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The Day Dress, or What Little Girls Know that Big Girls Should

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My typical style advice goes like this: Do not try to dress like a kid; you are a grown woman.  Wear some grown-up woman clothes. 

Today, I am making an exception.  

Little girls have the day dress figured out.  They know that a dress is just as practical -- and typically more comfortable -- than pants or a skirt.  They know that a dress requires less planning and less fussing.  They know that, in a pinch, they can toss some jeans or tights under that dress and still be ready to rock and roll.  Or at least run around.  

We can learn a lot from little girls.

Shabby Apple tuxedo dressAs adults, we lose that sense of fun that little girls have with their dresses.  We think about a dress as only for Dress Up events -- the little black dress, or the formal dress.  But the day dress -- the adult equivalent of play clothes -- is simple and practical and pretty, without any hassle at all.

The perfect day dress is one that you can literally wear all day, no matter where you're going or what you're doing.  It's a dress that you can layer (over a tee or blouse, under a sweater) and style (add boots or flats, a scarf or belt, a dramatic necklace).  It's one that can go from work to dinner, and that is equally appropriate for Saturday errands or Sunday church.

The dress pictured her is from Shabby Apple, which is one of my favorite go-to sites for dresses.  Their collection is small but versatile, and their dresses are practical and elegant, all at once.  

This dress -- the Tuxedo III -- is a linen/rayon blend.  Machine wash, line dry, and you're good to go.  Wear it now with boots and a big belt (and a cardi or trench or tee, depending on the weather where you are).  The combination of a deep neutral shade and the linen blend fabric make it a good spring-into-summer dress.

Shabby Apple tuxedo dressOnce summer comes in earnest, restyle -- pair with strappy sandals and a slimmer belt, or wear the fabric tie belt that comes with the dress.   For a dressier summer event, add peep toe shoes and a dramatic necklace, or a light wrap.  Wear the tuxedo front buttoned up or open; layer over a lacy camisole and let that peek out at the neckline.

How do you make a dress really work for everyday?  Look for simple shapes (this dress is essentially a shift) with interesting details (the ruffly tuxedo bib).  Stick with neutral shades, or clean patterns, for a versatile look.  That hot pink minidress with the asymetrical hem might seem super chic, but you won't get much wear out of it.  Instead, look for sheaths or shirtdresses in clean, crisp colors.

Want more scoop on the Shabby Apple brand? Kristen at Mama Manifesto included them in her Best Maternity Clothes wrap up.  Jenny Rapson at Blissfully Domestic chats with the Shabby Apple designers.  And Melanie at Daily Sonrisas reminds us that Shabby Apple is about more than clothes -- they're about doing good, too.

And the Shabby Apple girls have a blog, too!  Check it out.  But don't blame me if you suddenly want to buy everything they've got in stock.

Susan Wagner writes about chic suburban living at Friday Playdate and about practical style at The Working Closet.  She thinks she might REALLY need that Shabby Apple dress (currently on sale for $68.00 you all!). 

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mizzjenny 5 pts

For someone who is lax on learning how to accessorize, it is so easy to look pulled together in a dress.

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AllieAnalogue 5 pts

As a woman in my mid-20s, I'm still very much dealing with having to dress for work/public, and wanting to dress however I wish, i.e. more like a little kid.  And living in CT, I've gotten in the habit of putting my dresses and skirts away for 6 months of the year because I just cannot deal with cold legs and feet.  I guess I haven't put enough effort into finding the a good selection of tights and wearable boots, since the ladies of NYC seem to be able to wear whatever they want, whenever they want.  But I do think it's important for "grown ups" to have their playclothes too, especially if we have to wear something "acceptable" or practical for work.  Great post!

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Allie

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TheStyleSample 5 pts

I've gotten a lot of wear out of a few American Apparel ( http://americanapparel.net ) sleeveless dresses (yeah, I know AA is geared towards hipsters--good prices are good prices!). I have a navy tank dress and a black v-neck sheath that can be dressed up with a belted cardigan or blazer. Add patterned tights with heels or ankle boots for the office, or a hoodie and flats on the weekends.

I have to disagree about the super-chic minidress, though. One of my favorite pieces is an aqua-colored leather dress I picked up on a thrift shopping trip--seems totally unwearable, I know, but has since become one of my most versatile pieces! Layering (blazers, chunky sweaters, denim jackets over the dress; button-downs, t-shirts, slip dresses under it) can completely change the look of just about anything!

Tamia

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Down Comforters 5 pts

LOVE the first dress & the accompanying belt is awesome!  I just can't wait for warm weather so I can wear my dresses & not freeze :)

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grannysu 5 pts

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I wear dresses because they're comfortable, non-binding and versatile. And because I don't have to do the --okay--brown pants--need a top to match--now a jacket that goes with both-- kind of morning dance. A no-iron dress is a whole outfit without much thinking involved.

My job has changed to the point that dresses are often not practical. I might be meeting with the Board, then get called off to deal with spewing radiators or some other problem that requires something sturdier than heels and hose. I always feel like I'm taking a chance when I wear a dress to work these days. Tis sad, because I do like the freedom of dresses

shoalswriter 5 pts

 I love the idea of learning style from young girls! What fun inspiration! Here in the South we're more prone to wearing dresses all day than in other parts of the country -- much cooler in the summer, for instance, and some of us still have trouble coming to terms with wearing pants to church, funerals and other occasions. Of course, those probably are the same women who would never put grapes in their chicken salad, so there you go!

Cathy

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STL Mom 5 pts

I love skirts, but then you still have to find a shirt or sweater that matches, so it's no easier than pants.  Dresses are hard to fit because they have to fit you all over, and if your proportions are not "average" it can be nearly impossible.  This is particularly true if you only look good in fitted dresses.  I look awful in shifts, t-shirt dresses, etc.

I think I need to work on my sewing skills so I can make my own dresses.  For instance, I love the look of shirtdresses, but by the time I find one that fits my narrow shoulders and chest, long torso, "curvy" hips, and short legs without extensive alterations, I'll have spent so much time shopping that I might as well have made my own.