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How Many Holocaust Survivors Can Return With Their Grandchildren? Dancing at Auschwitz

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When I first heard about the video, Dancing at Auschwitz, from Mir at Would Coulda Shoulda, I didn’t know how to feel. The film features a Holocaust survivor, his daughter, and her children and nieces dancing to Gloria Gaynor’s song "I Will Survive" at Auschwitz and other historic sites. I liked the idea of dancing - celebrating life in the face of such destruction and loss - but " Will Survive," despite the word "survive" in the title, didn’t seem like a good choice. Then I watched the video.

I couldn’t stop crying. To see this man go back to a place that robbed him of so much and dance with his family is incredible. He’s adorable as he fumbles some of the steps, and his family brings such life as they move around him. Be sure to watch until the very end, when he talks about what it means to go back more than 60 years later with his grandchildren.

The video is part of a larger project by artist Jane Korman. (Click on projects, then Dancing Auschwitz to get to the other videos and pictures.) The second video is from her childhood and shows her family dancing together in a forest. Korman explains how much dancing meant to her as a means of celebrating life. The final video is a documentary Korman made when the family went back to Poland and Germany. I actually found that to be the most difficult to watch: Korman’s father stands in a box car and re-enacts his journey to Auschwitz 65 years earlier. It seems insanely cruel, but as he explains, he is very happy that he has the chance to come back with his grandchildren. Not many people can say the same, he notes, because they were killed. The last part of the project includes photos in which the family re-enacts scenes at Auschwitz that made me feel sick while viewing. But maybe that is what makes it good art. It’s important to see and decide for oneself.

In June, I went to Treblinka, a death camp between Warsaw (my grandfather’s hometown) and Białystok (the Polish city occupied by Russia in 1939 to which he fled). It never crossed my mind to dance and celebrate life. I think the difference is that, as evil and horrible and destructive as Auschwitz was, it had survivors who could return with children and grandchildren. Treblinka was an extermination camp. This is where Warsaw's 350,000 Jews died if the ghetto didn’t kill them first, or if they didn't flee like my grandfather. All 2,000 people who arrived per transport were gassed and cremated within two hours. There were no barracks and no selections for forced labor. While over 800,000 people died at Treblinka, fewer than 100 escaped and survived. Literally there is no one to come back with their family to dance. At Treblinka, there is only the opportunity to honor the dead. In a twisted way, I am jealous that Korman could do what she did. At the end of my trip, I came away feeling the weight of my grandfather's loss more than ever.

Still, there are many ways to cope. I love how Korman grapples with this topic, even if it also upsets me. My own grandfather used (frequently bawdy) humor. Vered feels rage at what her family went through. Kgirl spoke to a survivor while waiting to use the facilities on a flight to Miami and shared her words. And many have their own families because the best way to celebrate surviving is to bring in new life to cherish.

Suzanne also blogs at Campaign for Unshaved Snatch (CUSS) & Other Rants and is the author of Off the Beaten (Subway) Track.

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kgirl 5 pts

I will be, and the feeling is mutual. Let's make it happen.

Karen authors the blog, The Kids Are Alright ( http://kidsarealrightto.blogspot.com/ )

kgirl 5 pts

I will be, and the feeling is mutual. Let's make it happen.

Karen authors the blog, The Kids Are Alright ( http://kidsarealrightto.blogspot.com/ )

suebob 7 pts

It's easy for me to forget how close we are in history to the Holocaust. It is through stories like these that I remember. To me, the subject is incredibly touching because it is the ultimate symbol of man's inhumanity to man and how easily we slip from civilization into horror. The line is thinner than we like to think.

I am proud that my dad was over there fighting the Nazis. I can't imagine the world if the Allies hadn't vanquished them.

Suzanne 5 pts

I heard that it was taken down because they did not have rights to the song. Which is funny because I think the song itself is the weakest part, but so it goes.

Will you be at the BlogHer conference? I would really like to meet you.

Suzanne also blogs at Campaign for Unshaved Snatch (CUSS) & Other Rants ( http://cussandotherrants.com ) and is the author of Off the Beaten (Subway) Track ( http://offthebeatensubwaytrack.com ).

Melissa Ford 5 pts

It's the other two videos that make me love this one. Which makes me wonder if YouTube is the best medium since they are so easily separated and many probably don't even know about the other two videos at all.

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

IsleDance 5 pts

Beautiful.

One Friday night, I loaded up my life and headed out... ( http://isledance.blogspot.com )

kgirl 5 pts

Well, I was tearing up just reading this post, so I'll really have to steel myself to watch the video.

Karen authors the blog, The Kids Are Alright ( http://kidsarealrightto.blogspot.com/ )

Suzanne 5 pts

I was sort of horrified at the idea, but then thought about how joy and exuberance totally appropriate given the context. I'm not sure I could have come to that conclusion without watching the video first. My instinct when I hear Auschwitz is to shrink back and become sad and reflective and serious, not dance. I'm glad this challenged that, and I'm glad that you watched the video and were touched by it, too.

Suzanne also blogs at Campaign for Unshaved Snatch (CUSS) & Other Rants ( http://cussandotherrants.com ) and is the author of Off the Beaten (Subway) Track ( http://offthebeatensubwaytrack.com ).

Suzanne 5 pts

I also think that the song doesn't really work, but as I watched it, the song became really the background and I forgot all about it. I agree that the video works best within the context of the whole project, but I also admit I was a little bored by the family dancing video. It went on for a long time. I did like the music to that one, though. Regardless, the whole thing is thought provoking.

Suzanne also blogs at Campaign for Unshaved Snatch (CUSS) & Other Rants ( http://cussandotherrants.com ) and is the author of Off the Beaten (Subway) Track ( http://offthebeatensubwaytrack.com ).

Suzanne 5 pts

I don't think this would work at all without the grandfather (for a variety of reasons), but he is the glue of this in so many ways.

Suzanne also blogs at Campaign for Unshaved Snatch (CUSS) & Other Rants ( http://cussandotherrants.com ) and is the author of Off the Beaten (Subway) Track ( http://offthebeatensubwaytrack.com ).

Culturemomblog 5 pts

I felt the same way when I read about this video, but after watching it, it seems perfectly understandable and makes sense. Korman's grandfather went onto live a full life in spite of the Holocaust, and look at how much life he brought into this world. Triumphant. Thank you for writing about it.

sassymonkey 6 pts moderator

When I first watched the video I loved that they danced but I wasn't crazy about the song choice. That's me bringing my personal interpretation of "I Will Survive" into play though. (Simply I see it as being about leaving a lover and that was just simply hard for me to reconcile with the location and context of the video.)

When I went to the artist's site and watched the other videos and I was floored. I didn't cry...but just barely. The footage from her childhood was my favourite.

I think it's something that really ought to be viewed within the context of the whole project. On its own it's powerful but within the context of the whole project? Spectacular.

Contributing Editor Sassymonkey also blogs at Sassymonkey ( http://sassymonkey.ca ) and Sassymonkey Reads ( http://sassymonkeyreads.ca ).

JennaHatfield 10 pts

Man, I should have taken you at your word about the crying. I thought, "What the snot is she talking about crying?" And then I pressed play. And now I'm all snotty and weepy.

Of course, grandpas have a special place in my heart, especially this year, so I'm prone to extra weepiness.

What this grandfather has done for those grandkids... first surviving, hard enough... and then going back... and being quite awesome... well, it hits me in a special place. Kudos, Dancing Grandpa.

Jenna Hatfield (@FireMom ( http://twitter.com/FireMom )), from Stop, Drop and Blog ( http://stopdropandblog.com ) and The Chronicles of Munchkin Land ( http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com ), is a freelance writer and newspaper photographer.