I ever come back. Still I have several friends that I only communicate with on the site, so I know I'll why. Maybe I just need more friends there?

Debra
A Stitch In Time
Weight for Deb

Myspace and facebook

christinajeanne — Thu, 06 Nov 2008 16:07:49 -0600

I used to go on myspace and facebook. But, now they are both kind of old to me. I only want to belong to blog sites or sites that actually serve a purpose now. But that's just my opinon. I guess I've got better ways to spend my time now. Have fun!

Christina

Liz,

Virginia DeBolt — Thu, 06 Nov 2008 16:02:07 -0600

just say you'll be my friend. Yeah, baby, we'll be on The Facebook.

Virginia DeBolt
BlogHer Technology Contributing Editor
Web Teacher
First 50 Words

Intention, integrity and quality counts for me

Wilma Ham — Thu, 06 Nov 2008 15:26:18 -0600

Haha Liz, I can see you'playing' around!

For me all this social networking is the same as with everything in my life, at least I am going that way :) . . . what is my intention when I undertake something and how can I stay in integrity with it.

That cuts out a whole lot of activities I cannot keep up with, which don't add value to me or others and have no quality.
I am not going to overeat and overindulge on communication, just because I can.

I love this site as for me it has quality, integrity and adds to others and me.

Focusing on intention, quality and integrity keeps me from overwhelm AND 'overeating '.

However I have recently caught up with two old special school friends via the internet and that was absolutely special.

Wilma Ham

www.wilmasblog.com

I'm over the infatuation stage

Vered — Thu, 06 Nov 2008 14:43:49 -0600

Facebook, Twitter - first you fall in love and can't get enough, then it fades to the background, which is the stage I'm at right now with both. :)

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