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Do Tell: Share What You Stole From Your Mom and Win Her (and You!) a $100 Bloomie's Gift Certificate

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Do you steal stuff from your mom or another female relative? No? Nothing? We don't believe you.

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BlogHer's own Denise steals her mother's socks.

"After years of doing this, one of the first things I do when I enter the rose room is to check and see what sort of new cool socks my mother has purchased to replace all of the other pairs I took home last time I was there. (It’s been a long time since I visited her; I bet her sock drawer is seriously overflowing!) TW has taken to buying me cool socks but it is just not the same as taking my mom’s."

I thought I didn't steal anything from my mom, but then I remembered that I, too, am a total sock thief. What is it with our mother's socks?

It may be that you actually don't like your mother's taste. In which case it is possible she foists things on you that you don't like. Or maybe your children do. Either way, we want to know about your mom's stuff. Leave a comment on this post telling us about what you thieve from your mother, aunt, grandma, sister, etc. or what she keeps giving you that you immediately hide and make fake puking noises as soon as she leaves the room. Each comment will register you to win two $100 gift certificates to Bloomingdale's. So you can both restock your stuff.

The drawing will take place at noon Pacific on Friday, May 7! Make sure you have your e-mail address in your BlogHer profile so we can contact you if you win.

We will put all the comments into a randomizer to choose the winner. Comment as many times as you want! Good luck!

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lilkidthings 5 pts

More like borrowing and forgetting to give it back...forever. In my case it tends to be socks too!

http://www.lilkidthings.com

slmagill 5 pts

Every year my mom gives me PJs for Christmas and they are always stuff she would wear but necessarily not me. I'd never tell her though. :)

suzi

Amanda_Magee 5 pts

I get gifted the shirts she buys that don't fit. They are, without even having to look, guaranteed keilbasa makers. They are always unflattering and I have learned to take them straight to the donation bin...

Amanda
http://amandamagee.com

m_mduncan 5 pts

I have to include my 15 yr old sister in this...I steal her itunes, her books, her makeup, gift cards if she leaves them lying around...after i ask her of course!

m_mduncan 5 pts

from my stepmom i steal her canned goods all the time! Its so much better than the crap you find in the stores!

Amanda_Magee 5 pts

My mom deliberately leaves toiletries for me after she visits. She pretends to forget, I pretend not to notice. It's our sickness, she treats, I revel.

If I could I would swipe every last thing from her alpha hydroxyorgasmic medicine cabinet.

Amanda
http://amandamagee.com

m_mduncan 5 pts

I steal my moms books and makeup all the time! And jewlery, just the cheap stuff, but then she gave me her diamond ring! She steals stuff from me too though, so I think we're even!

lvlysenbei 5 pts

My grandmother recently downsized from her house into a small apartment. As a result, she has boxes and boxes of stuff that gets sent to me as gifts. I'd say it's about 50/50 neat stuff that I like (Christmas decorations I remember from when I was little, soft old scarves that have been much loved) and stuff that I wonder, "....why? Do you not like me?" I'm talking about a sweater that is supposedly made out of wool but feels more like a Brillo pad, half of a Christmas ornament (Why?!), and a Bible-carrier (I don't own a Bible!).

lvlysenbei 5 pts

I didn't realize how much stuff gets exchanged between my family members until just now... but with my stepmom, it's the opposite problem I have with my mom. She's the same size as me clothes-wise, but we have wildly different styles. The first time we went shopping together she tried to convince me to buy a dress patterned with red chili peppers in sun glasses. I wish I was kidding!
She found out through my (well-meaning) father that I've started collecting "vintage" clothing to repurpose into modern styles, and now I'm being inundated with weird old tube tops with giant bows, sleeveless shirts with kittens patterned on them, and pants that I could swear are made out of the tarps you use when you go camping. I keep accepting them and then sending them off to good will...

lvlysenbei 5 pts

My mom has a tendency to get a lot of jewelry as gifts that she doesn't like. I swear every time she buys a new pair of earrings it's exactly the same as the twelve other pairs she has in her jewelry box at home. Before heading off to college, I raided an old jewelry box she kept in the basement and hadn't opened in years - GOLDMINE! (Literally!) I got tons of amazing necklaces and earrings and bracelets that I have been wearing ever since. Now and then she'll see me and point and say, "Hey, that's mine!" And she'll say it indignantly until I say, "You know, I've had this for six years now..."

bitsy 5 pts

My sister buys the best eye shadow colors. She spends a lot more than I would and therefore owns colors and textures that I don't have. I "borrow" different shades from her makeup table as I need them. I always end up putting them back a few days later, almost always without being caught.

Dallasdesigningdiva 5 pts

When I lived with my mom, I used to thieve her dresses all the time....

Randi-Sue Deckard

CEO & Designer @ Designing-Diva.com ( http://Designing-Diva.com )

Share, Inspire & Create Handmade Goods @ Diva Buzz ( http://DivaBuzz.Designing-Diva.com )

norarachel 5 pts

My mom has a huge closet, but every so often decides to get rid of stuff she no longer fits. She brings those things to me. Once in a while I can use them, but mostly they are not my style and meant for a much more conservative dresser.

What I WANT to steal is her jewelry. So far I have contained myself.

http://www.nonlineargirl.com

hoolaboola 5 pts

My mom was always for me a style icon!
Even now, I so much admire her taste, her figure!
Therefore, one of the most common sneak moves was walking in her shoes!

http://hoolaboola.wordpress.com

http://www.hoolaboola.com

LeahK 5 pts

When I lived at home, I used to steal my mom's necklaces all the time. Such pretty, fun stuff!

Now when I visit I like to sample her beauty products because she always has some new moisturizer or yummy lotion I haven't heard of.

sliceofpink 5 pts

My mom always has tons of lipsticks in various colors, so when I am looking for a new color, I take a peek in her makeup bag. Since I've moved farther away, she sometimes sends me new glosses and lip balms in the post.

http://sliceofpink.typepad.com

Calliope 5 pts

I used to always borrow my Mother's sunglasses. She used to have these totally 70's era GIANT ones that I made fun of for years. And then suddenly giant sunglasses were in fashion. Of course I could never tell her that the glasses that I teased her about for so long were getting tons of compliments every time I borrowed them. hee hee!

Calliope
blogging about Alzheimer's, Infertility, and Single Motherhood

http://creatingmotherhood.com

Mommy Said Sew 5 pts

Mommy Said Sew

My mom's house is full of antiques, I haven't stolen any outright yet, but I would love to inherit some of them early!

BusyLife 5 pts

I have not stolen anything from any of my female relatives! And neither would I!

cduford33 5 pts

I'm searching through my memory banks and I can't believe I've never stolen something from my mom. Actually, I've never stolen anything from a family member. Hands off was the rule in our house. Maybe I'll remember something as the week goes on...

I do get the family heirlooms. The only things I haven't fully appreciated are the hooked rugs and granny square afgans my grandmother made. The colors are just so gawd-awful bright, it hurts my eyes.

I tell it like it is over at Deckside Thoughts ( http://decksidethoughts.blogspot.com )

Just_Margaret 5 pts

well...years ago, I would take Mom's cool Frye Boots. It was the era of Prairie Skirts/petticoats and Leg-o-Mutton frilly blouses--the boots *made* the outfit. Smuggling them out of the house was another story. Of course, then my feet exploded into double digit sizing and mom's size 8 and a halfs no longer fit.

In retrospect, it was fitting that I outgrew them...I pinched them from Mom, and in turn, the boots wound up pinching me!

~Margaret

Just Margaret ( http://maurhoffbarney.blogspot.com )

RosieDreams 5 pts

Quite honestly I 'took' some fabric to sew some projects...and then never got around to making them...yet. But I love that fabric so much. It honestly joys me to just see it sitting there folded on the shelf still. And I think of her, and my grandma, who I believe she got it from originally, every time I see it. Hmmm...perhaps I won't ever make anything out of it but just keep it as is.
Thanks!
Jeanine Ertl
jjertl_at_gmail.com

Join me at www.rosiegirldreams.com ( http://www.rosiegirldreams.com ), where I share my approach to frugal, simple and green family living.

Lost_in_a_C_ 5 pts

I have several of my mother's books. When I was a teenager I always stole her newest razors to shave my legs. And when she bought new emery boards they ended up in my room, too. ;)

Find me at Lost in a Sea of Blogs ( http://lostinaseaofblogs.wordpress.com/feed/ ).

IsleDance 5 pts

Oh, this cracks me up! I'd say (demand) the exact same thing to my little sis!

One Friday night, I loaded up my life and headed out... ( http://isledance.blogspot.com )

IsleDance 5 pts

I'd treasure and wear her childhood cashmere sweaters. And I'd go into my dad's closet and thieve his warm, fuzzy socks and flannel shirts. It was the going trend.

One Friday night, I loaded up my life and headed out... ( http://isledance.blogspot.com )

AFEcoMom 5 pts

how many people steal their mothers socks. I saw this article on Facebook first and was like "oh Ill tell them how I steal my moms socks" and then I read it and apparently you all do! haha thats awesome. My mom always find the softest and thickest tall socks. We ride horses and I can never find decent socks but somehow she always magically has the perfect pair for wearing under my boots. And no, I dont usually give them back hehe

LuckyMari 5 pts

Ha! I wanted to know how it felt to wear one, so for a day, I took one from her drawer and wore it to school! I felt so grown up!

grandma2selena 5 pts

When I first read the title to this post, my first thought was all the times I open my mouth and my Mom's words come out such as phrases like, "Lady Jane", "Stop wishing your life away"

I remember thinking I would never be like my mom but the older I get the more of her I see in my own actions and words. I don't think I could have asked her for more in life, then her great personality and outlook on life that was passed down onto me.

jannajoy25@hotmail.com 5 pts

My mom works at Sears and is constantly picking up fun and funky costume jewelry. Somehow it migrates to my wardrobe and sometimes my daughter's toy box.

I don't think she minds b/c it gives her an excuse to buy more:)

Janna - Can also be found at The Adventure of Motherhood ( http://theadventureofmotherhood.blogspot.com ).

sonjathegreat 5 pts

I steal books from my mom, but then she steals books from me too so it all works out, lol. We do the same thing with music.

Sonja

The Mud and the Lotus ( http://www.mudandlotus.com )

SweeterLemon 5 pts

My mom had a black velvet choker with an onyx and gold medallion that I absolutely loved in high school. Let's just say it's sitting in my jewelry box years and years later...

samanthajocampen 5 pts

I pack enough clothes for my son that would cover him in rain, wind, sleet, hail, snow or a heat wave. But I am incapable of being prepared myself. So whenever we're out with my mom I always need some sort of sweatshirt or jacket, of which she has many. She has them in the car just in case! So I always end up going back home wearing something of hers. And yeah, it might take a while to give it back :-)

samanthajocampen at gmail

400CaloriesOrLess 5 pts

My Mom gets the best magazines - she is a magazine junky - health, cooking, family, you name it, she gets it. And I love to read them when I go over and maybe even borrow a few to bring home :)

I never understood why she was upset when I would read them first and then return them (heck - she has a million and would not get through them before I returned the ones I 'borrowed') - but now I get the same way with my magazines - LOL My daughter goes grabbing for Entertainment Weekly or TV Guide and I get all mad because I want to read them first.

I guess there is just something about totally pristine pages :) I get it, Ma - I get it :)

http://400caloriesorless.com

crousehaus 5 pts

I was forever raiding her closet. She's a bit older than me, so I didn't do this until I moved in with her when I went to college. And I would totally lie about it... "Did you take my new skirt?" "What, no, I haven't seen it." We joke about it now, but I think I'm lucky to have the nicest big sister in the world and she doesn't hold my past thievery against me.
I never really borrowed from my mom as she is much smaller than me and I could never fit in her clothes or shoes.

bakingbarrister 5 pts

Oh I forgot that I also steal shoes. If they're open back/toe, my mom and I can share shoes. I have been known to steal a pair now and again. She usually demands them back, though. And to be honest, my mom borrows my clothes and shoes as well. She usually asks me if she can keep them, but I say no and hide away.

S.

Sarcasm, law, and a whole lot of food: The Baking Barrister ( http://bakingbarrister.com )

bakingbarrister 5 pts

Kitchen supplies!

When I first moved out, I raided the cabinets for pots, pans, dishes and other goodies. Now that I am temporarily at home, I make it known that I have a running list of things I am stealing when I move back out. Microplane, a certain spatula, a cookie scoop...all mine!

S.

Sarcasm, law, and a whole lot of food: The Baking Barrister ( http://bakingbarrister.com )

fulaanah bint Fulaan 5 pts

well, lol. this sounds all to familiar. I've went after new sweaters- (i vividly remember chasing a pink sweater from my aunt) jewelry, nail polish, socks of course ( can't never have enough of those)

i do see now though that my sister is in college (we're 6 years apart) she likes to come over and snoop a bit. definitely see her with my shoes! put those bacckkk!

Annette D 5 pts

I live too far away from my family to "steal" anything but when I was growing up, my sisters and I used to swap clothing all the time. I grew up in a family of 3 girls and we were all very close in age and size, so it worked out great!

njgeiger 5 pts

I have 2 sisters who are twins and 11 months older then me. We would try to be the last one to leave the house for school so we could get something from each others' closets. Often I would be walking down the hall at school and run into one of my sisters who would say, "Take it off!"

Nancy

http://teachingsundayschool.blogspot.com
http://www.abridescookbook.com/blog
http://www.givitup.com
http://onlinestoregivitup.blogspot.com
http://thenestempties.blogspot.com

JRose 5 pts

My sister and I are about 362 days apart in age. We use to steal eachothers clothes all the time! We both were the same size and had great taste!

JRose 5 pts

I loved everything about my mom growing up, I still do.. Ever since I was little I would play in my mothers jewelry box and I loved her antique cameo necklace. I use to take it out, while she wasn't looking and wear it. I thought she didn't notice I had it on, I would tuck in behind my shirt so she wouldn't see me wearing it. Just the other day, for a going away present, my mother gave me a box and inside of it was the antique cameo necklace that I adored as a child.

crunchybetty 5 pts

Yikes. I feel like I'm confessing a mortal sin here. It's so tough to choose just one thing, but ... facial products and cosmetics.

My mom gets a lot of stuff that comes with free samples, and she has this awesomely stocked "free sample" drawer.

Never with permission, I raid that drawer every time I go to her house.

Lipsticks, scrubs, eye shadows, and creams ... you name it, I've pilfered it.

She's never said a word. So now, I like to think that she keeps her drawer stocked just for me.

Oh, I want to go there right now, just to see what's new!

---

See what's weird in Manitou Springs: www.crunchybetty.com ( http://www.crunchybetty.com )

magpie 5 pts

I'd bought her a couple of nice pairs of Smart Wool socks, and after she died, I reclaimed them...