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Proof That the World Is Not Full of Hate

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As I rummaged around the office, I came across a colorful crocheted granny square that was left over from a project that was coordinated on my blog two years ago. I sat down and cried. Don't worry, they were tears of joy ... I was remembering the hundreds of people with hearts full of love who helped me realize a dream.

Crocheted square for afghans for children with cancer

Those people have been one of the biggest blessing in my life.

I decided to share a story I had written during that project, to show you the power of people working together. Here you go:

He glanced at me over the top of his newspaper and nodded solemnly, as he always did. I saw him every day as I sashayed into the coffee shop to get my morning mocha. Usually, the only greeting I got from him was that casual nod, but this morning he threw his paper down on the table and looked me in the eye.

"I don't know what this world is coming to," he sighed, shaking his shaggy gray head. "Crime, war, destruction. The world is full of hate! I'm beginning to think the human race is just plain evil."

"You think so?" I asked. "Then, come out to my car with me and let me show you what the newspapers don't tell you."

packages from around the world for Share A Square

I bounced out to my Honda Element while he followed with a puzzled expression on his face. Having just been to the post office, I had quite a few packages such as these. As he stood beside me I opened the back hatch, borrowed his pocketknife and opened those parcels for him to see.

crocheted granny squares for Share A Square

I ripped open a box from Arizona and a large envelope from Hawaii. Out of them tumbled a rainbow of beautiful crocheted granny squares. Each of the squares had a tiny tag attached, telling the name of the person who made it and where they lived.

"What's this?" he asked skeptically.

"This," I said, "is love."

I told him about the Share A Square project.

In June 2007, I woke up one morning with a wild idea. That day, I posted on my blog asking for help with a project, saying that I was "searching for people with big hearts." I requested that people send me six-inch granny squares to make into afghans for children with cancer. I planned that each blanket would have 48 squares on it, and each square would be from a different person.

I knew just where to deliver them. There is a summer camp for children with cancer and their siblings called Camp Sanguinity (associated with Cook Children's Medical Center in Fort Worth, Texas). Each year, 140 children attend. For six glorious days, those children can forget about cancer and just be kids. I planned that we would wrap all of those children with blankets full of our love.

I had no idea if I would be able to make this work; in fact, I suspected that I might be biting off more than I could chew. But, I remembered words my Daddy told me: "Gal, if you don't ever chase a dream, you're never going to catch one. Dream big, and then run like thunder."

Though I was not one to listen to my Daddy when I was young, as I get older his words seem to make more sense. Since this piece of advice seemed to reinforce what I already wanted to do, I decided to take it. To my surprise, before the day was out at least 15 other blogs had linked to mine. People jumped at the chance to help me spread the news. We decided to call the project "Share A Square."

Soon after that, people began sending me squares. I packaged them and sent them to other volunteers. Those folks rimmed the squares in black stitching, pieced the blankets together, and then crocheted a colorful border around the blankets before they sent them back to me. On the day I chatted with that man, we had more than 100 blankets finished, and I

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texasebeth 6 pts

I love that you started something as special as this. There are tons of organizations and groups who do things like this on a regular basis. What a great reminder that it doesn't take much to show someone you are thinking of them & they are special!

Elizabeth

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Shelly Kneupper Tucker 5 pts

Lori, each day when I went to the mailbox it was like Christmas all over again.  I still have an elderly woman (two years later) who want to give me afghan squares :-).  I have to say that it isn't so much what "I" did ... all I did was ask for help!  The number of people who stepped up to the plate astounded me.  I knew people were willing to give, but I never knew how much until this project came along. 

The thing that amazes me most is that the internet was the thread that connected us all.

Shelly Kneupper Tucker

writes at This Eclectic Life ( http://thiseclecticlife.com/ )

Twitter handle: @shellyktucker ( http://twitter.com/shellyktucker )

Lori Randall Stradtman 5 pts

This post, this story is to beautiful I almost can't stand it.  Thank you so much for what you did and for writing about it.  My fiance reads the newspapers way too much and it's almost always depressing.  I'm sharing this with him tonight.  

I believe in the goodness of so many people and I believe that there's more goodness than ever gets reported.  Thank you so much.  This is deeply touching.

Shelly Kneupper Tucker 5 pts

I didn't mean to make you cry...or maybe I did :-).  The man in the coffeeshop learned a powerful lesson from hundreds of people (I got to be the catalyst, but it wouldn't have happened without many hearts filled with love).

These days, Cece, I think most people's lives have been touched by cancer.  Anything we can do to bring attention to a cure, whether it is making blankets of love or riding in a "Century" bicycle ride to benefit cancer patients, is worthwhile.  I applaud you for your dedication!  Let's hope we can find a cure in our lifetime.

Shelly Kneupper Tucker

writes at This Eclectic Life ( http://thiseclecticlife.com/ )

Twitter handle: @shellyktucker ( http://twitter.com/shellyktucker )

ceceev 5 pts

I am breathing and still crying.  Fighting cancer is a mission of mine.  So many people in my family have passed from it.  My mom did, my nephew,  my grandmother, 3 of my moms;' sisters...on and on. 

I rode a centruy last year with Team in Training and am now am working with Livestrong to cycle another century (100) miles on a bike in one day...San Jose and then Moab this year....I think that doing something positive to spread the light of love into the drakness that is cancer is a very poweful thing and  it helps us to work at a cure...to show love ....

That man in the cofffe shop learned a powerful lesson from you that he will never forget!

Cece...one of The Two Whos

**see post on "Cookies can Cure Cancer?"

http://www.thetwowhos.com