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On the fence and scared

jpolk1 — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 17:26:44 -0600

Had my first very young, and have been through single motherhood. Now married to phenomenal man who, surprise surprise wants us to have kids together. Ok. I knew this going into our marriage. Sometimes I'm really excited about it, and sometimes I'm scared out of pumps! There are days when I look at him and think about how much love our family has to offer a child and how much I miss my daughter, now 10, being a baby. There are a lot more days where I'm exhausted from work, tired of juggling and cannot imagine adding another child, no less an infant, to the mix.

It doesn't surprise me

clueless newlywed — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 07:45:39 -0600

Ya know...It doesn't surprise me that single people have less sex...Think about it...They have to really work to have sex. My single girl friends have to get dolled up, and hit a bar that has other attractive, single men. (Half the battle right there!) And even if they do find a bar with attractive, single men, they then have to make eye contact and flirt and all that. All married ladies have to do is turn to their partner and say, "Are you in the mood?"

The Clueless Newlywed, Nikki Flores

Hopeful

tamiel — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 16:49:55 -0500

Thank you for your comments...stay hopeful! I will if you will...

It's just life, after all.

Inspirational

amandahdah — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 10:00:26 -0500

The beginning of this could have been written by myself...it's uncanny! I too, have boxes of old papers, letters, unfinished dreams and disappointments...I really think we must be soul sisters of some kind! You truly are insipirational and give me hope for myself. I just want you to know, I have faith in you and if you ever need a little help propping yourself up from someone who understands, please call on me!

I don't believe in guilt

Denise — Tue, 29 Sep 2009 08:36:08 -0500

Every now and then it tries to sneak into my life but I'm very quick to shut it down. Life is too short and too busy to saddle myself with guilt. :-)

~Denise BlogHer Community Manager
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It's a process. You'll get

womenonthefence — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 13:29:34 -0500

It's a process. You'll get better and better with practice. Good luck! And be good to you!

xoxEDxox

Thanks for the post. Now I

sdombroski — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 13:26:01 -0500

Thanks for the post. Now I just have to keep reminding myself of the facts :-)

Treat yourself kindly

sassymonkey — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 13:04:35 -0500

Excellent advice and one of the best things that anyone can do for themselves.

Sassymonkey and Sassymonkey Reads.

You're Right

kabutler — Wed, 02 Sep 2009 09:25:43 -0500

It happened again yesteday - things were too small again. :( But you're absolutely right - my husband always focuses on the positive! :)

Kelley

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dont fret

Nadirah_Angail — Wed, 26 Aug 2009 17:49:37 -0500

I know I've had some disasters in the dressing room. I especially hate it when I take something into the dressing room thinking itll be pretty big on me (maybe even too big) onlt to find out its too small. That pretty much kills my day right there. While your focusing on what you think looks bad, I bet your husband is focusing on what he thinks looks so good about you.

Nadirah

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kabutler — Wed, 26 Aug 2009 17:15:24 -0500

Kelley

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I am so sorry for your loss

usedtobeme — Thu, 06 Aug 2009 13:14:26 -0500

I am deeply sorry and my thoughts will be with you.

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Thank you for sharing about your husband

Gena Haskett — Sat, 01 Aug 2009 21:01:55 -0500

With all of the bad PR about the bad ones it is encouraging and heartwarming to know that there are people who understand the meaning of the word "love."

It is a gift for the rest of us who still hope to meet "the one." I wish for you in this time of transition the love and peace you need to carry on.

Catch up with us when you are ready.

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I am so sorry

Summerm — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 13:52:19 -0500

I am so, so sorry for your loss.

Summer

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My Husband Will Do Dishes

HollyGolightly — Mon, 20 Jul 2009 17:42:04 -0500

... but he will inevitably finish only half and leave the rest to "soak". I don't want to seem ungrateful but it's not helping me if I have to go back and finish the job he started. -Anna

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