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Do Vaginal Orgasms Really Exist?

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When you think of a sonogram, you probably think of some grainy gray and white image of your baby’s hand waving at you labeled with the caption “Hi Mom!” You probably don’t think about the clitoris. But a couple of French doctors do (leave it to the French).

 

Is There Really a G-Spot?

A study in Sexual Medicine called “The Clitoral Complex: A Dynamic Sonographic Study” mixes ultrasound, the clitoris, the G-spot, and vaginal orgasms together into a sexy soup I couldn’t resist writing about. Whether or not the G-spot exists remains controversial. One of the questions I answered in my upcoming book What’s Up Down There? Questions You’d Only Ask Your Gynecologist If She Was Your Best Friend is “Does the G-spot really exist?” The answer:

According to the teacher in my Gross Anatomy lab, the answer is no. As we were dissecting the vagina, someone asked, “So where’s the G-Spot, Doc?” My teacher, in his thick Eastern European accent, said, “Zere is no G-Spot in ze human female.” Okay, good to know.

The rest of my medical training pretty much agreed with Professor Von Buzzkill. An expert in the field even told me that every part of the vagina has been examined under the microscope, and there is nothing on the anterior wall of the vagina that looks any different than the rest of the vagina. Therefore, the G-spot does not exist. Period.

However, as is the case with much I learned in medical school, my patients tell me otherwise. Over the years, thousands of patients have sworn that there is a place felt through the anterior wall of the vagina that hits the oh-oh-oh spot –- or, rather, is the spot. I believe in many things I cannot see, so I tend to believe my patients.

Hunting for data to validate their experience, I came across Dr. Beverly Whipple, who famously named the G-spot after German OB/GYN Dr. Ernst Gräfenburg, who described a zone of erogenous feeling on the anterior wall of the vaginal canal. (A friend of hers suggested she name it the “Whipple Tickle,” but out of respect for Whipples everywhere, she vetoed this idea.)  According to Dr. Whipple, the G-spot definitely exists. When I asked her why some in the medical community vehemently deny its existence, she seemed baffled.  She said, “I don’t know. I guess because they can’t see it under a microscope, they think it doesn’t exist. But my career has been about validating what real women experience. And some -- but not all -- definitely experience pleasurable feelings when you stimulate the G-spot area.”

Her belief runs so deep that she went on to conduct hundreds of studies aimed at validating the sexual experiences women relate. For one study in 1981, 400 female volunteers were examined. According to Dr. Whipple, a spot that empirically swells with stimulation was found in each of these women, although she admits that not all women appear to be sensitive to this type of stimulation. 

 So what is the G-spot? Dr. Whipple isn’t sure. As Dr. Von Buzzkill said, no specific anatomic differences can be detected in this area. But she suspects a cluster of blood vessels, nerves, glands (including the “female prostate gland”), and part of of the clitoris may all merge to create a sensitive area that hits the spot.  She believes the female experience more than the microscope, and I tend to agree with her.

Drs. Foldes and Buisson seem to agree with Dr. Whipple, theorizing that the reason some women can have vaginal orgasms is that the anterior wall of the vagina (in the location of the famed G-spot) overlies the root of the clitoris, where the crura (legs) come together. So perhaps the reason that nobody can find an anatomic location for the controversial G-spot is because there’s nothing special about this part of the vagina other than it butts up against a sweet spot of the clitoris.

A Clitoral Anatomy Lesson

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First, a bit of anatomy. You may think the clitoris starts and ends as the little nubbin that lies just below the mons pubis (where you pubes are) and just above the urethra (where the pee comes out). But the little hot button you can see (the glans of the clitoris) is just the tip of the sensual iceberg. The clitoris functions like a female version of the penis and is made up of 8,000 nerve

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the.me.i.be 41 pts

yes VOs are real. yes i can tell the diff. they didn't start until my mid-30s. i thought  childbirth had something to do with it...  maybe some things got shifted around (which is a nice little trade off IMO) 

Tahyer 5 pts

You jumped from saying that there is a point that feels better in the vagina than the rest to saying this means you get vaginal orgasm. There is a point that feels really good when someone touches it on my torso but it doesn't give me orgasm. Please elaborate on this.

And you are a woman, tell us about yourself: Can you or can't you have vaginal orgasms?

Middle age 5 pts

I have been married for 7 years, having sex for 14 years, and this may shock you, all with just one man, my husband. I have ALWAYS had vaginal orgasms. I have NEVER had any other kind. I can only have one while my husband and I are making love, and not every time either, but most times. Sometimes it depends on how long he can hold off till I get finished, but, hey, it's all good. Even if I don't have an orgasm, it's just as nice to be close to my husband. Those of you out there that have never had one, try being on top, that's the best way I have found. Bless you all, and I hope you all have great success in achieving the vaginal orgasm.

Trisha_AnCMovies 5 pts

I've seen good studies showing that g-spot stimulation in women can cause an ejaculation - which is certainly a type of sexual release. The liquid expelled can be anywhere from a drop and up. However, I have never found a study that correlates vaginal stimulation alone to a physical reaction that looks like the types of orgasms (caused by clitoral stimulation) Masters and Johnson recorded. Does anyone know of any? Usually the studies surrounding vaginal orgasms rely on women telling the researcher whether she orgasmed or not.

Also, aren't most of those 8,000 clitoral nerves in the glans? How "nervy" are the the crura?

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JoyfulHausfrau 6 pts

I think it's one of those genetic either/or things. Like: Can you roll your tongue? Wiggle your ears? Have vaginal orgasms? Detect a G-spot?

Or maybe it's a skill, like balancing a spoon on the end of your nose. I hope to God that's not the case, because it doesn't work for me.

For me there is no G-spot and no vaginal orgasm - and I'm not ignorant about what's going on down there - I know how to get to the O-O-O. But, I'm ever so bummed and envious of you G-spot ladies, because I think the ability to have a vaginal orgasm would make sex with my husband more intimate and less mechanical, but c'est la vie.

Oh, and MelissaFord, you asked what is gained by denying its existence? Well, for those of us without, the very idea that you can have a vaginal orgasm - which tends to be equated with the G-spot - is damaging to our self-esteem.

In Bed With Married Women ~ !?!? I guess I'll have to give that a try.

In Bed With Married Women 6 pts

In Bed With Married Women

http://inbedwithmarriedwomen.blogspot.com

And maybe there's even a third type of orgasm, the cervical orgasm. Taoists thought this was the deepest type of them all. A women who had had them, wrote about them for my blog and described them as being more spiritual and having an afterglow for one or two days after.

I am feeling mighty jealous about the whole thing, but if you can stand to read about it, here's a link to two posts on it:
http://inbedwithmarriedwomen.blogspot.com/search/label/orgasms

Gena Haskett 23 pts

Yeah, men get a little ego-confused about both. Look, each woman's body is constructed differently. What works for three women isn't going to work for the next 15 women.

Okay, I'm gonna answer your question as best I can. Yes, if I move my body/pelvis a certain way and I have an organic (male) or a facsimile, (g-spot wand or other toys) I can hit that spot and ramp up to speed.

I found my spot. Not a guy. Part of this is having the internal permission to explore your own goodies.

The other part is understanding that for some women they don't have a designated hot spot. That is ok, If you have other types of orgasms why fret about you don't have.

Oh, weight loss or gain can shift the sucker around.

Now I don't doubt for a moment that there are couples where the mate manages to hit that spot each and every time.

Bless and be blessed. But was it a matter of that person taking time to be in sexual partnership or an accident of anatomy?

Cuz you can be lousy in bed and still hit the spot. Or not.

We had a post or two on women faking it.

http://www.blogher.com/faking-orgasm-anti-feminist

http://www.blogher.com/are-you-faking-your-orgasms

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JustCurious 5 pts

So my question is did you experience vaginal orgasm? HOw often? And did you try something different to get it?

JustCurious 5 pts

I have read dozens of articles on g-spot. Most common thing found was, only men describe that their partners had vaginal orgasm. I would like to know how many females reading this blog really experienced the g-spot orgasm and you have then is it everytime that u have sex. I have also read how easy it's for a woman to fake it just to make her partner feel good.

I am so annoyed by my boy friends reaction as he thinks he knows about vaginal anatomy better than I do. He says his ex cummed everytime they had sex then why dont I.

D A 5 pts

i know that G spots exist, i did not thought so before but i have experienced it many times with my fiance and i can say that it does.... any position that we try i orgasm and it is great.... wow 4 u woman out there who has not yet experience it try different position mayb ul get it, but its soooooo guuuud and fuuuun

jjjlfish 5 pts

YES it does I'm sorry and I dont like to brag but my wife (of 15 yrs.)cums almost every time. How do I know you ask? because the contractions are very tight, and almost everytime she squirts. We have done it vaginally,analy, and with my fingers,and almost everytime she comes,w/ejaculate. To the point where we have to change the sheets or put down lots of towels, dont get me wrong I like it but the people that say female ejaculte doesnt exsist is full of you know what, and my wife will back me up. I have made her come (ejaculate w/ squirting far) up too 20 times in one night.

the.me.i.be 41 pts

 jjjlfish ... hmm... 0 posts + 1 comment about how often ur wife gets off (up to 20 times in one night) = LIAR

tsb3esg 5 pts

As not all of us are insensitive misogynists, I'd like to add my two cents from a male perspective - a male, admittedly that has been raised to be open, curious and experimenting.
I've had my share of sexual partners, and can only fully agree with the article and the comments - the G-spot exists. However, it does not seem to exist with all women.
In those women where I 'found' it (some of them where not aware they had it - and I count myself lucky to having witnessed the discovery) it's very clearly identifyable by feeling differently - rough and crinkly as one of the commenters described it.
Please dont hold it against all manhood that some of use seem to be lost in scientific misargumentation - you've got a wonderful thing going there; enjoy it :)

Alarming Female 5 pts

I got a $36 gizmo that can find it. If they need help tell them to go to Babeland or the Pleasure Chest.

Love this!

Or Smitten Kitten, or Sediva, or Blowfish. . .

TheAmyTucker 6 pts

"Regardless of how the science works, I say that if the G-spot works for you, and you’re rocking your vaginal orgasms, own it, baby!"

Best line evah!

Amy writes at TasteLikeCrazy.com ( http://tastelikecrazy.com ) and Sims3Gamer.com ( http://www.Sims3Gamer.com ) and can also be found on Twitter @TasteLikeCrazy ( http://twitter.com/Tastelikecrazy ).

Gena Haskett 23 pts

Totally going for the nexus thing. I think it bothers them that they expect it to be in the same place on each and every woman.

I got a $36 gizmo that can find it. If they need help tell them to go to Babeland or the Pleasure Chest.

Could save thousands on the research costs.

Just saying,

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Dwana of Houseonahillorg 7 pts

Super report! We need updates in our busy lives, and this one was really well received.

It gives many of us the confidence to keep exploring and experiencing.

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Motherhooduncensored 5 pts

Kristen Chase, author
The Mominatrix's Guide to Sex ( http://www.mominatrixbook.com )

They need to come up with "vagina maps" - you know, like "google maps."

Because that would be soooo helpful.

Gives "GPS" a whole new meaning.

MFA Mama 5 pts

Yeah, it exists. Feels totally different, both as far as the orgasms and texturally-speaking. I don't really care WHAT it is, but I do care that there are a bunch of g-spot deniers out there, because there's nothing like the stench of misogyny to get my panties in a bunch, and not in a good way...what's in it for the deniers of the world? I'll tell you what's in it: an excuse for heterosexual d00ds to be lazy/defend their lousy performances in bed. I highly doubt something even, say, twenty percent of men held as a common and identically-described experience would be dismissed so hastily. Boo, patriarchy. Just boo.

zchamu 6 pts

Because when it can't explain something, it says it just must not exist, despite tons of people who know their lives and bodies work that way.

Melissa Ford 52 pts

I love the point she makes that because scientists can't observe it, they don't believe it. The larger question is why deny the g-spot at all? What is gained by denying its existence?

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Deb Rox 17 pts

I may never get over the Whipple information. Never!

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Deb Rox 17 pts

Totally exist, and a very different beast. I think you are right that some women haven't experience them because of the distance of the root from the anterior wall, but I also wonder if (not a doctor here, just a lay -heh!- person), if a lot of the reason that hasn't happened has to do with arousal preparing the environment, because that is a definite correlation. Perhaps arousal softens or heightens sensations in that wall? Certainly sends shockwaves deeper into the roots. And the area that looks the same under a microscope sure FEELS different to the touch if it is highly aroused, rougher and crinkly almost. Women don't experience lots of things in the same way, so it makes sense that the G-spot wouldn't call the same response across the spectrum, but I firmly believe there's a there there. That's my field report, anyway.