Do u believe that when u meet a guy online, that guy will always be looking for other girls online still?

I met a guy on a dating site about 4 months ago. It was wonderful. He was all I was looking for in a guy. He was always there for me. calling me, texting me, inviting me to places. He showed me a lot of interest. We started a relationship only after 1 month of knowing each other. We have extremely amounts of things in common..ex: adoption of kids. I have 2, he has 2. I had heart surgery & he had another surgery at the same hospital and the same day & time as mine 10 yrs ago. (he donated 70% of 1 of his organs to a family member, what bad person would do that) We are both in the same work field. It was like our paths has always crossed each other.

Anyways, the relationship was great. I became pregnant by mistake (Condom Broke), Because of my heart issue, i was always told that i shouldn't try to get pregnant because of my heart and the medications im on. He was still there for me for support 24/7. always calling me to know how i felt & picking me up to take me out to distract myself. Things got complicated for me in the pregnancy & after 5 wks of pregnant, my doctors had to do a medical abortion on me. He was still there. Its only been 1 week after the abortion. I feel extremely sad, & my moods are horrible specially with him. I feel he is very distant now. I confronted him on the relationship & he stated that he was just giving me some space & that he is still committed to me & nothing has changed. He still calls me to let me know he got to work & still calls me throughout the day to talk to me and checkup on me, but seems to always be rushing me off the phone. I have not seen him though since the abortion was done.

I decided to make a fake profile on the dating site that we met. with a picture of a type of girl he might like, i even put her in the same county he lives, to make it easier for him in case he wanted to meet her. I saw he was online and I approached him on his page. 

I said hello & made a comment of his pic of his son. We chatted about his son. I seemed very dry in the conversation as the fake girl in the profile, but he was very chatty & trusting with a girl he just had met that night online, then he made a pass at me inviting me out on a sports event. That he normally goes with me or his son.

the fake girl had asked him that if he ever met anyone on that site before & he said no. That the site pretty much sucks, and that only older white woman reach out to him and he's into latinas. I am latina & so is the fake girl I created. He's Italian. He also stated that he has only been on the site for about 1 month. We met there 4 months ago.

It's been 2 days since I created the fake profile & he has contacted the fake girl in the morning to wish her a good morning. last night he called me to let me know he was home from the game, although he rushed me off the phone telling me he was tired and that he was going to bed. after we hung-up, he then logged on the site and wrote to the girl....asking her what was she doing and he gave her his number for her to call him. ofcourse I never called so he emailed and said, "now im waiting on a response" "anyways good night im off to bed". 

Now im wondering, how many girls is he talking to online, & what exactly does he wants with me, if he is still looking for something else out there. Why be with me, when I have too many health issues to deal with? why report himself to me? why doesn't he just brake it off with me? I have confronted him before and told him that if he doesnt want to be in this relationship any more, I totally understand & he stated that I don't have to make decisions for him. That everything is the same & he still wants to be with me.

I asked my sister about it and she thinks he probably knows its me and he's just going along with it. I don't know, Im very confused, why would he go back on a dating site if he has a relationship with me? 

Do people who meet online & date always endup going back to look for bigger and better things online?

I HAD TOLD THE WORLD THAT I MET THE PERFECT GUY & EVEN KICKED SOME OTHER GUYS WHO DID ME WRONG TO THE CURB, ALL BECAUSE I THOUGH MY GUY WAS JUST SO PERFECT FOR ME....IM SAD TO KNOW HE'S JUST LIKE ALL THE OTHER 1 I HAD BEFORE...ONLY THAT HE KNEW HOW TO PLAY THE CARDS BETTER.

AND I FEEL EVEN WORST BECAUSE WHAT I WENT THROUGH WITH MY WHOLE PREGNANCY SITUATION. IM 29 YRS OLD & HAD NEVER BEEN PREGNANT BEFORE. HE'S 37.

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