The Day True Feminism Died

The other day while on Facebook, I came across a post about Feminism and how Some women today are rejecting the feminist movement, and I must say, I was baffled. Baffled because the entire reason for the movement in the first place is being totally overlooked in 2014!

 In the 1950's, women of the “I Love Lucy” era were portrayed as a woman-in-distress, who always needed her husband, the man, to bail her out. In the 1960's is when the role of women in American society changed, and changed drastically. Women fought against sexual harassment, entered the work force in enormous numbers and fought for equal pay and advancement in the workplace. By the end of the Sixties, more than 80 percent of wives of childbearing age were using contraception after the federal government in 1960 approved a birth control pill. Women were able to run in the Boston Marathon, get a credit card, keep her job if she became pregnant, and report sexual harassment all in the 1970's. The 1980's saw a rise of females entering the medical, law, and business school. People tried to get rid of the label “it's a woman's job” Even though there were some setbacks for women in 1990's, "You go, girl" was a popular expression during the decade. By 1998, there was a TV show on HBO that finally changed how single women should be perceived called, “Sex and the City.”
In today's society Feminism is something that is shoved down our throats that we are not being treated well.

 BUT if you see the progress from the 50's until now, everything that has happened in history has been totally taken out of context. The media has played a very strong part in trying to make it seem as though women are not being treated right, we need to look and act this way, women are victims, etc.

This movement was designed for equality between the sexes, but instead in 2014 Feminism equals hating and bashing men. Man-hating is now a part of that goal: “Men are bad and women must stick together so one day they might be President.... yada yada yada...”

And some women wonder WHY they are single and no man is biting the bait they are throwing out? Not to say it, never mind, I'll say it, your negative attitudes toward men could be the number one reason why.

 My self-worth is not tied to what society says I should wear, how I should speak, who I can date, and what I do for a living. I'm a strong, independent adult, capable of taking care of myself. As a woman in 2014, I am not oppressed, neither is any other woman today! I can be whoever I want. I can date whomever I wish. And I never dress for men, I dress for myself. I want to be treated as a lady, but I also don't want to be treated with kid gloves either. Here's what these feminists of today seem to not know or don't want to admit:

 Men have as MANY issues as WOMEN. Did you know that men made up about 40% of domestic violence victims; not attackers. Men assaulted by their partners are often ignored by police, see their attacker go free, because women are seen as the victim, not the perpetrator. Men are largely silent on the issue because of the perception that men are physically stronger and should be able to subdue a female attacker easily. Those men who do report physical violence are more likely to be ridiculed–both by law enforcement and by the public–than women are. 1 out of every 33 American men has been the victim of an attempted or completed rape in his lifetime.

 Women are more brutal than men when it comes to emotional abuse. In most cases men are more affected by being emotionally abused than women are. For a man, being humliated in front of others, even in the privacy of their own home, is more devastating than being physically abused. Many men live up to the code, of “never hitting a woman.” However, being emotionally abused by a woman, can have far more severe consequences. Men who are being abused emotionally always feel that they are “walk on eggshells” in order to “keep the peace,” instead of talking about their feelings. Then tend to shutdown totally and remove themselves from forming bonds with other women. If you are a guy and this sounds like your relationship, you are very likely in an unhealthy, controlling, abusive relationship and need to get out now.


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