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There are a lot of ways to change the world. Because, face it: bringing about any of kind of change is best effected incrementally. You don't just set off one morning to run a marathon; you put on running shoes, you do some stretching, you run around the block, you come home and then you keep repeating, running longer and faster with every new attempt. Likewise with changing the world: it's the little incremental steps that do the trick. If we set out to just all of a sudden force a transformation, we wouldn't be very successful. Also, we'd probably get really bad cramps.

We think about this every day at BlogHers Act Canada. Every post that goes up, every brainstorming e-mail that goes out, every reflection on whether or not hipstertastic condom campaigns count as health activism, we're asking ourselves: are we making a difference? Does it matter that the difference sometimes seems so small? And it was this specific question - do small difference count? - that was plaguing me for a while before the holidays last year. How was I making a difference? Was BHAC enough of an effort? Was I using my Internet powers and resources to the best of my abilities? Was I slacking off in the MAKE A DIFFERENCE department?

Here's what was bothering me in particular: I was being sent a lot of stuff.. Like, tons of stuff. Multiple boxes weekly, and multiple offers in my inbox: can we send you this? would you like to giveaway that? And throughout my community I could see the same thing - giveaway after giveaway, review after review, product after product - and I thought, wow. This is what might be called an embarassment of riches. And then I thought, maybe I should be thinking about putting those riches to better, more distributive use. So I made a commitment to doing exactly that. I decided, among other things, to give away some share of the stuff that I receive. For example - as I explained at BHAC - I decided, for the duration of the holidays, to take multiples of toy-type stuff to a toy drive or shelter, and with anything I received that was not toy drive appropriate, I pledged to purchase toys in lieu of those products and donate these (with my children in tow) to the toy drive. I also pledged to amend my advertising and review policies for my personal blog, to the effect that I would ask companies that approach me for advertising or reviews to consider offering charitable donations and/or extra products for me to donate to charity. Basically, I decided that I wanted - needed - to bring an element of social responsibility to the way that I did business (collected ad revenue, conducted giveaways, reviewed products, etc, etc) online. And then I decided - in consultation with my BHAC co-founder - to bring that project to BHAC.

Here's our spiel:

Give Good Blog is our humble effort to bring an element of practical social responsibility to blogging. There's already much such effort out there... but this, we thought, would be something a little different, something a little more focused, something a little more oriented toward the little things that we already do with our blogs. Our idea: encourage bloggers to use their blogs as platforms for helping others, in little ways and big ways and all the ways in between. From paying-it-forward with blog giveaways to using blogs to raise money for causes to just writing about the little things that we're doing in real life to make the world a better place - we just want to encourage and promote anyone who is giving good blog.

Bloggers like, for example, Mamalang:

I don't do give aways (yet) and my review blog is pretty much non-existent, but I try to do good things.  And I love the whole idea behind this project, so I signed up... Right before I found this post, I signed up to volunteer at a web-based
mail charity... I want a way that feels like I'm giving to someone else in the world, a way that I can include my children, and I think this is it.

And oddly (or not-so-oddly, depending upon how you look at it), the readers of my blog, as I recounted here:

I was trying to give good blog by doing a giveaway that asked participants to

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Wilma Ham 5 pts

 Kathi, that is beautiful, awesome and it shows me the power of people when they direct with to love. 

All the best to you,

Love Wilma

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accidentalamazon 5 pts

Just wanted to share a wonderful experience I was privileged to facilitate just before Christmas.  I was diagnosed with breast cancer last year, and one of the websites that saved my sanity was http:// ( http://www.breastcancer.org/ )www.breastcancer.org ( http://www.breastcancer.org/ )/.  In particular, bc.org provides an online forum for those of us dealing with this disease, as well as a place that our family and friends can commiserate.  From a tech standpoint, it is a beautifully run forum, which works smoothly despite its international and multitudinous visitors, and its dozens of threads. 

The best thing about the forum, though, is the love, support and instant empathy that is shared immediately among all of the mostly women who are struggling through this disease and its rather "scorched-earth" treatment protocols.  Back in December, one week before Christmas, one of our forum sisters, who was undergoing chemotherapy, told us that her husband had been laid off from his job.  She and her husband had already been in the process of trying to renegotiate their mortgage and were now afraid they would definitely lose their home.  They have two small children and were now unsure what kind of Christmas they were going to have.

We had all already been sharing many stories about how the housing and financial crisis had affected many of us, but this really hit us.  Within 48 hours of hearing this latest story, I was able to connect with several other women on the forum and set up a few pages on my art site to serve as a site where we could make a donation to our sister in need.  I bought a domain name for this, and was able to set up a donation thread through my Paypal business account to allow everyone to make online donations.  Because our sister-in-need had a personal Paypal account, I was able to easily transfer all the funds we raised to her account via email.  Within a few days, we were able to raise over $1400 dollars right before Christmas.  This money allowed our friend and her family to pay their bills for a month, buy Christmas presents for the boys, and buy themselves some breathing room.  Since then, they have found a legal aid lawyer who is helping to get them signed up for some programs that will help them with their mortgage and their financial woes until they can get back on their feet.

I was so touched by how immediately my forum sisters rose to the occasion, and I was never so glad that I had a website and a blog, as well as the tech skills to set this up so quickly.  It gave all of us who contributed the great gift of providing an opportunity to demonstrate the true meaning of the holiday in a tangible way.

I had been blogging informally about breast cancer from my art site since my diagnosis, but my experience with the bc.org forum prompted me to start a formal blog this New Year's Day.  The breastcancer.org forum has been a lifeline to so many of us.  I think it must be one of the best and most wonderful examples of social networking on the web, and I'm proud to belong to it.  I would never have wished breast cancer on any of us, but I am so grateful to have gotten to know this extraordinary group of women.

Kathi

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woowoomama 5 pts

thanks for putting this up.  i am new to blogging and i have been trying to find the thing that drives my blog.  besides just writing about my own experience. your dictate of blogging for good social change is just the kind of inspiration i have been looking for.  now, i just have to figure out what my small step can be.

robin

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Her Bad Mother 5 pts

... but my personal policy is that if I don't have something good to say, I don't say it. I think companies understand that when they submit something to you for review, you might not like it. If I don't like something, I just don't review it. That's all. I might still give it away, though - someone else might like it or find it useful ;)

So when I do review something and say I like it, it's the truth.

ReneeJRoss 5 pts

What a great way to make a contribution to society. One of my greatest rewards from blogging has been my ability to share information with my readers and to challenge them to "do something." On a monthly basis I will post about a topic regarding social responsibility. I participated in Bloggers Give for education, I've raised awareness about HIV/AIDS, I've written about poverty and I am working on a post about domestic violence.

As bloggers we have this platform that we can use to promote not only ourselves but causes that we believe in. Kudos to you! It is my hope that more bloggers jump on this bandwagon.

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sandhillsis 5 pts

I'm just starting in the blogging world, however, I want to give one thing away every month. One helpful thing that is...This month it was the book "The Shack" that has helped me more than about anything. The lady that got it, was so excited.

I think we can change the world, one person at a time, starting with ourselves. Well said!

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MiscMum 5 pts

I've long pledged part of my monies earned through my blog to local charities, and then at certain holiday seasons really try to campaign money to be channelled through to my Oxfam fundraiser. Considering to this date I've raised over $500 to Oxfam I'm really pleased..

Australia this week has suffered it's most tragic natural weather disaster in its history, and the Internet/social media has played a HUGE role in passing the word on about good deeds and projects people can stand behind. I see this as - I hope - a sign of what COULD be, what SHOULD be, when we consider how we help others in this age.

Ask Becca 5 pts

Just a question though.  I am new to blogging and I see so many blogs reviewing things that they have been sent.  Do you sign something that has to say how great it is?  I feel like everyone always likes what they review which makes me wonder if it is a review at all?  Just a curious newbie!

Thanks  

Becca

 Please visit me at http://www.askbecca.com

Wilma Ham 5 pts

This is blogging at its best, this makes my heart sing. This is such great use of this medium, thank you for this post.

Wilma Ham

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