BlogHer - middle-aged - Comments

Keep A Smile

midlifemuse — Thu, 04 Dec 2008 19:40:55 -0600

We really need to keep a sense of humor about dating at this time of life--sounds like you've got that--and the condoms!!!

It's not that bad

karenbrower — Wed, 26 Nov 2008 01:56:24 -0600

We still have our independence, our identity and our spirit. Take confidence in that and all will turn out well.

In regards to dating sites, I've found a lot more success at eharmony than the other personals ads sites like match or lavalife.

I loved the end of your article because it was very hard for me to go into 7-11 and buy condoms! My personal favorite site is http://www.condomman.com .. LOL!

Getting to Know You

womomma — Thu, 30 Oct 2008 11:22:00 -0500

I loved your list and I think it's a wonderful exercise for anyone to do. Relevant and incidental facts about life. I started a mid-life blog too and didn't realize how much is out there -- very exciting.

My second child went off to college and my first came home and the third (and last) will be leaving in three years and suddenly, while there is still plenty of parenting to do, there is this new room inside me for doing things I did in my twenties before children. Thinking about writing (blogging) and creative activites, lists of books to read or reading projects versus grabbing time to read A (big A) book that's been recommended forty times, trips with and life with my husband beyond this business (which has been very fulfilling and important) of mostly just raising children.

So I agree, mid-life is definitely a time for re-creation. Your son CAN'T understand it yet but he will and he'll say, wow, my mom was pretty amazing...now I get it.

I'd love to hear more about how you got started blogging and how you became a guest blogger too.

Just starting out, Womomma www.midagewomom.typepad.com/midagewomom

Hi Karen, Just read your

foxyc — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 07:31:14 -0500

Hi Karen,

Just read your True Confessions...I can relate lol. I am relatively new to BlogHer, but, not to midlife. I'm hoping to connect with other women of a certain age as we embark upon this journey of change.

If you can find a moment please feel free to visit my blog http://Womanwise2@wordpress.com, would love your input,.. For now, I'm sooo glad to meet you and all the other women here at BlogHer!

So Many Kids, So Few Parents

midlifemuse — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 22:17:24 -0500

There are so many more children out there who need a family. It's such an amazing thing to bring a child into a family--however that happens.

We Need Happy Endings

midlifemuse — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 22:14:35 -0500

Once in a while I think we need a happy ending to laugh and shed happy tears over. Especially these days when everyone's stressed over the economy. Glad you enjoyed the post and thanks so much for the congrats. The Peanut is a blessing every day--even when she's doing her 4-year old drama queen routine!

So Right

midlifemuse — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 22:11:05 -0500

That it is. The sisterhood, I mean. Who would have thought we'd all find it in the blogosphere? What an unexpected gift!

Great Idea

Pregnant moms — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 06:41:48 -0500

I am so in favor for parents who are adopting kids. It is a good help and besides it helps the kid developing self-esteem.

Top Mom Blog

Myths and Motherhood

rebellious thinker — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 06:19:32 -0500

The falseness of the fairytale: we find Prince Charming as soon as we wish him present; we get pregnant as soon as we wish it; and that Prince Charming really is a prince and really is charming. At least there are ways to work around the falsehoods of that myth and create beautiful lives for ourselves and our children.

Enjoy the fullness of life with and through your daughter.

Laura, www.RebelliousThoughtsofaWoman.com

I hadn't thought of it that way

LizzieH — Mon, 20 Oct 2008 22:07:06 -0500

I hadn't thought of it that way before, but you are right about it being labor! I just finished up six months of collecting paperwork, filling out forms, asking friends to write letters of recommendation, getting things notarized, attending classes, being interviewed...tomorrow morning I get fingerprinted by the Department of Homeland Security as the last step! And then I'll settle in for a six-to-twelve month wait. It's the uncertainty about when exactly the call will come that I think will come close to killing me...but I'm convinced it will be worth it.

Congrats on the Peanut!

--Liz

I blog about creating a life worth living at: inventingmylife.blogspot.com

Bravo

Meno Mom — Mon, 20 Oct 2008 21:54:54 -0500

I am always inspired by the sheer determination and unwavering commitment that the adoption process brings out in every impatiently waiting parent. After you have your baby (in your arms) you too, will brag about the endless hours of labor that you went through to become a Mom. Yes, adoptive parents experience labor pains too.

I hope you'll let me know when your little one arrives.

Goodnight.

the sisterhood of motherhood

Meno Mom — Mon, 20 Oct 2008 21:39:56 -0500

I dreamed about being a Mom from the time I was a little girl. I just knew that I would get married and have 4 children and be happy and content. When I made the decision to adopt, it was because deep in my heart of hearts, I knew I was meant to be a Mom. What a beautiful word - besheret. Thank you for sharing.

mother of The Peanut

the Peanut

Meno Mom — Mon, 20 Oct 2008 21:33:21 -0500

Every night I find myself gazing at my daughter while she sleeps, still in awe of my little miracle. That moment is forever burned into my memory; it was the beginning of my very own 'happily ever after.'

Peace.

Congratulations to your sister and family

geekgirl — Sun, 19 Oct 2008 07:50:06 -0500

It's a tragedy what your sister had to endure to adopt her daughter. No person compassionate and conscientious enough to care for an ailing parent should be forced to endure so much bureaucracy.

Thank you for sharing the happy ending.

Christine

Geek Thoughts
Technology doesn't have to be boring.

Frog In North Georgia
No, I'm not from around here.

Thank you!

LizzieH — Sat, 18 Oct 2008 17:50:33 -0500

Thanks - it's nice to know that people are getting something out of what I write!

All the best to your sister and the Peanut,

--Liz

I blog about creating a life worth living at: inventingmylife.blogspot.com