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Do You Hate or Love Your Body? Is It Possible To Love Yourself Healthy?

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A long time ago I read a book called Love Yourself Thin. The idea of the book was that if you love and appreciate your body, choosing to feed it healthy foods would come naturally. It also emphasized the importance of loving our bodies just the way they are...even suggesting you stand naked in front of a mirror and replace negative self talk with positive self talk. Even though I never tried that, it did make me notice how many times in one day I was passing my reflection and telling myself I was fat or ugly (more than I could count).

So the idea of loving ourselves healthy isn't a new concept. But it is something that most of us are neglecting to practice.

When we choose to eat healthy out of love for our bodies, we are able to let go of the negative aspects of weight and appearances. We no longer have to hate our bodies into going on starvation diets. Instead, we can love our bodies into making healthy food choices.

The first step in loving yourself healthy is to STOP JUDGING YOURSELF and your appearance. If you can't say something nice about yourself...Don't say anything at all. This is a great opportunity to recognize your negative self talk and begin to practice positive affirmations. Check out this website where you can randomly pick a wisdom card by Louise Hay.

The next step is to start treating your body like you love it (even if you don't). Try making food choices that reflect your desire to fuel your body with nourishing and healthy foods.

Leslie Karen Lobell - Learning To Love Yourself...

One way to learn to love yourself is to act as if you already do (i.e., "Fake it till you make it"). An important way to love yourself is to nourish and care for your body: eat healthy foods and exercise regularly.

Healthy Eating Tips from Love Your Body Love Yourself at Women's Healthcare Empowerment Now...

  • Make stir-fry using a little chicken, some veggies, some seasoning all in one pan; and you have a healthy meal.
  • Carry nuts, fruit, string cheese (part skim mozzarella), low-fat yogurt, or hard-boiled eggs with you for healthy snacks.
  • If other people in the house eat junk food, put it all in one cabinet and start eating less of it.
  • Make a healthy grocery list and don't buy the junk (chips, etc.).
  • Avoid foods with the word "hydrogenated" on the label, or look for foods that say "no trans fats".
  • Avoid deep fat fried foods like french fries.
  • Eat throughout the day. If you don't eat much all day you are more likely to binge at night.
  • Eat something with a lot of fiber, like a salad, before your meal; it will make you feel less hungry.
  • If you find you frequently eat for emotional comfort, think of other things you could substitute, like a warm bath, or your favorite music.
  • You can be a good example for your children and teach them to eat healthy foods along with you. This may change their lives for the better now, and help them be more likely to eat healthfully as adults.

Love and Health Go Hand in Hand...

If we really and truly care for ourselves, we would take good care of these bodies that are taking us through life.This minor revelation helped me change my negative thoughts about myself as I was writing. I realized that I usually do love myself enough to eat healthy foods which contribute to my being exceptionally healthy most of the time.

Suzanne Reizman - Would The American Economy Collapse If Women Stopped Hating Their Natural Appearance?

How many companies rely on us feeling crappy about our bodies to sell more product? If we all loved our bodies the way they are, douche companies wouldn't be the only ones going out of business--the diet, health & beauty, pharmaceutical, and cosmetic surgery industries would suffer as well!

Think of the money we could save if we loved ourselves and accepted our bodies in their natural state.

LoveYourBody.org

Thick thighs. Narrow hips. Thick lips. Thin ones. Big nose, small boobs. Flat butt, fat butt. Dark skin, light skin. You got what ya got. Can you find the courage to love it all...right now?

So...Do you see a connection between how you feel about your body and how you treat your body? Do you love your body or hate it?

If you hate it, are you willing

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Catherine Morgan 5 pts

Hi Michelle...Nice job on your video. I'll embed it here in case anyone would like to check it out.

You'll probably also be interested in BlogHer's new video blog called Backtalk ( http://www.blogher.com/backtalk ) that will launch tomorrow.

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michellebrownlow 5 pts

I just went live with my second episode of The Mom Show and I have started what I call the 100 Day Challenge...it is all about THIS POST! I am so thrilled to see someone else thinking on the same lines I am.

Check it out:

http://youtube.com/mkbrownlow 

Michelle Kemper Brownlow

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Chris jones 5 pts

thanks for the post. and thanks for fixing the links

Cynthia M 24 pts

What a great way to view your healthy eating goals - thanks so much for sharing this!  I am so going to implement these suggestions NOW.  And I do love the irony of the M&M ad in the middle of the post...  :)   

Cynthia Menard 

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Catherine Morgan 5 pts

Sorry about that.  I thought I had checked the links.  It's correct now, thanks for bringing it to my attention.

 :-)

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Denise 1916 pts moderator

No, that's not where it used to go. Let me see if I can find Catherine's original link and fix it.

~Denise
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mashadutoit 8 pts

The link in this line

Check out this website where you can randomly pick a wisdom card ( http://www.amazon.com/Love-Yourself-Thin-Revolutionary-Spiritual/dp/0875964613 ) by Louise Hay.

goes to an amazon page for "love yourself thin". Is that correct?

simplyfran 5 pts

I do not eat as healthy as I should either.  Lifetime habits are hard to break and the older you get the harder they are to break.  I am learning to eat healthier like eating popcorn when I'm really hungry (less calories per volume plus that high fiber content) and instead of the soda I used to have with my popcorn I have a nice juicy apple or an orange.

I'm 68 years old and starting to feel better than I did at 48. Check out my site at;
http://www.nutritionkeptsimple.com ( http://www.nutritionkeptsimple.com/ )

Vered 5 pts

I think many women have body image issues ( http://momgrind.com/2009/01/28/women-body-image/ ) because of the media. It's hard to love yourself when the media keeps telling you you're fat and ugly and need to change - to use stuff - expensive stuff - in order to be socially acceptable.

The recent attack on Jessica Simpson for going from a size 2 to size 8 is a good example. What message does it send to women?

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magsmadison 5 pts

I don't eat healthy, but I also don't hate my body.  I focus on my good features and ignore the less good features.  I will, however, try to "complain less" in my head about how tired I look : )  maybe that will cause me to love myself enough to sleep more!

STANDTALL 5 pts

The greatest love of all like Whitney Houston said is to love yourself. It's no other way, nothing can work fine in once life if you despise or do not appreciate the body in which you exist. Great post

Kathy333 5 pts

Despite the newly formed wrinkles, the gray hairs that are sprouting up, and the dryer skin that I now experience, I feel better than I ever did.

I think I learned at some point along the way that its how I feel inside. If you are happy and feel good about yourself you take better care of yourself. I believe that.  If you are feeling down about yourself it is easy to think, "Why bother?"

I also believe that starting a healthy routine, even if you are feeling down about how you look, will help you to grow to appreciate yourself more.Getting outside to exercise, eating well, they all make us feel better after we have done them. When we feel better, we have a better outlook.

And I think that when we begin to focus more on who we are and not on how much we weigh or how we look then we can see the true nature of our selves and not worry so much about the exterior. I think that a lot of that comes with age as well.

Wonderful post! Can't wait to read a few of those others.

Kathy

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