DOING WHAT YOU LOVE.....SANDCASTLES.....

DOING WHAT YOU LOVE…..SANDCASTLES….

An ultimate lifestyle of fun is generally built one layer at a time like a Sandcastle….We design our lives almost in segments or layers…Every area of our lives should be spent doing what we love…From our personal time to our relationships to our jobs….Simply every area of our lives should be lived happy and what we do routinely should be fun…

We have our jobs that overtime we should build into a dream job. Our jobs should be a job that we love to go to and love just about everything about it. It is a job that we are likely to be able to build layers upon layers into. Dream jobs don’t just happen…They are built that way…One layer at a time…

We have relationships that are fun and that we go to share our happiness and good times. Most often the longer our relationships the more layers of good times we have to them. Embrace those good times while creating new good times for the future…

Saving money can be just as much fun as spending money can be. There are those who love to save money and they make it a fun experience. Sometimes watching people walk around with their coupons at the grocery store is wonderfully amusing…They have made it a fun art to save money. “A penny saved is more than a penny earned”…Each penny saved is simply fun for them. For these frugal people saving money is a game or a fun experience for them…..They have made it fun rather than looking at it as a mundane task…..Saving money takes time…Layer upon layer….and making it fun is the best way to do it.

Fitness should never be something that makes us unhappy to do. Working out should not be something we dread. Instead it should be something we enjoy. Something we have fun at. When going to the gym, a run, a swim, or any other kind of fitness we should find all the ways to make it fun.

Parenting should be enjoyed. Parenting should not be an uphill battle consistently year in and year out.. Find a way to make parenting enjoyable. There are so many books and self-help items that show parents how to make parenting successful and happy. If those don’t’ work then perhaps seek competent counseling…Parenting as well as any other area of life is meant to be happy…

Avoid things that you truly don’t like if at all possible….Doing things you don’t like over and over will not change how you feel about them or make you a better person….You will still not like doing them. You will actually like them less and less each time you have to do something you do not like…..Bad habits of doing something over and over one does not like is hard to break…..Getting stuck in a habit of doing what you don’t like can take time to undo….but it is an important one to eventually walk away from.

Create from the start great habits of doing only what you love if possible. Get in the habit of doing what you love. Saying “yes” to things you love and “no” to things you do not love should become a regular way of life…..Don’t feel guilty for saying “no” to what you do not like….

Make your daily habits one of putting fun into your life…one habit at a time….When you begin building layer upon layer of fun into your life before you know it you have a very happy life that most people will envy…

Yes, a happy and fun filled life is like building a Sandcastle…..one layer at a time…and while doing so it is so much fun in the process…

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