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It doesn't surprise me

clueless newlywed — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 07:45:39 -0600

Ya know...It doesn't surprise me that single people have less sex...Think about it...They have to really work to have sex. My single girl friends have to get dolled up, and hit a bar that has other attractive, single men. (Half the battle right there!) And even if they do find a bar with attractive, single men, they then have to make eye contact and flirt and all that. All married ladies have to do is turn to their partner and say, "Are you in the mood?"

The Clueless Newlywed, Nikki Flores

I saw this a while back and

anaesthetic — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 02:06:47 -0600

I saw this a while back and think it's horrible. I didn't know about the case on Maryland. I'm shocked that this is going on in Afghanistan but even moreso that it's still viewed as such in my "backyard".

We both do and know. No

anaesthetic — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 02:03:57 -0600

We both do and know. No problem. End of story.

IS it anti-feminist? Well,

anaesthetic — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 02:00:13 -0600

IS it anti-feminist? Well, maybe but I'm not a feminist, really. I think it's more important to focus on how faking can cheapen the pleasure both parties could be having, really. I wouldn't say "Fess up for other women" I would say "Be honest to help yourself and your relationship."

O! O! Good or Bad

lindows06 — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 15:18:40 -0500

I read a comment, where the read mentioned its hard to have great sex when their so much on the mind. Its often the case when your living in NewYork. You rip and run so much, your burned out by days end, and you want to have fun in the bed, but you always dont want to look like a tired out horse. Its a two way street. You have sex, and try to get your cheese off, or just sleep on it, and wonder where has all your time and energy gone. This life i've learned from my own personal experience will keep on the wheel going round and round until your heart gives out. My advice before that happen, take breather and see whats your putting a head of your true priorities.

Well,I'm off, as I type this comment, I'm thinking about what to cook for dinner, and that I get paid tomorrow, and will my husband want to have sex tonight . What a mind trip...

Jays (the ex) watches OSU

lifeinflux — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 21:02:34 -0500

Jays (the ex) watches OSU and the Browns rabidly and don't get him started when the Ravens play. He's, unfortunately, all football all the time but when it comes to Ohio football, he's rabid! :-) University Heights is a great area. We enjoyed that entire area including Little Italy, Shaker Heights and Beachwood.

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Thanks!

clueless newlywed — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 15:56:48 -0500

Jeri:

So glad that you (and your ex) got a kick outta this blog post! In regards to football watching...My hubby's not really into sports...Except for OSU...Then again, we BOTH watch those games!

Oh, and I'm originally from Columbus, but we're in University Heights now...Not too far from where you used to be!

The Clueless Newlywed, Nikki Flores

BTW -

lifeinflux — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 14:11:05 -0500

Where in Cleveland are you from? I lived in Cleveland Heights and then Tremont from 2000 to 2004. I miss it (albeit not so much the six months of snow)!

This is too funny!

lifeinflux — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 14:07:59 -0500

I showed this to my ex-hubby who is a great pal of mine. His comment was, "well they need a number 16: No more uninterrupted football watching EVER!".

-jeri

It's the "how" I'm interested in

Denise — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 10:19:35 -0500

A generic I can relate is fine but I want to know the details. What exactly on that list did he relate to? He's gotta back that stuff up. ;-)

~Denise BlogHer Community Manager
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Oh he relates!

clueless newlywed — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 10:14:55 -0500

Remember, he was the one who intially sent me the article on Twitter and said "Oh how I can relate, minus the looks thing." LOL

Thanks for reading...I told him his blogging retaliation had been requested. =)

The Clueless Newlywed, Nikki Flores

Make your own list?

Denise — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 10:09:51 -0500

What do women lose in a relationship with a man? And, because I don't really like picking on men, what do women lose when they are relationships with other women?

We can all make lists that are similar to these and as you've indicated, it's more often related to growing up and not being in a relationship.

I'd be interested in hearing how he relates to this list. I think it's time for him to guest post again. ;-)

~Denise BlogHer Community Manager
Flamingo House Happenings

RE: Spooning ETC

LRM — Sun, 27 Sep 2009 18:31:17 -0500

Yes, I agree, every marriage develops its own set of rules (many you make up as you go)! But, for me, separate bathrooms would be a death sentence. Our new master bath has double sinks and that's about as much independence as I need. I shed. I smear toothpaste. I loathe refilling the q-tips. Lord help me if John ever decides he wants separate bathrooms.

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Spooning ETC

Tina Lane — Sun, 27 Sep 2009 18:05:51 -0500

I don't think there in anything wrong with inventing your own rules for your cohabitation if it makes you a happier well rested couple. My hubby and I have agreed to keep seperate bathrooms, and that just isn't going to change.

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First time reader

mumble914 — Thu, 24 Sep 2009 14:13:49 -0500

Wow, first time reader of your posts. Interesting thread pulling them together. First there is the "twos" and then animals, Facebook and man hair.

Your mind works in mysterious ways :)

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