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Don't Feel Bad if You're Not in Chicago Right Now

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Hi everyone!

I'm deviating from my normal Monday posting schedule because I have something to say about BlogHer. I'm here, and I can't wait to go see everyone, but I know the blogosphere is abuzz with who's here and who's not, and I want to pause briefly in my excitement to say IT DOESN'T MATTER.

Every year around this time people start posting about how they're going and what they're wearing, and then after the conference the photos go up on Flickr and people who weren't there feel like maybe they missed out on something very important, maybe they're not cool, and I know I personally have felt a twitter of something I haven't felt since high school.

This is not the point of BlogHer. Don't let it become anything like that to you.

I hope to see anyone who is here and Chicago, but if you're not, don't sweat it. BlogHer is not exclusive, it's alive and on the Internet, and virtual and real at the same time in its friendships and support. Whether or not you can afford the time or expense of travel should not be a big deal. We can work together to achieve our goals and strengthen our friendships without physically seeing each other (even though that is awfully nice).

So please, if you're feeling bad for not being in Chicago right now, don't. You are a valued and important member of this world, whether you show up in cute shoes or not. This is an amazing grouping of women (and some men), a grouping of amazing writers and thinkers and doers and people, and the beauty of the organization is that we can make a difference from anywhere. Please don't forget that you are always important to the group, no matter where or who you are.

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Mom2Many 5 pts

Thanks for your thoughts. I thought the concept of Second Life was neat. I was definitely exposed to something I wouldn't have normally seen. It was pretty cool, though. I was sad to have missed some of the talks, more because I was interested than because I wasn't there. Hopefully, we'll be able to see some YouTube and podcasts going up soon and then we'll be able to see what we'd like to see.

Rita Arens 7 pts

I've posted on the first day of BlogHer over at Surrender Dorothy - www.surrenderdorothyblog.com ( http://www.surrenderdorothyblog.com ). I'm taking it a little slower this year and will try to keep you guys posted on at least what I did so you can get an idea of what BlogHer is like. Surrender, Dorothy ( http://surrenderdorothy.typepad.com )- When I was your age, we just let them ride in the back window.

PutYourFlareOn 5 pts

Hi Rita,

Thanks for writing that. I wanted to attend but just couldn't find the time in my busy schedule. Maybe next year...

Crunchy Carpets 5 pts

I was soooo looking forward to it....I just feel sick about it.

Look for me at http://crunchycarpets.com or check out the ladies at www.wetcoastwomen.com ( http://www.wetcoastwomen.com )

glossyveneer 5 pts

I've been feeling the "wishing I was there" blues today. This was a nice little reminder and I'm enjoying all the posts on BlogHer anyway!

bzymom13 5 pts

Awww....very sweet!
It is so true too, there are SO many bloggers that I read that I know would not consider themselves "popular" or "well known" that make a difference to me everyday. Thanks for the reminder :)

Miss T 5 pts

Thanks, Rita. I'm glad you said this. Any sort of conference or gathering quickly takes on the illusion of exclusivity whether the participants intend it or not.

Florinda 5 pts

Although I don't think I'm ready for BlogHer '07 at this point - I feel like way too much of a blogging newbie - I've been feeling out of it this week reading so many posts from people who will be there. Thanks for reassuring the rest of us! :-)

Florinda
Blogging at The 3 R's: Reading, 'Riting, and Randomness ( http://pendvasq-readingritingandrandomness.blogspo... )