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 <title>It Hurts Like Hell</title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;First, my condolences! I recently lost two dogs within eight months of each other. It was completely heartbreaking. Thankfully time does seem to heal these losses. I still think of these incredible creatures every day but more and more it is with affection instead of sadness. They will live on in my heart forever. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Mary-Frances Makichen&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.makichenbooks.com/&quot;&gt;www.makichenbooks.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.wordmedley.com/&quot;&gt;www.wordmedley.com&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2008 13:12:20 -0600</pubDate>
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 <title>Didn&#039;t mean to make you cry</title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;Well, okay, maybe I did. Anyway, it sounds like you and Buddy were very much a dynamic duo like Simone and I. I certainly hope that Buddy thrives for several years to come!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Thanks for the warm words of support. Much appreciated. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;~ClizBiz &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;BlogHer Contributing Editor, Animal Concerns, Proprietor, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.clizbiz.blogspot.com/&quot;&gt;ClizBiz&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2008 12:45:43 -0600</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>ClizBiz</dc:creator>
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 <title>Never Gets Easier But ...</title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;I am sorry to hear about Holly moving on - we never have them long enough. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;However, it looks like you have a new furbaby in your world. Lola is a sweet girl! And so photogenic! I&#039;m guessing that she knows that already ... &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Enjoy the licks ... and the lick marks on your couch. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;~ClizBiz &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;BlogHer Contributing Editor, Animal Concerns, Proprietor, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.clizbiz.blogspot.com/&quot;&gt;ClizBiz&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2008 12:03:57 -0600</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>ClizBiz</dc:creator>
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 <title>Peter &amp; Lucky - Both Lucky </title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;Christina, &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;You sound like a great mom to Peter &amp;amp; Lucky. I just came from the animal shelter, just to cheer myself up, and nearly came home with Thom, a border collie. However, I also came home with the ashes of Simone, my cat. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Dunno. Guess I&#039;m just not ready yet but I am looking forward to my next pride &amp;amp; joy. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;~ClizBiz &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;BlogHer Contributing Editor, Animal Concerns, Proprietor, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.clizbiz.blogspot.com/&quot;&gt;ClizBiz&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2008 23:08:57 -0600</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>ClizBiz</dc:creator>
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 <title>Yeah, Weird Timing</title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;Laurie, &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The good news is that those of us who regularly write about animals have a handy outlet for these new experiences - whether sad or joyful. I can&#039;t wait to see what kind of dog I get too but in the words of our President-elect: &amp;quot;We&#039;ll probably get a mutt since I&#039;m a mutt too.&amp;quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;~ClizBiz &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;BlogHer Contributing Editor, Animal Concerns, Proprietor, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.clizbiz.blogspot.com/&quot;&gt;ClizBiz&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2008 15:09:51 -0600</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>ClizBiz</dc:creator>
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 <title>So sorry to hear of your</title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;So sorry to hear of your loss, it appears to be the week for this. My Lancelot passed away yesterday. I just wrote about him as well. It seems to help to honor him in writing. Take good care,&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;DJ&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://nodinsnest.blogspot.com/&quot;&gt;&lt;u&gt;Nodin’s Nest&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;/nodinsnest.blogspot.com&quot;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Sun, 16 Nov 2008 21:00:54 -0600</pubDate>
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 <title>This one made me cry.</title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;My kitty, Buddy just turned 11 and I&#039;ve had him since he was kitten.  It seems so unfair that by the time we are able to really communicate and they are very much a part of our family, that we will lose them and it will be painful.  &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I&#039;m sorry for your loss and I&#039;m glad that you are opening up that spot in your heart to love another animal who will, I&#039;m sure offer much needed love and support in your life.  &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Warm Regards,&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;~ Chrysti&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://Chrystibella.com&quot; title=&quot;http://Chrystibella.com&quot;&gt;http://Chrystibella.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Sun, 16 Nov 2008 16:27:43 -0600</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>Chrystibella</dc:creator>
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 <title>My Condolences</title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;I started my blog as I was dealing with the death of my beloved dog.  I lost my Holly in April of 2007 and I still miss her terribly.  Pets bring so much joy to our lives and ask for so little in return.  Thank you for sharing your story.  &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;www.lapetitechic.com&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Sun, 16 Nov 2008 13:13:39 -0600</pubDate>
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 <title>my peter is gone too</title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;He died a year and a half ago. He was my 10 year old german shepherd. He had a tumor in his leg that turned out to be cancer. I know how hard it can be. I still miss my dog. But, I&#039;ve got a great new baby boy Lucky who is my 3 year old black cat. I got him last year and he is my pride and joy. &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Christina &lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Sat, 15 Nov 2008 23:02:54 -0600</pubDate>
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 <title>Sad year for pet editors, past and current. :( </title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;It helped to write here after I lost Punkin in March and I hope it&#039;s been good for you too. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I still hate it, will always hate it. I fully expected him to live forever in spite of all intellectual understanding to the contrary. I&#039;m not in the right place or space to get another pet, but I hope I have that in my life again someday. It was one of the best choices I ever made. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Can&#039;t wait to see what kind of dog you get. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;xo, laurie : )&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Sat, 15 Nov 2008 22:34:26 -0600</pubDate>
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 <title>Mean Cats - Still Lovable, Unlike Mean People</title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;Desdemona had her charms, I&#039;m sure. She certainly inspired some loving, hilarious writing from you so that is saying a lot. Also, she was quite beautiful and tolerant with the baby, right? &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The dog will need walking? What? Like outside? Whoa. I might need to rethink this. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;~ClizBiz &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;BlogHer Contributing Editor, &lt;a href=&quot;http://blogher.org/node/19958&quot;&gt;Photography&lt;/a&gt; &amp;amp; Animal Concerns, Proprietor, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.clizbiz.blogspot.com/&quot;&gt;ClizBiz&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Fri, 14 Nov 2008 16:19:11 -0600</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>ClizBiz</dc:creator>
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 <title>&quot;This one hurts&quot;</title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;How wonderful to know you were the proud owner (companion?) of an animal that brought so much happiness to people. I will say Desdemona mostly tortured everyone she came in contact with, but I didn&#039;t love her any less. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I think you&#039;re going to enjoy being a dog owner by the way. Wow, it&#039;s different than a cat. Do you know you actually have to walk them? It&#039;s true! I learned that when I got one.  &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://mom-101.blogspot.com&quot;&gt;Mom-101&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href=&quot;http://coolmompicks.com&quot;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://coolmompicks.com&quot;&gt;Cool Mom Picks.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Fri, 14 Nov 2008 10:30:45 -0600</pubDate>
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 <title>Stay tuned! </title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;Hey Megan, &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Thanks so much for sharing your story about Daisy. I&#039;m amazed how attached I got to her just from reading - I can&#039;t imagine how charming she must have been in real life! &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Yes, I&#039;ll be needing dog-owning tips come spring so don&#039;t wander off! Stay in the yard!  &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;~ClizBiz &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;BlogHer Contributing Editor, &lt;a href=&quot;http://blogher.org/node/19958&quot;&gt;Photography&lt;/a&gt; &amp;amp; Animal Concerns, Proprietor, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.clizbiz.blogspot.com/&quot;&gt;ClizBiz&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Thu, 13 Nov 2008 13:58:44 -0600</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>ClizBiz</dc:creator>
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 <title>Oh my</title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;Wow, CC, you and your family have really been through the wringer on this. I&#039;m so sorry for all these goodbyes! I think it is great though that you took in a blind old kitty who got one more best friend before she left this Earth. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Even though it is painful to say goodbye, I do think we are better for having these cross-species bonds of love. Your son sounds like a real sweetheart too. I think he&#039;ll have many pets throughout his life. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;~ClizBiz &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;BlogHer Contributing Editor, &lt;a href=&quot;http://blogher.org/node/19958&quot;&gt;Photography&lt;/a&gt; &amp;amp; Animal Concerns, Proprietor, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.clizbiz.blogspot.com/&quot;&gt;ClizBiz&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Thu, 13 Nov 2008 13:55:47 -0600</pubDate>
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 <title>Nope, not weird at all </title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;I totally agree with your reaction. I think we can be close with pets in ways that are not possible with humans. It&#039;s almost like having a furry extension of yourself that just so happens to like barfing on the carpet. This requires deep, deep love. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Looking forward to the dog. I realize it will require more of me but I&#039;m up for the challenge. Will probably get a doomed mutt from the pound - again, similar to my own adoption. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;~ClizBiz &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;BlogHer Contributing Editor, Animal Concerns, Proprietor, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.clizbiz.blogspot.com/&quot;&gt;ClizBiz&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Thu, 13 Nov 2008 13:52:24 -0600</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>ClizBiz</dc:creator>
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