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 <title>Political Gifts</title>
 <link>http://www.blogher.com/top-10-political-gifts-left#comment-46896</link>
 <description>&lt;p&gt;A political game perhaps?  Probably not nearly the visual impact of the Hillary Nutcracker, but might be easier on your fingers?  About.com has many, and there&#039;s one called &amp;quot;Dimension Defender.&amp;quot;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Sun, 22 Jun 2008 23:14:16 -0500</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>Muky</dc:creator>
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 <title>Thanks, Maria</title>
 <link>http://www.blogher.com/very-special-mothers-day-story#comment-43285</link>
 <description>&lt;p&gt;I really appreciate your taking the time to read and comment. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Kim&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href=&quot;http://blogher.org/blog/kim-pearson&quot;&gt;BlogHer Contributing Editor&lt;/a&gt;|&lt;a href=&quot;http://professorkim.blogspot.com/&quot;&gt;Professor Kim&lt;/a&gt;|&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 06:47:33 -0500</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>Kim Pearson</dc:creator>
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 <title>Fascinating and touching story &amp; history</title>
 <link>http://www.blogher.com/very-special-mothers-day-story#comment-43276</link>
 <description>&lt;p&gt;Thank you, Kim for sharing Rosemarie&#039;s story and some of the history of Afro Germans with us.  Really very interesting to learn more about both.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.consumerpop.com&quot;&gt;ConsumerPop Marketing&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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 <pubDate>Mon, 12 May 2008 22:28:37 -0500</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>Maria Niles</dc:creator>
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 <title>Thanks for your quote</title>
 <link>http://www.blogher.com/i-hereby-create-new-holiday-care-join#comment-38406</link>
 <description>&lt;p&gt;Hi Moonspun, welcome to BlogHer and thanks for indexing your site :-)  I hope you visit us a lot. When I look for other bloggers discussing a particular topic I search a variety of blog indexes. I believe I found your site by selecting &quot;blog&quot; on Google&#039;s searches~~ .then looking for the phrase &quot;not being heard&quot;. Because your situation was so universal (and well-written) i linked you :-)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Contributing Editor, Mata H. also blogs relentlessly at &lt;a href=&quot;http://timesfool.blogspot.com&quot;&gt;Time&#039;s Fool&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Fri, 07 Mar 2008 09:19:57 -0600</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>Mata H</dc:creator>
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 <title>laughing here </title>
 <link>http://www.blogher.com/i-hereby-create-new-holiday-care-join#comment-38404</link>
 <description>&lt;p&gt;debra, what is funny is that profile shot is a candid, not posed. I really do sit like that, face in hand.....thank you so much for uyour kind words.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;~~ Contributing Editor, Mata H. also blogs relentlessly at &lt;a href=&quot;http://timesfool.blogspot.com&quot;&gt;Time&#039;s Fool&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Fri, 07 Mar 2008 09:05:56 -0600</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>Mata H</dc:creator>
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 <title>maybe it could start</title>
 <link>http://www.blogher.com/i-hereby-create-new-holiday-care-join#comment-38403</link>
 <description>&lt;p&gt;in your department -- start small and move up?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;~~ Contributing Editor, Mata H. also blogs relentlessly at &lt;a href=&quot;http://timesfool.blogspot.com&quot;&gt;Time&#039;s Fool&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Fri, 07 Mar 2008 09:04:15 -0600</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>Mata H</dc:creator>
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 <title>gee Kim</title>
 <link>http://www.blogher.com/i-hereby-create-new-holiday-care-join#comment-38402</link>
 <description>&lt;p&gt;Thank you so much. I am very moved by what you say.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;~~ Contributing Editor, Mata H. also blogs relentlessly at &lt;a href=&quot;http://timesfool.blogspot.com&quot;&gt;Time&#039;s Fool&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Fri, 07 Mar 2008 09:03:37 -0600</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>Mata H</dc:creator>
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 <title>Guilty of beautiful ambition as charged</title>
 <link>http://www.blogher.com/i-hereby-create-new-holiday-care-join#comment-38401</link>
 <description>&lt;p&gt;I have been a listener and have also been listened to, so I don&#039;t agree that the only things that are listened to are shocking or new/fascinating. While I agree that we should certainly speak our minds, I don&#039;t see listening as passive at all. It may be quiet, but it is very active on all non-speaking levels. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;~~ Contributing Editor, Mata H. also blogs relentlessly at &lt;a href=&quot;http://timesfool.blogspot.com&quot;&gt;Time&#039;s Fool&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Fri, 07 Mar 2008 09:02:31 -0600</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>Mata H</dc:creator>
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 <title>Thank you!</title>
 <link>http://www.blogher.com/i-hereby-create-new-holiday-care-join#comment-38347</link>
 <description>&lt;p&gt;Hi there! I don&#039;t know how you found my blog, but thanks for the quote. I like your holiday! You&#039;ll make a great queen!&lt;br /&gt;
    :-) &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&quot;The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time.&quot; ~James Taylor&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2008 13:49:36 -0600</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>Moonspun</dc:creator>
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 <title>Like Kim...</title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;Mata,&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Your profile photo.. with your face in your hand?  That&#039;s how I read you.  Concentrating and absorbing every word.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Tomorrow I will embrace your holiday (i&#039;m thinking about making it a holi-week!)  Someone will get to see me listen to them the way I read you. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Debra&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href=&quot;http://astitchintime.blogspot.com&quot;&gt;A Stitch In Time&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href=&quot;http://debsdistractions.blogspot.com&quot;&gt;Deb&#039;s Daily Distractions&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 22:52:00 -0600</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>debra roby</dc:creator>
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 <title>I think my workplace needs</title>
 <link>http://www.blogher.com/i-hereby-create-new-holiday-care-join#comment-38305</link>
 <description>&lt;p&gt;I think my workplace needs this once a week.&lt;br /&gt;
Thankyou for another thought-provoking post.&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 22:51:34 -0600</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>kazari</dc:creator>
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 <title>Hello, Mata. This is how I am when I read you.</title>
 <link>http://www.blogher.com/i-hereby-create-new-holiday-care-join#comment-38302</link>
 <description>&lt;p&gt;I cannot read you and multitask. You write in a way that makes me stop, take in what you are saying and reflect before I respond. Thank you.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Kim&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href=&quot;http://blogher.org/blog/kim-pearson&quot;&gt;BlogHer Contributing Editor&lt;/a&gt;|&lt;a href=&quot;http://professorkim.blogspot.com&quot;&gt;Professor Kim&lt;/a&gt;|&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 21:25:02 -0600</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>Kim Pearson</dc:creator>
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 <title>It&#039;s an ambitious goal</title>
 <link>http://www.blogher.com/i-hereby-create-new-holiday-care-join#comment-38296</link>
 <description>&lt;p&gt;It&#039;s a beautiful idea, but highly ambitious. People don&#039;t really listen unless the content is shocking or in some other way new and fascinating. It&#039;s just the way it is. I heard somewhere that people in a conversation start preparing their response while the other person is still talking to them. We like to hear ourselves, not the other side. I think the solution is not so much to passively ask others to listen, but to actively speak our minds in an effective way - short, clear and engaging.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Vered DeLeeuw&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.momgrind.com&quot; title=&quot;www.momgrind.com&quot;&gt;www.momgrind.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 16:28:03 -0600</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>Vered</dc:creator>
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 <title>DESIGNER HOSTESS BAGS WITH A TWIST – THEY’RE YOURS!</title>
 <link>http://www.blogher.com/hostess-gifts-10-ways-say-thank-you#comment-36750</link>
 <description>&lt;p&gt;Incredibly original I ideas, I love them all!  I especially think that wine bags are making hits everywhere, maybe because of the popularity of wine tasting parties. Going these days without an original wine bag to a tasting is certainly un-etiquette. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I recently came across some really wild and crazy designs over at winebags.com. As the name implies they specialize in wine bags. The have fabric and neoprene and some very unique designs styles, especially the fabric styles which come with tassel, sequin, satin and leather trims. The other interesting idea at Winebags is that you can design your own bags. By becoming a hostess of your own Winebags Wine Tasting Party you and your friends end up designing your own bags for hostess gifts at other parties.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I certainly think these bags should be considered as they too would make ideal hostess gifts for wine tastings. Here’s their link: &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.winebags.com&quot; title=&quot;http://www.winebags.com&quot;&gt;http://www.winebags.com&lt;/a&gt; and you can email them at &lt;a href=&quot;mailto:wines@winebags.com&quot;&gt;wines@winebags.com&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Sat, 16 Feb 2008 01:28:34 -0600</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>Fiona</dc:creator>
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 <title>Great post</title>
 <link>http://www.blogher.com/traditions-resolutions-and-quest-stabilizing-family-influences#comment-33640</link>
 <description>&lt;p&gt;Judith&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href=&quot;http://judithsdivorceblog.blogspot.com&quot; title=&quot;http://judithsdivorceblog.blogspot.com&quot;&gt;http://judithsdivorceblog.blogspot.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Really enjoyed this. We broke with tradition this year by visitng India and leaving behind all the consumerist paraphernalia of Christmas. In doing so we became steeped in a country and culture with its own deeply rooted traditions and somewhere along the way I&#039;m still trying to get it all sorted in my mind. For the time being I&#039;ve contented myself with blogging about my travels albeit themed to coincide with my divorce blog.&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2008 15:53:06 -0600</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>Judith</dc:creator>
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