The Divorce Is Over. Are You Overcompensating With Your Kids?
[Editor's Note: Suzanne's post about buying your kids stuff out of guilt following a divorce stands up for those of us who are still in a relationship, too -- we overcompensate with gifts and dinners out for all sorts of reasons. And we really should stop. Here's why. -Rita]
The Post-Divorce Chronicles
I once thought this way and indulged my son in all the things his dad promised and didn’t deliver. Until I realized two things:
- I could no longer afford to do this.
- My son was not benefiting from my actions, but rather suffering from a misrepresentation of money management.