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Ditching the Second Car?

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A dear friend of mine is from England, now living in the U.S.  She sat in my living room recently, telling me that one of the hardest things to get used to in America has been the way that people spend so much time in their cars. 

In England, she told me, life was centered around smaller villages.  Mothers walked their children to school, because they lived close enough.  They walked to the market, and to church.  And it would be nearly unheard of to drive for 15 minutes to go shopping.

Her conversation came back to me as I read this article from MSN money:  Could you get by with just one car?  The article reports that, remarkably, the U.S. has more cars than we have drivers.  With the economy slumping and gas prices soaring, families are beginning to wonder if the extra car payment, insurance and gas are worth it:

Soaring gas prices are increasingly squeezing middle-class families. And that's just part of the cost of vehicle ownership: According to the public-transport association, it costs an average of $8,580 per year to own, maintain and drive a car.

This might not sound like a radical idea to many people, particularly those living in large cities.  My own family lived in downtown Chicago years ago, and we ditched our second car right away.  With public transportation at our doorstep, we hardly needed the one we had.  Escape Brooklyn writes:

All the cities we're considering relocating to must have good public transit and biking infrastructures, since we're going to try to stay car-free.

That's sound planning, but it won't work for everyone.  We specifically chose to take our kids out of the big city for greener pastures (literally), and I wouldn't go back.  We now live in a mid-sized city that is nice and compact--long commutes are a rarity here.  But public transportation is clunky at best, and most of the streets, believe it or not, don't even have sidewalks (which makes walking places with children a safety hazard).  According to the MSN article, communities are beginning to wisen up:

Cities and states have real incentive to invest in trains and buses. Studies show that property values -- read tax bases -- grow rapidly when public rail systems are built. One report found that the value of homes in one Dallas neighborhood doubled when a light-rail system was built nearby.

"City after city is finding that good public transit is good economic strategy," Millar says, adding that there is a 6:1 return on federal dollars invested in public rail systems.

Local governments around the country are encouraging residents to ditch their unneeded vehicles. Arlington, Va., Denver and Dayton, Ohio, are all starting programs designed to take cars off their roads. Under Seattle's "One Less Car Challenge," residents who successfully go on a monthlong car diet get discounted memberships to bicycle clubs and -- for those who actually get rid of a vehicle -- up to $600 in credit to a car-sharing program.

I'll be the first to agree that the idea has great merit.  I filled up my mini-van at the gas station for (*gulp*) $60 last week, and I live in the part of the country where gas is cheapest.  The idea of a slower-paced lifestyle with less time in the car is very appealing.  Walking more would certainly be healthier for both my children and for me. 

But the question I've turned over and over in my head since reading this article is, is it an idea worth considering for those of us who live in communities not geared for pedestrian traffic or public transport?  I wonder if the increase in stress over logistics would outweigh the stress over gas prices?  Green SAHM has done it, and she admits it's been hard:

As gas prices go up, this has been more and more a benefit to us. I work at home, and drive much less now that I don’t have my own car. Frivolous trips are much harder to make. But it’s still not easy.

For example, my son has speech therapy on the other side of town. I used Google’s transit website to check the bus schedule. The buses here would get me about halfway there; the rest I’d have to walk. You can see where there’s a bit of a problem. The walk is very long for a 3 year old.

Sara Schaefer Munoz of the Wall Street Journal blogged about her own experience:

It does require better coordination — mapping out the weekend

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SpillZone 5 pts

We have three young kids (and carseats) riding in the back of of our
4-door car.  We are relunctantly considering another vehicle, but I am
REALLY dreading the extra expense, despite the added convenience factor.

I am an idealist.  My husband is a realist, but he usually rides his bicycle or takes the poorly-timed bus to campus, where he's a full-time PhD student.  However he now needs a car for work on the weekends.   

I care for our children at home, so the main uses for the car are outings and errands. We've been a one car family for our entire 8.5 years together.    I wishing our city did ride-sharing, but having a car (or two) is regarded as essential by most people here, no matter how low one's income is.

We've done allright with one vehicle for so many years.  Obviously it can be done.  The question for us is: for how much longer?

AmandaA 5 pts

We only have one car in our family. I drop hubby off at work so I can do anything that needs to be done during the day, he then gets a ride home from a co-worker

littleerca 5 pts

It would be WONDERFUL if I thought it was possible for my family to get by with one vehicle, but with my husband being in the Army he sometimes needs to travel and keep a vehicle with him for weeks at a time. I also have 2 little kids that would not enjoy a 2 mile walkt o and then from the grocery store.

 With gas prices being almost $4 a gallon I would love to rely on public transportation and my own 2 feet instead of my van, but where I live that is not an option. We sure don't go places like we used to though!

Stevenbrycesmom 5 pts

We have an SUV that I would love to get rid of right now.  I think it was the dumbest purchase we ever made.  6 yrs ago it sounded like the only solution for kids, sporting equipment and hauling stuff. Within the next 3 yrs we will have to replace DH's car and we are thinking of going with a Prius.  He travels about 30 miles a day for work and this would be a God send for us.  

Jess Mom to Thing 1 and Thing 2 CEO of Knight INC.

nadiarl 5 pts

It seems like the biggest factor in a family's ability to downsize to just one car is the number of kids they have. My husband and I are currently on our own and are contemplating the 1 car/1 scooter deal. It helps that southern California has pretty nice weather for non-car transport. I am confident this will work because San Luis Obispo is so damn small, about 3.5 miles from the farthest reach of town to the other end. Kudos to the poster in Wisconsin who is considering ditching the second car, that is brave. Now if Amtrak can get their act together and make the trains run within an hour of the schedule.

washwords 5 pts

okay, granted, I'm single, no kids, live in the city (walking distance of work)  so it may be lots easier for me than most ... but I loVE not having a car . It's one of the real things I will miss, if and when the BF and I take the "next step", something I'm SO excited about but... I will miss this life, walking /busing / 'troing everywhere and never needing or missing the car, really ever!

When I was dating, I ran across so many people to whom this was a completely foreign concept and they baffled me. And I grew up where there was essentially ONE bus (no public transport mecca). One fellow asked me "what do you do when it rains?" he was serious. 

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Emilyanne 5 pts

When my husband and I first got married, we had two cars.  Both of us had communtes of more than an hour, and they were in opposite directions.  Hey, when you're fresh out of college you take what you can get! :)

 We downsized to one car when I had my first son and decided to stay home.  My husband drove it to work four days a week and telecommuted the fifth day, which allowed me to do errands.  We also live close enough to the post office and a park to walk there, so we did get out of the house!  This worked well for us for three years.

Now, with a third baby on the way (three car seats won't fit in the Corolla!) and my husband changing jobs (no telecommuting option) we did buy a second car - a minivan.  It is strange to suddenly have the option of driving on any day, and yet not want to drive EVER because it costs me $75 to fill the gas tank!

 Ideally I'd love to just do all the errands on one day (along with the trip to the park/library/Mom's group!) but with two toddlers who need morning and afternoon naps, that just isn't possible.  I think the best I can do at this point is make sure that I group my errands by location and try to keep driving as much to a minimum as possible.  

 Oh, and about public transportation?  My husband is a HUGE fan of it and if possible would take it to work every day.  Sadly, we live in an area with very poor coverage, and taking a bus would mean over two hours of commute time EACH WAY.  Which just isn't feasible since he wants to actually see us occasionally. :)   We hope that our city planners will add better public transit in the near future.

nikkik 5 pts

We used to own 2 SUVs until our lease was up on the Trailblazer and were given my Mom's 20 year old Volvo Station Wagon.  We drive it back and forth to the dump and church (3.5 mls. each way) where my husband is a Pastor.  Sometimes it goes a little further, but it really likes to drive around town.  It's a great car and I feel SO safe in it.  But it does make things more convenient.

This February we had a 100 year RAIN storm up here in New England and our driveway was washed away.  Our friends called it the "Grand Canyon," and wanted to bring their kids over to see the power of water.  During that time, "Black Beauty"  (that's what my Mom called the car) was stuck at the top of the driveway until the Grand Canyon was filled in.  During winter we are stuck inside more and so having one car only seemed to present a problem a few times. 

But, now that it's summer, I don't think we could go back (nor do I want to give up Black Beauty)!  We are 35 minutes from any major town so if one of us needs to make a trip, the other is stuck.

So that's my answer - we're sticking with 2.  The gas-guzzling SUV and the tank. 

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Ewokgirl 5 pts

Last night as we were driving into Dallas, we were talking about this very subject.  We agreed that it just wouldn't make sense for us right now to go down to one car.  Our cars are both paid for, and they're both fuel efficient.  The money saved on insurance would be made up for with extra gas costs.  As a SAHW, I would want the car 1-2 days a week so I can run errands and such.  That would mean driving my husband to work in Dallas, then driving home, then repeating it all when it's time for him to come home.  That's just as wasteful as using 2 cars.

While our town is pedestrian and biker friendly, it would still be difficult to do.  For one, the heat here is unbearable during the day.  Walking or bike riding in it would be an instant migraine.  The second reason is that no place has bike racks.  You can ride to the library or the grocery store, but then you risk having your bike stolen without a rack to lock it to. 

My husband has looked into public transportation, but he learned that it would take him 2 hours to get to work, then another 2 to come home.  That's 4 extra hours out of his day just to travel by bus and/or light rail.  Our public transport system isn't big enough to deal with all the suburbs.  What's more, most suburbs vote against having it in the first place when the opportunity for expansion is presented.  People are still too in love with their SUVs and wealthy-image lifestyles to convert to using public transportation. 

In theory, one car sounds great.  Very socially conscious.  But the reality is that most American cities aren't set up for people to be without cars.

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worldsgreatestmommy 5 pts

We've got only 1 car that I, as personal chauffeur, use to haul everyone around.  My husband hitches a ride or uses public transit to get to the school where he teaches about 15 miles away.

It takes coordinating things on the weekend, and I'll admit there are times it's annoying, but when we looked at buying another car we were way turned off by the thought of a car payment, extra insurance, and most of all...gas.  As it is now, my husband just chips in on gas money.  We save a ton.

Sarah

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Susan Doherty 5 pts

I just got off my bike after running errands so really enjoyed reading this sequence. I'm trying to pull my bike out more often as a means of getting exercise and reducing my carbon footprint. I agree that access to biking trails and lanes is the key to encouraging more cycling. My town has done a fairly good job of including bike lanes on many of the roadways, but they don't always keep them clear of rocks, dirt and other debris. Not so bad when I'm on my mountain bike, but a bit sketchy when I'm on my road bike with super skinny tires. 

 We do have two vehicles, but one is quite old (a '92) and long-ago paid off. We just purchased a new car (to replace my husband's which was totaled this winter) and it was definitely the first time we bought one with both of us in mind, as opposed to this is my car - that is your car. My husband is a carpenter so we needed something big enough for his tools and powerful enough to pull his work trailer. We are also waiting on an adoption, so wanted something that would be kid and family-friendly. The '92 has no airbags so this was critical. We settled on the Toyota Hylander Hybrid and absolutely love it. 

 I work out of the house, so don't have a great need for a car. For a while, i was hung up on needing the car to drive to client meetings, simply so I could dress professionally. I got over that pretty quickly and decided that the clients who didn't support cycling might not be clients I wanted to count among my own. My wardrobe may be a bit more casual as a result, but I'm willing to suck up a few wayward glances at my helmet head and rolled up pant leg. After reading the comments here, i realized that we are (consciously or not) slowly moving toward becoming a one car family. It will be interesting to see how this plays out when our child arrives. Sounds like many of you with kids are making it work. 

Susan Doherty

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petta1 5 pts

Thanks a lot for interesting article.

jennydecki 5 pts

We are a two toddler one car family as well, but with a twist.

We live in the suburbs, and my husband works in a suburb about 40 miles away, so he gets the car.

I work from home, and all errands and shopping and everything else are either done by my husband to/from work or on his lunch hour, by me after hours, or by one or all of us on the weekend. 

It takes careful planning, and I feel some serious cabin fever now and then (going around the block doesn't count LOL) but I know that having a second car would mean more gas money down the drain, more unnecessary travel, more car payments, more car repairs...all that adds up to too much drama!

Since we don't know where hubby will be working in three years (is any job forever anymore?) We aren't going to buy another car now based on future after-school activities they will need to get to. 

We're using this time to pay down debt as fast and furiously as possible. That will help our girls far more in the long run than being able to take them with me to the store tomorrow.  

We also use cloths instead of paper towels and real instead of paper napkins. Lots of things that are good for the environment are surprisingly good for the pocketbook! 

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Veronica Mitchell 5 pts

I wish we could go back to just one car, or that our city had a better bus system.  I had so much to say on this subject that I wrote my own post about it.

http://toddleddredge.com/the-usual-blather/cars-vs...

Kimberly0918 5 pts

We've been a one car family for three years, ever since my first son was born and we decded to figure out how I could afford to stay home with him.  I am fortunate to live in a city with lightrail, so my husband takes MAX (our lightrail system) to work and I get to keep the car at home.  This means that errands, Dr appts, playdates and Bible study are no problem.  This saves us SO much money.  Not only is our only car paid off, meaning no car payment, but our insurance is pennies since neither one of us use the car for commuting.  We fill up our gas tank once a month and get to take a long time between oil changes and maintenance (we only put about 3,000 miles a year on our car). 

Our big blessing is that my husband's work subsidizes his MAX pass and it costs us only $100 A YEAR!!!  We would pay more than that in one MONTH for gas.  I know the fact that we have light rail is what makes this such a do-able thing for us, but we would have done it somehow anyway.  Having only one car saves us more than $400 a month on car payments and insurance alone.  The gas savings is at least another $100.  I don't know about you, but it just appeals to my greed.  Could you live without a car for $500 a month?  All the environmental benefits are just a wonderful bonus!!

livingingrace 5 pts

Three months ago, I would have laughed at the idea of a one car family.

Than, February 10th (our anniversary no less) my car died. Dead. Head blown. DInner plans blown. But, we did have a romantic dirve back with the snarky tow truck driver. 

But, I digress.

It's taken us this lon to locate the parts needed for my lovely British baby. But we have survived.

I stay home, and the jids homeschool while John works in town. Since we live out oftown adn there is nothing within 13 miles of us, trips have become cooridnated.

If I absolutely need to do errands in town, I take one day to get it all done. Starting off, I take John to work and then hit the proverbial orad. Once home, I make sure all the homework got done and then pop back into to town to pick him up.

Otherwise, I call him to pick up a couple of things at the store if needed (note: I have no guilt on this one. For years I had to run errands after work, so fair is fair, right? LOL).

Our town has no public transport, althoug this far out would do us no good anyway.

The only thing that worries me now? I have one kid old enough to get a job abd the itch to di it. Hours will have to be coordinated this summer if that goes through- and although John has volunteered to ride his bike to work, if needed, the strong Arizona heat worries me. 

So, we'll see. 

Terina 5 pts

and we're doing it now.  we did it when we moved to germany with the military (because they only will ship one car).  when we came back 18 months ago, we bought a van. now we've moved yet again, and we are a one car family. i've lived in france and germany, and you really don't need a car there.  i walk my son to school almost every day, even in the rain because i have a jogger with a rain cover.  and people look at me like i'm crazy.  which i don't get as most of these people live a block or so from the school.  my husband will still ride his bike to work unless it's pouring as he has to be in uniform at work.  it's working for us, but we'll see what the future holds for us.  if we do get another car, it will be a small, gas efficient car.  i would drive to the store and other places if i could, but they are way too far away.  have you heard of zip cars?  they rent them by the hour, and they are located all over big cities or college towns.  my friend lives in DC and takes the metro, but will get a zip car if she needs to go out to ikea or so some major grocery shopping.  and you just return it to the parking spot.  i think that is a fabulous idea!! 

larinad 5 pts

My husband and I have only one car between us and our 8 month old.

He does take it to work every day and I stay at home with our son.  I'm lucky that my Mom lives only about a 15 minute walk away (up a steep hill that is eating away at my thighs!) and we're close enough to a few small shops that if I wanted to I could walk to.   My parents are unfortunately moving much farther away in July so I won't be able to walk there anymore but I'm enjoying it while they are still close.

If I need the car (which is only about once a week), I bring my husband to work and try to do a few errands while I'm in that end of town even though it gets difficult being that early in the morning.

It's unnecessary for our little family to have 2 vehicles.  Waste of money and gas! 

rocksinmydryer 5 pts

I have four children, so a typical five-seater sedan isn't even an option for our family (unless one of the kids wants to ride on the luggage rack, LOL).  We drive a Honda Odyssey too, and we picked it because we felt like it had the best gas mileage of any eight-seater we could find at the time.  But it still isn't cheap!

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Headless Mom 5 pts

In some ways ditching the second car (or third!) would be great- gas, insurance, upkeep, etc. But we really can't-we live in a suburban neighborhood with no sidewalks, 2 miles downhill one way to the grocery store, 3 kids with activities. My husband is frequently away working and sometimes spends his whole day in his (company owned) vehicle.

All of that being said, when my minivan dies I will be getting a much smaller car that gets better mileage. The $67 for gas yesterday (in my car) and $75 (in my daughter's car) is killing me!

I should also say that we are very consious of taking one car to events if possible, I combine errands whenever I can, my daughter carpools with other students to the highs chool, etc. 

Triciarelocates 5 pts

Your post, rocksinmydryer ( http://www.blogher.com/haystackprofile/viewprofile... ),
touched a nerve with this second car thing.  Actually you had me with
"A dear friend of mine is from England, now living in the U.S". 
I too am from England, now living in the US, Silicon
Valley ( http://www.werelocate.com/ ) actually, and we started off with one car and 3 kids over here,
primarily as my husband is a keen cyclist so did not need a second car to commute
to work

Fast forward 12 years, and he still does a 40 minutes cycle each way but we
now have 3 cars!

One is for our teenage daughters who both drive (a huge convenience factor
I'm shameful to admit), but we are talking about a 25 year old stick shift Honda
Civic worth a couple of hundred bucks and great on the gas. 

The second is our 7 seater 2000 Honda Odyssey which has been our great family plus dog car.  However, as the
kids got older, I found myself driving it with just me going around town - a
total waste of gas and car parts so last year I splurged and bought the third car, a Toyota Prius,
my pride and joy, which I LOVE driving.  

So today, the lonely Odyssey sits in the garage waiting for a drive with the 5 of us and our big dog - doesn't happen often, but not worth selling it at this point.

Having moved here from London where public transport was THE only way to
travel around London, it saddens me that in our high-tech, technologically
advanced, fast-paced part of the world, the public transport system is
terrible!  Unless I want to travel up to San Francisco, or wait forever
for a bus and then change again, there is no real alternative to driving
myself.  And the commuters stack up on the freeway in their cars, each one
with one driver behind the wheel, polluting our atmosphere, because there is no
other viable way of getting to work - apart from cycling/carpooling etc.

 And it really gets me mad when I see other Mums in huge monstrocities
of vans, Expeditions, Broncos - massive gaz guzzlers, 7 seaters, all by
themselves or at the most 2 kids in the back.  What price will gas have to
be and how much pollution will they have to contribute to before they downsize?

Thanks for letting me vent!

mrscrumley 5 pts

We have two cars, but one is my husband's truck that only gets used once a month (if that) hauling stuff for our home renovation. When it dies sometime this year, we will not be replacing it.

We have a four door sedan that we have been driving less and less in favor of saving money on gas. I try to do all my errands in one or two days, and the rest of our activities (church, swim lessons, playground) are in our neighborhood within walking distance. If I have to get a "last minute" grocery item, I can walk to the store a mile away.

My husband rides the bus to work, taking his bicycle with him to bike home. It doesn't work as well for the winter months, but it does help reduce our spending on gas.

Excellent post!

Crunchy Carpets 5 pts

work centres need to be spread out away from city centres more.

transit made easier for all..

you can't expect 1950's built infrastructures to change over night or force people to change without EVERYTHING changing with it.

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imabima 5 pts

we are definitely a 2-car family - living in suburbia with 3 kids - but we just downsized from two big cars that could fit everyone to one big (minivan) and one small (corolla)...saving footprint, gas, and hopefully just feeling like we are taking up a little less space in the world. we have to juggle a bit, since the whole fam doesn't fit in the little car (carseats just take up too much room) but the switching around reminds us on a regular basis of our intentions.

Mamalogues 5 pts

One of the reasons we moved to the city was to live more ecologically and simply in a pedestrian area. We live within a mile to the farmer's market, dentist, small city grocery store, dry cleaners, library, schools, and good restaurants. Our city is planning to build a supermarket downtown and is currently expanding its public transportation. We're excited about this because we would like to get rid of our second car.

Our area has leaps and bounds to go, but local government has finally realized the importance of this need and are working to create it; now that so many areas of urban St. Louis are coming alive again, there is greater demand for these services.

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Amanda_Magee 5 pts

I am lucky to live in a city that is just three square miles, the farmer's market is 12 blocks away, as is the building in which my husband and I both work.We just had our 3rd daughter a week ago, in anticipation of having three kids in car seats, we made the long-dreaded move to a mini-van in January. What we hadn't planned to do, but decided would work, was go down to one car. Since January we have easily made do with one car, walking to work when weather permits and riding together when it doesn't. There are certainly times when the logistics can be tedious, but ultimately we are happier for making the effort.

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DanaFiles 5 pts

Now that I'm working at home, I told my husband we should trade both of our vehicles in for one good, gas efficient one.  He laughed at me.  Not because he didn't think it was a good idea, but because he couldn't see me riding my bike to the bank and the grocery store.  I do it all the time in the summer, but winters in Wisconsin are frigid and that might becoming challenging.

I've been reducing the driving I do, and try to make as few trips into town as possible.  I'm trying to build up the strength and stamina to bike to the gym, but it's 5 miles each way.  My goal is to do it every day by July.  That should save gas and elimiate some pollution, too. 

TW 6 pts

 We are a one car family here. We have a housefull of kids. Sometimes it has taken some creativity to get everyone where they need to be but on the other hand, it has been good for all of us. 

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sassymonkey 6 pts

I've lived in major cities for the last 11 years and actually knowing people *with* cars has been a rarity. I'm moving to a smaller city with a car owner and well...it's been interesting. Apartment hunting was occasionally amusing such as the time we drove into a neighbourhood that was supposed to be pretty nice (the houses were ok to be honest) but the second we turned onto the street I said I couldn't live there because there were no sidewalks.

I don't need to live right downtown in any city (although I do at the moment for a variety of reasons) but within walking distance I need to have a grocery store (even if it's not a great one), access to public transit and some type of community area be it a park, library, etc. I need something I can walk to.

It's going to be weird having a car at my disposal again but we will certainly NOT be getting a second one.

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Debra Roby 5 pts

I'm living in a suburb (I HATE suburbs), on top of a hill with a great view. It's a 1.3 mile walk to the grocery story and further to library, vets, or hardware store. And, ofcourse, it's walking stuff back UP that hill afterward. Buying anything else requires a drive of 5-25 miles.

The BART train system is a 12 minutes drive away, and then I have to hope I'm lucky enough to find parking.

I already know that the next place I live must be within walking distance of everyday shopping, a library and a BART station. After those requirements are filled, I'll start thinking about the the amenities in the place.

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no_I_am_zoe 5 pts

Fist I want to say pearlograce2000 is rigth on.  That is exactly what I've been saying for years and years.

We went to a one car family about a year ago when we bought a new car.  We had gotten to the point that both of cars we in a constant state of needing repair and we were essentially a one car household anyway.  It works out great for us, but we don't have kids yet.  Our places of employment are in the same general direction of town so it hasn't been too difficult a transition for us.

What's nice about going to and from work together is that we have each others udivided attention.  I love getting that little extra time together in the car in the morning on the way to work. 

Unless it becomes a necessity to have two cars again, we'll probaly stay a one car household.

pearlofgrace2000 5 pts

More people would walk and bike if the cities would build with that in mind.  There is a suburb of Houston called The Woodlands.  This community has been built with miles and miles of trails for biking and walking. 

Within the community are "villages" that offer shopping, gas stations, restaurants, banks, doctors, etc.  While biking and walking to work aren't necessarily convenient for the professional, it is convenient for the things necessary to take care of outside of work. 

We moved away to lease a house rather than an apartment, but we miss it dearly and are planning on moving back when we purchase a home.  I want very much to be able to walk to the library, grocery, post office, etc.  It certainly helps the budget, the waistline, the heart and the environment.  More citiy officials should be looking at this one for inspiration and motivation.

invisibleinc 5 pts

I have shared a single car with my husband for our entire marriage.

It is an absolute frickcin nightmare, and I cannot say that strongly enough.

I NEVER get out of the house. EVER. He works very long hours, 7 days a week, and his office is too far to justify driving back and forth to drop him off. If I need to go grocery shopping, I have to do so before dawn. Sometimes I can get my mom to make the drive down to me to drive me somewhere, but not often. I live in a very poor, crime ridden neighborhood where it is not safe to let the kids play in the yard, much less walk to a bus stop, much less ride a bus.

Don't do it unless you're prepared to have no kind of life whatsoever.

Madridmom 5 pts

I have a family of 6 living in Spain.  We had to leave the car in the body shop on April 30 and I don't foresee getting it back for another week or two.  In the States we would never be able to be without wheels for such a long time but my husband takes the bus, train and metro to work daily as it is and we just had to stock up on bus passes to get the kids to school each day.  All of our NEEDS can be taken care of within walking distance.  I wouldn't like to be permanently without a car, because there are some things we cannot get to by public transportation (ie: the boys' baseball practice today) but fortunately we have good friends that are stepping up to the plate to help us out temporarily with rides.

Once we get the car back we will continue being selective about our use.  With gas at $7.80 a gallon here, we try and make a tank last as long as possible, however bus/train/subway rides times 6 adds up too.

 Great post, Shannon! 

 Madridmom

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photochick 5 pts

I love the concept of only having one car... We only own one car, but my husband's company provides him with one for his job with gas paid for and unlimited personal miiles. It's amazing. I can't even remember we used 'our' car; we use the company one as much as possible. To be perfectly honest, it's about the only way we're able to make it on one income - notice I didn't say 'one job!' I'm a full time Mommy, and it's the best job I've ever had in my life  :o)

 Although come to think of it, I wouldn't mind doing photography or photo editing as a carreer! Hey, someday I just may!

Writer-Mommy 5 pts

Both of my two oldest are in two different private schools (first grade and preschool).  I am the school bus.

Luckily, we live in a relatively small town/city so the distance isn't too bad. 

But still - I'd like to drive less and walk more. 

Your post is timely; I've been thinking a lot about ways I could get all three of my kids(youngest is two) hither and yon this summer on foot.  It's just near impossible during the school year.

Glad the tornadoes skipped over you, Shannon!