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 <title>Dialogue for the Duo</title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;I had one of those marriages, now I divorced and still doing it all on my own, but without the financial support.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This is a conversation that the couple needs to have. The working spouse needs to take on childcare or homecare responsibility. Most importantly, the stay-at-home-spouse needs to be valued for the work she/he does and not feel that she/he can&#039;t complain to the other spouse because s/he supports her/him. This is critical. Everyone&#039;s role is vital--the breadwinner&#039;s and the breadmaker&#039;s.&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt; &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Laura, &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.rebelliousthoughtsofawoman.com/&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;www.RebelliousThoughtsofaWoman.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2009 18:29:12 -0600</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>rebellious thinker</dc:creator>
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