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Do You Love Exercise, Or Do You Do it Because You Feel Like You Should?

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For some people, staying fit qualifies as a fun hobby. They choose to do things they enjoy, like running, biking, swimming, or rock climbing (or all of those things, and more). Other people know that they should move, so they choose activities that are convenient and effective -- even if they don’t particularly like to do them. But what makes someone go from just liking (or putting up with) exercise to saying, “I LOVE to work out?”

Personally, I find it hard to imagine that someone can have a good time on an indoor cardio machine, like a treadmill or elliptical. Even when I used an elliptical machine on a regular basis, I would never have said that I was enjoying myself. Sure, you can tell me that you don’t mind it -- that you’re easily distracted by the television or music and it makes the time goes by "so quickly" -- but a good time? When I think of pumping endlessly away on an indoor machine versus getting up early to bike outside in the crisp morning air...it just doesn’t seem like a fair comparison.

To be fair, it’s impossible to enjoy physical activity all the time, even if we’re doing something we normally love. While I prefer to be outside because it helps the time go by faster, I certainly don’t like it every time. Of course the best situation is being outside when the weather is beautiful and I have a lot of energy -- but that doesn’t happen nearly often enough. Last night I went for a walk even though I didn’t really want to; the air was a little humid, and my legs were sore because of the lower-body workout I’d done the previous day.

I was glad when I got home, and no, I didn’t particularly enjoy my walk. Still, I was glad that I’d gone out, especially since I could relax on the couch afterward without feeling quite as slug-like. But did I go out for a walk because I wanted to? No. Did I go because I felt like I had to? “Had to” is a strong term, but I knew it had been a few days and that I needed it. So I guess I went for a walk because I felt like I should.

Now, working out with weights, I actually don’t mind that so much. I like the feeling of walking out of the gym, barely able to lift my arm to unlock the car door because I’ve exhausted my upper body. But do I love weights so much that would I do it even if I knew I wouldn’t see any results from it? Of course not.

Yes, I definitely work out because I feel like I should. No, I don’t always love it. But I do like the results -- which is why most people spend time working out, I suppose. Exercise doesn’t just improve your physical appearance, it makes you stronger, increases your endurance, and helps maintain a positive mood. Given all those advantages, it’s definitely worth it to me.

Do you love to work out, or do you do it because you feel like you should?

Related Reading:

Roni’s Weigh: Roni says she loves working out, but it was a gradual process to get to this point.

I convinced myself for so long that I was not athletic. That I didn’t like the gym or working out. I made fun of gym rats, calling people who exercised on vacation insane. I really thought I just wasn’t built for exercise. Then S.L.O.W.L.Y. things started to change. [...]

Now...I’m embracing my new hobby. And that’s really what it is, a hobby. I enjoy it. It’s an outlet. It can be social yet solitary. I can measure my success by weight lifted, miles ran, time, even muscle tone. Not to mention it has health benefits and makes me feel fantastic!

Cindy’s World: Cindy loves working out “so much that sometimes I wonder why I didn't choose a career as an athlete of some sort rather than as an artist.” She was encouraged by a recent article in the LA Times about “the original owner of Bally Total Fitness who is 76 and still in GREAT shape and kicking butt in all kinds of athletic endeavours.”

Phillygrrl used to work out, “but that was back when I worked at

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2bfitness 5 pts

I think getting started is the hardest part of working out. Some days are harder than others but about 10 minutes into the workout I always feel better, get a second wind "endorphins" and then I remember that working out does something for me not only physically but menatally as well. When you have one of those days where everything went the wrong way and you were just plain exhausted but you knew you had to get your workout in..., So you drag yourself to the gym. Inevitably, when I do my energy level comes up and my stress level comes way down! I have a definite love/hate realtionship with my workouts....

midnightbliss 5 pts

I hate doing excercises on the machines but I do it anyways becasue I don't have taht enought time for outdoor activities.

Kimberly45 5 pts

Initially I agree that getting into a routine and enjoying working out is hard.  I think that it is important to mix up your activities.  During the week I work out at home on my cardio machine but I always try to do something outside on the weekends.  Even if it is just biking or swimming.  Getting in to a workout rut is the worst thing we can do.  Find something you like to do that is fun and mix it in to you workout routine.

Dia_song 5 pts

When I was a kid, compulsory PE made me think I hated exercise! I was never good with ball sports, nor situps, pull ups, push ups . . .

I liked to ride my bike, or the occasional horse (our horsey neighbors moved when I was 12, breaking my heart!) but thot I 'hated' PE type stuff. 

In my late 20s, I accidentally started going to ballet - my sis-in law & neices were taking class, & I went to watch . . .  within a few years, I was taking intermediate classes, & in my mid 40s, took 3 weeks of daily classes  (~ 4 hours/day) with the head teacher of the Bolshoi! Returned to the resort where I did massage & taught Tai Chi way buff!

30 years later, I teach Qigong. take ballet & water aerobics, enjoy ballroom, ecstatic dance & Jazzercize, . . .   could add more stuff with weights . . .

I encourage my massage clients to find smovement they enjoy &do it often!

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Nightsweatsdiva 5 pts

I wish I loved to exercise.  I do it out of necessity because since my mid 40's and now that I am in my 50's I have creeping up on me weight syndrome and if I don't do something I will explode.

My favorite thing is working with light weights because my body responds quickly...almost immediate gratification :)  I do ballroom dance, so that is awesome cardio.   

 So, I trudge on at least 4 times per week, preferably 5 with something that keeps my heart pumping and makes my muscles stronger.

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FitnessTaylor 5 pts

I actually LOVE to workout. I start my morning off with a great workout most days of the week and it just gets me energized for the day. I also love the strength i feel when i lift. Its a great confidence booster and makes me feel great!

MissStacyD 5 pts

I love to explore, therefore if my daily exercise routine includes hiking or walking outside - sometimes even running - then yes, it's safe to say I truly enjoy the exercise. But when it's cold and muggy and I'm restricted to the cardio machines in the gym? Not my idea of fun. It is what you make it!

queenbee88 5 pts

I love working out.  I run, walk, do weight lifting and yoga and pilates. I started out slow about 11 years ago when I met my ultra-fit Marine husband.  I was never a mover of any sort unless you count on the dance floor but through him I saw the benefits and learned to love it. Now I crave it almost daily and can't wait for my kids to be old enough to join in. 

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Wilma Ham 5 pts

I do Pilates at home every morning and I love it. I would have serious neck and shoulder problems if I would not do it.
That I see a result is a good incentive AND that my partner and I do it together.
Alone I would never do it.
And we do it at home because going to class would be an obstacle too.
Any obstacle is one too many for exercise for me.
I also feel that Pilates suits me somehow. Other ones I tried and I felt clumsy and dumb as my body just couldn't get it together.
But I can do the pilates exercises and me and my body feel very clever, that helps too.
Going on until I found an exercise regime that suits has worked for me.
Now I like to exercise but loving it is too strong. I rather read to be honest.

Wilma Ham

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njgeiger 5 pts

 I love to exercise! I never miss a day (except the day after my daughter was born!) I love my yoga classes, I love reading on the treadmill (50 mins.) I love walking in the neighborhood, riding my bike, waterskiing, mowing the lawn, dancing. I guess I just like to move! :)

Nancy 

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Beth Engel 5 pts

I hate every minute of exercising, but I love the results, so I do it. 

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