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Do Good Moms Have Teens That Use Drugs? We try so hard to be the best moms we can be. But does that guarantee us drug free kids? Unfortunately, not.
I know moms who seemed to do everything right, and their teen still started drinking or doing drugs. Most parents think it could never happen to their child, but it does. So, would you know if your teen was doing drugs? What should you do?
Is Your Teenager Using Drugs or Alcohol...
If your child is using alcohol and drugs, it's a good bet he (or she) is doing everything possible to keep that activity hidden. The last thing he wants is for his parents to give him a "hassle" about his newly-found "entertainment." But continued alcohol and drug use will affect your child's behavior, attitudes and even choice of friends. Here are some signs to look for, if you think that your child may be using:
From WebMD...
Typically, experts recommend that when alcohol or drug use is suspected, parents look for a pattern or a number of changes in appearance, behavior, and attitude, not only one or two changes. Substance abuse may be a possibility if several of the following signs are present:
- Less attention paid to dressing and grooming
- Loss of appetite or unexplained weight loss
- Red and glassy eyes and frequent use of eyedrops and breath mints
- Decreased attendance and performance at school
- Loss of interest in school, sports, or other activities
- Newly developed secrecy; deceptive or sneaky behavior
- Withdrawal from family and friends
- New friends and reluctance to introduce them
- Lying or stealing
- Disrespectful behavior
- A mood or attitude that is getting worse
- Lack of concern about the future
What to do if you suspect your teen is on drugs...
All parents want to keep their kids safe, but with all the dangers in today’s world that’s getting harder to do. A big concern for many parents is drugs. While it’s best to stop your child from doing drugs before they start, there are things you can do if you suspect a problem.
If you suspect your teen is doing drugs, talk to them. And I mean, just talk; no yelling, screaming, or accusations. Prepare what you’re going to say ahead of time so you don’t say something you didn’t intend to. Tell them you suspect they’re taking drugs and cite your reasoning. Give specific, documented examples of behavioral changes. Explain that you’re just trying to help them, but if they don’t tell you what’s going on with them, you’re going to have to take further steps. But be careful, what you perceive as drug use could just be caused by problems at school, problems with friends, or even depression.
If your teen doesn’t want to tell you what’s going on, you need to stick to your word and take further steps to find out if they’re using drugs. Check your teen’s room and car. If you have a good relationship with their friends, ask them what’s going on. Make your child justify where their money is going. Also, make sure you know where your child is at all times (including checking school attendance records).
Once you have confirmation of your teens drug use, seek outside help. There are literally hundreds of people and organizations ready and willing to help you and your teen. If you don’t know where to start, talk to your child’s doctor, counselor, or minister. They may be willing to speak to your teen directly and recommend organizations and treatment programs to you. You must remember that you are not alone!
Teen Drug Abuse and Drinking...
With today's society, kids have access to many different substances that can be addictive and damaging. If you suspect your child is using drugs or drinking alcohol, please seek help for them as soon as possible. Drug testing is helpful, but not always accurate. Teen Drug use and Teen Drinking may escalate to addiction. We get calls constantly, that a child is only smoking pot. Unfortunately in most cases, marijuana can lead to more severe drugs, and marijuana is considered an illegal drug. Smoking marijuana is damaging to the child's body, brain and behavior. Even though marijuana is not considered a
