- Share This Post
- Pin It
- 1
-
Sparkle (0)
What happens when you have online chemistry with someone, but in person you’re like two cold fish in a wet bucket?
You meet a guy and exchange email/myspace/facebook/tweeter/that’s enough slashes. You start to chat online or possibly even over the phone (if you’re daring) and you hit it off instantly. Your personalities mesh well together. There’s sexy typing, chemistry, sparks, atoms splitting apart to create pieces of pure energy shooting through the atmosphere. There might even be a little *gasp* flirting travelling across the digital waves. Whatever it is, you guys have it.
So you decided to hang out. Make a casual date or just hanging out with some friends, whatever it maybe, this night is bound to be magical. If all characters continue to follow the set course and everyone stays on their designate story line, then the night should end in various fireworks and suckage-of-face.
Right?
Yet, for some reason, nothing. You look into each others eyes, part your mouth to continue your usual witty banter and nothing seems to come out. All the cute jabs and comical sparring just seems missing. The spicy chemistry you usually share online has fizzled into bad Chinese food and one or both of you would just like to leave and flush this horrible experience down the crapper.
What has happened? How come when you are typing to one another everything seems to click and the attraction is palpable, but when you physically enter the same room with this person all bonds just fall apart? Are all online relationships doomed to fail when brought into the real world? If so, should we just leave good enough alone and be happy to have some intellectual stimulation online and look elsewhere for other ... stimulation? Or can we somehow pull that online paprika out of the computer and into the dating world with us?
Check out other posts @ http://finger-talks.blogspot.com/
