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A Different Thanksgiving Story

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This time of year mixes up lots of feelings for our family. As two adults who are committed to teaching our daughter about American and World History through non-rose colored glasses, it can be difficult to detangle the multitude of messages implicit in the majority of the Autumn American holidays.

 

When Emily entered public school for the first time, she encountered the stories of Columbus. She brought home photocopied pictures of the Nina, the Pinta and Santa Maria.  Eventually in November ,she brought home paper Pilgrim hats and Cornucopia's and yes, even faux paper "Indian headbands". 

 

She asked if we planned on having a special feast for Columbus Day. After all, we mark most of our holiday's with special dinners, and given that this newfound holiday and story seemed to be so important...at least important enough to require coloring and cutting and hats, one would assume an observance of some sort was due.

 

In that first attempt at telling her that maybe we all didn't see the story of Columbus and the Pilgrims in the same rosy light, Terrance ditched me. Hightailed it out of the kitchen with his "Daddy doesn't "do" Columbus" remark.

 

Yeah. Thanks for that Mr. Social and Economic Justice. 

 

Clearly, I was on my own.  

 

 

I did what I always do - I found a book.  Jane Yolen's Encounter. I sat the then 7 year old Emily on my lap, and we read it.

 

The story could be that of Columbus, but it could also be the story of any number of arrivals of Europeans on the shores of North and South America. The illustrations, done by David Shannon, are lovely. The story, however, is not. The story is one of theft and murder and pillage. The indigenous people who meet these white men are fascinated, for they have never seen anything like what is before them. White Skin. Blue Eyes. Large Ships. 

 

Told from the point of view of the only survivor of the Encounter, it is the type of story which leaves you shaken - wondering how you ever believed the tales of Columbus, the Pilgrims and the other Glorious Founding Legends of our Nation.  Of course it couldn't have happened the way we were taught. It makes no logical sense for it to have happened that way. 

 

When you start to poke around and figure out that the Pilgrims walked into land that had already been cleared by First Nations peoples...who had most likely been wiped out by a smallpox or other disease epidemic, and that they viewed this as a sign from God that the land belonged to them....That they looted graves of those peoples for the tools inside them, assuming that some divine providence had left this stuff just laying about.

 

It starts to make our founding stories a little less glorious. A little less heroic. Makes our manifest destiny credo, still evident in the nation building dogma of

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Dawn 5 pts

You really summarized something I was struggling to clarify, insomuch as the ideal of America.

Thank you.

One of my own personal struggles is answering to my biracial daughter when she asks me Why - Why did "white people" allow slavery? Why did "white people" murder, displace and oppress the First Nations people?

All I can say is that I don't know. I simply don't understand some of the mind set - but that I know there were always people who knew it was wrong and were working against the system in place (being from New England I think of Quakers, foremost). Even White People like her mom.

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Faiqa 5 pts

This is a wonderful thing you're doing. Having studied history professionally, I firmly believe that teaching a child this way holds deeper benefit for who they will become as a *human being* not just as an American.

And, for the record, I'm proud to be an American, too. I know we have a lot of inequity in our society, but we are constantly in the process of reaching peaceful consensus... the fact that you can write a post like this, that you could find a book like that to read to your child, that you are even aware of the idea that there is a parallel story to the mainstream one... that's special. And that is part of being American that's something to be proud of, I think.

I would like to, at the risk of sounding Pollyanna-ish, offer the idea that perhaps it's not "America" that keeps us from achieving ideals based on equity and humanity, but the baggage of human civilization.

To me, "America" is an ideal that we struggle to achieve... a place where everyone should be respected, everyone should be treated with fairness... that doesn't necessarily exist, but my pride emanates from the fact that we TRY... we are TRYING... and as someone who specialized in American history, it is my belief that portions of our society have always tried... even portions who had nothing whatsoever to gain from fighting for those who were being treated unfairly. Some of the most vocal critics of slavery and ardent Civil Rights workers were white people, too, you know? Oh, sorry... tangent... anyway, great post.

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Dawn 5 pts

and it is very true that being part of the dominant "white", hetero culture I am certainly allowed a type of voice/protest that would be much less safe for others.

Dawn Rouse

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entremislibros 5 pts

Maybe I don't have a problem with "American pride." I guess I am just tired of having to say how much we love the USA every time we criticize it.

On second thought... I am not proud to be "American." I live in a country where my rights are denied everyday. I am genderqueer, gay, native/chicano, from a poor working class family. Until recently I was a sex worker. And I don't feel like I have freedom of speech... sometimes I don't feel I am free to walk down streets because of the harassment that may lay ahead of me. I have had things thrown at me for being "Arab." I have been spit on for being a "faggot." I have been robbed while working because the government doesn't give workers in my field any rights or protection. I am too trapped by the system to feel that I am free to speak against it. When I am speaking against the system... it doesn't feel like I was given that right... it feels like I am taking it back.

babyseal112 5 pts

haha! its ok. I mess up too sometimes.

now here's the real question. Can we be feminists and fight the capitalist patriarchy and still be American??

entremislibros 5 pts

sorry i didn't include she! i am a feminist and should have included she as it is a part of my politics. i was just writing too quickly... still fighting all the internalized patriarchy!

babyseal112 5 pts

"but can a revolutionary american take pride in a culture he is revolting against?"

especially if he is a she and has no place fro pride in herself in this country....

babyseal112 5 pts

@Dawn.

I want to add that I think what you are doing for your child is great. It is important to re-teach our national history so that it becomes easier and easier to critique our country

babyseal112 5 pts

@Dawn's reply:

you write:
For me, part of being an American is being able to actively criticize or critique my government and history - and not fear death, or imprisonment or the death and imprisonment of my friends and family.

While I think this is a good point, and in line with what I was trying to say we have to keep it in perspective. For a lot of Americans, of all races, genders, sexualities and religious beliefs, critiquing America has not been so safe. (think of Civil Rights leaders, Communists, LGBT people etc etc)

I'm not sure if we can call this critique part of our national identity, as for most it is a dangerous activity. Being politically engaged is not neccesarily part of being American, but to go back to my original comment, it doesn't make you not American.

entremislibros 5 pts

I believe one can be inside of a culture and still reject it. Look at the different social movements that have happened (civil rights, woman's rights, gay rights, ect), these people were inside the culture changing it... so yeah it's possible to be a critical american. but can a revolutionary american take pride in a culture he is revolting against?

Dawn 5 pts

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Dawn 5 pts

It is a good question. For me, part of being an American is being able to actively criticize or critique my government and history - and not fear death, or imprisonment or the death and imprisonment of my friends and family.

The ideals of America, those of equality and justice, those are good. Are the actions dictated by elected officials always representative of those people? No. Absolutely Not.

Do we live up to them as a Nation? No, not always. Perhaps even rarely. But sometimes we do.

However, I don't think that being proud to be a citizen equals agreement with policy, or history that negates others. In fact, I suspect that it can only be in a nation in which active and vocal disagreement can occur ( and is encouraged) that we can start to get to a more just and accurate version of our history.

My hope is to help raise a generation who can continue to question, while still retaining the vision of what our country (USA) is still in the process of becoming.

Dawn Rouse

Writer, Thinker, Nap-Taker and almost Doctor of Education

I am Doing the Best I can ( http://www.balefulregards.com )

True Wife Confessions ( http://www.truewifeconfession.com )

babyseal112 5 pts

@@entremislibros:

I wonder what it means to be American. I feel like your comment on patriotism is more about what it means to be a critical American. Can't we still be part of America and want to change/criticize it? Isn't that the best method for change, by understanding the culture and changin it from the inside out?

entremislibros 5 pts

I agree with this post, except for one thing... why do you feel pride in being a citizen of The United States of America (or America, as you would say)? What does that mean to you? Pride in being from this country? I am not proud to be from this country. My ancestry is Native/Chicano. And when I hear people, progressive people, who acknowledge the genocide/ethnocide of our past, declare that they take pride in our country, it really throws me off. Maybe I don't understand what it means to take pride in being "American." I am not saying we have to be ashamed of our Nationality... I just feel that to take pride is in some ways saying everything that happened is ok.