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My husband forwarded me an email today from my daughter's talented & gifted teacher. She was responding to our offer to donate the video camera we thought we needed but never use to the class. We'd seen that the teacher was trying to raise money to buy a video camera so the class could enter video contests and record their experiments. After a short discussion, my husband and I agreed that we were too lazy to make decent videos and the kids should have it -- especially because the school would likely not be able to buy them one on its own.

My stomach dropped when I read the second half of the thank-you email:

I write grants to give kids these opportunities. I encourage you to vote in the upcoming elections for the school levy. Without passing, the gifted teaching team will likely be cut again by two teachers. That will total four teachers in three years cut from our department. We would all be traveling teachers with caseloads well over 40 students.

Private SchoolI worry the voters won't pass the levy, because they recently passed a school bond. People don't realize that school bonds are spent for physical construction -- buildings, not books, not teachers. And yes, selfishly I worry the special program she's getting in a public school -- the kind most people seek in private schools -- will be irreparably damaged. I believe public schools should fund programs to help kids at all levels -- those struggling to keep up and those who need a bigger challenge to stay engaged.

Ever since my first-grader hit kindergarten last year, I've had education on my mind. And as we've been in a recession mindset the entire time my girl has been in school, it's been dire news from day one. Budget cuts. Teachers slashed. I swear the public vs. private debate has been the topic of at least 25 conversations with different people in the past two years, and I just keep clinging to the fact my child is thriving in public school.

I worried about public school. Before my daughter was born, I taught four semesters of composition at Kansas City Kansas Community College, and I thought about teaching high school. I took exactly one semester of classes toward an undergraduate teaching certificate. (It was kind of strange to me that I was qualified to teach college but not high school with my master's degree.) It only took one semester to completely break my spirit and enrage me with the environment of despair among teachers in the wake of No Child Left Behind. The classes were filled with discussions of curriculum lockdown, teaching to the test and not having time to even explain anything before having to move on.

Fast-forward to now. I often wonder how my daughter's talented and gifted teacher can be so upbeat every time I talk to her. She persists in optimism, despite the frustration in her email. I can't help but consider it might be because she gets to spend her time with the kids who have been selected primarily for loving school -- don't you love what you're good at?

And as for parents -- isn't it easier to motivate parents like my husband and me, who not only had the benefit -- the privilege -- of higher education, but also the opportunity to see how hard it is to teach? I imagine it might be harder to motivate parents who never saw their education work for them. Detroit schools have had to bribe parents to get involved in the past year:

Under the program, parents are encouraged to register at one of the city's Parent Resource Centers, where they can attend workshops and find other ways to get involved in schools. They earn points for their involvement, which can be used for reduced prices at 15 businesses.

Then there's money. I've thought for years it's unfair that school funding is tied to property tax, indelibly dooming schools in inner cities. And that's just the public schools. Maureen Downey writes:

I go back to one of my first sticker shock experiences with private school costs. Fifteen years ago, I was visiting a friend and noticed that she had a note on her fridge from the class parent of her daughter’s private kindergarten class. The note asked each parent to send in $100 to buy supplies for the class holiday parties that year.

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6 pts

I, personally, don't think the State has any "right" to educate. I think that they work for parents who choose to "allow" them to educate their children and pay them to do so via taxation. Anything else is, to me, very much setting the scene for children to be nothing more than economic tools of the State and that's a slippery slope.

Also, I don't advocate everyone homeschooling, by the way. I think if you're called to do it, then you'll do it and do it well. If not, then public/private education is the best option. I also think that every family has to make their own decision regarding educating their children. What's scary about Reich is that he believes that the State should have equal, if not more, say in children's lives. He sees no correlation between tyranny and that stance.

Rita Arens 63 pts

I never thought of the rights of the state to educate children in that particular way before.

I have no overarching position on homeschooling in general -- I just know it's not for me -- but I do find it odd he takes issue with the reasons behind homeschooling as long as the kids are performing well.

Rita Arens authors Surrender Dorothy ( http://bit.ly/Qp0sS ) and is the editor of Sleep is for the Weak ( http://tinyurl.com/9pg62e ). She is BlogHer's assignment and syndication editor.

Rita Arens 63 pts

When the PTA has to buy paper clips for the school, I have to question whether the school has adequate funding. True, the budgets of the states are covering a lot of school costs, but school is fairly expensive. It's somewhere that millions of children spend eight hours a day at, eat sometimes two meals a day at, need to be bussed to, and requires supplies and textbooks that must be updated and replaced frequently. School is expensive.

I do agree that pensions are pretty fat for teachers, but perhaps we need to give them that money in their paychecks. I know the salaries for teachers are not competitive with business positions requiring a master's degree, which many teachers have by the time they are ten years in. Given the choice of teaching school or writing the textbooks? You can make twice the money on the business side, hands-down, and not have to deal with the budget cuts and uncertainty and bureaucracy of being a teacher.

We talk a lot about holding teachers to higher standards, but I'm not sure what we are doing to attract people to the field of teaching other than giving them summers off. Teachers, correct me if I'm wrong.

Rita Arens authors Surrender Dorothy ( http://bit.ly/Qp0sS ) and is the editor of Sleep is for the Weak ( http://tinyurl.com/9pg62e ). She is BlogHer's assignment and syndication editor.

6 pts

Had a very intersting week emailing back and forth with Professor Rob Reich of Stanford University. He has some very intersting feelings about what parents rights are vs the State in regards to children. You can read about our conversations here:

http://homeschoolinglifeasweknowit.blogspot.com/20... ( http://homeschoolinglifeasweknowit.blogspot.com/20... )

Some of his views are just scary, especially considering his position.

KM8392 5 pts

I agree there are a lot of problems with our education system, but I do not think funding is one of them. Public education is 2/3 of the state budgets and article after article shows that the money doesn't go to schools but pensions & unions.

If we want to see improvement the change needs to start with how we pay teachers.

This article helped me learn more about the situation and options: http://www.intellectualtakeout.org/library/unions/...

Marina DelVecchio 5 pts

Most of my students get financial aid -- and yes, I've had some students get free laptops. It's a new thing. Actually, the school that I was getting my Doctorate in (in NY) gave freshmen free laptops. I think I should get a free laptop or a raise or health benefits...or all of that!

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Rita Arens 63 pts

I'm not going to go pull my daughter out of public school because of it, but I agree with many of his points. I wish I would've realized at an earlier age that my knowledge was infinitely different than my grade-point average.

I keep going back -- under current conditions -- to the need for my husband and me to take a great deal of responsibility in our daughter's "real" education. I can't homeschool her entire education due to my job, but I can impart what I've learned -- school is a game, and knowledge is different. Winning the game certainly won't hurt you, but realize it's a game.

Rita Arens authors Surrender Dorothy ( http://bit.ly/Qp0sS ) and is the editor of Sleep is for the Weak ( http://tinyurl.com/9pg62e ). She is BlogHer's assignment and syndication editor.

6 pts

The problem isn't the schools or the teachers. (well, most of the teachers) The problem is this:

http://www.school-survival.net/articles/school/his... ( http://www.school-survival.net/articles/school/his... )

Please read the entire article and note that the author, John Taylor Gatto is a 30 year public school teacher who won teacher of the year award for New York City from 1989-1991. He then won New York's state Teacher of the Year. I would say he knows what he's talking about.

Institutionalized learning will never get back on it's feet until the government gets out of it. Period. I'm absolutely thrilled to see these comments from public/private schoolers. If we, as an entire group, demand that this stop and then take action, it will stop. Until people are willing to take action, this will continue until all parental choices regarding their children's education will disappear. Then the politicians tell you what to learn, when to learn it and how much you can learn. They already control the curriculum. As more of our youth grow up in this learning environment, they won't even know what real education and learning is. Remember this line...from the cradle to college? Really think about it now...

Just_Margaret 8 pts

Hardcore is right. If we weren't so deeply underwater w/our mortgage (like, Mariana Trench deep), we would be so out of here...

~Margaret

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Rita Arens 63 pts

It's an excellent point you make about kids with abandonment issues losing their teachers.

Even kids with a stable family life prefer consistency in their teachers. It's stressful for ME to think about her losing teachers -- I haven't told her about it, because what good could that possibly do? I am just praying it won't happen.

Rita Arens authors Surrender Dorothy ( http://bit.ly/Qp0sS ) and is the editor of Sleep is for the Weak ( http://tinyurl.com/9pg62e ). She is BlogHer's assignment and syndication editor.

I Thought I Knew Mama 5 pts

Great post. I am a stay at home mama with my 7 month old son because I was a special education teacher who was laid off when I was 8.5 months pregnant. 85% of the staff at the urban middle school I worked at was also laid off because we were deemed a "turnaround school." It was tragic because many of the children in that school already had abandonment issues, and it was very hard for them to lose many of the most important people in their lives.

Schools have budgets and staff cut more and more thanks to a numbers game. So many people fail to look at anything other than test scores and dollar signs.

I am so thankful that fate intervened and allowed me the opportunity to be a stay at home mama, but I worry about my former students and all the children who don't get the opportunities they deserve because of NCLB. My heart also goes out to all the teachers who keep doing what their doing because they know it's right, regardless of knowing they are about to lose their jobs or the resources they rely on most.

Thanks for raising some important issues in your post!

I Thought I Knew Mama

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Rita Arens 63 pts

Wow -- that's hardcore that she has to do K-12. Wow, wow, wow.

That really stinks, Margaret.

Rita Arens authors Surrender Dorothy ( http://bit.ly/Qp0sS ) and is the editor of Sleep is for the Weak ( http://tinyurl.com/9pg62e ). She is BlogHer's assignment and syndication editor.

Just_Margaret 8 pts

The public school thing is probably my number one concern when it comes to my kids, right now. And like this post, Rita, I go through these thought processes that keep bringing me back to similar conclusions. It's up to me and my husband to ensure that our kids are equipped when it's time to "launch".

My kids' school district is served by a one-woman G&T show--four schools, k-12, and about 140 kids in her program--just her, and one paltry budget. She's amazing, (and also remarkably upbeat all the time!) but it's not enough for either one of my kids, and I know that it's not just my kids who are underserved. The voters here in Podunk aren't supporting the school budget--and haven't for years (even before the housing market dove) we're operating on a default budget. As a group, they don't want to properly fund the basics, never mind the G&T program. My kids, particularly my son, are affected by this.

Like you said, I can vote. And I can participate in the schools. But really, the one high-impact thing my husband and I can do to help them when the local school can't, is to keep teaching our kids how to learn.

~Margaret

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Rita Arens 63 pts

When I was teaching composition, I routinely would put one line of every essay into Google. The kids were lifting the stuff straight off the Internet, and certain turns of phrase were a clear giveaway. Ugh. Would love to see that post when you write it, Karen.

Rita Arens authors Surrender Dorothy ( http://bit.ly/Qp0sS ) and is the editor of Sleep is for the Weak ( http://tinyurl.com/9pg62e ). She is BlogHer's assignment and syndication editor.

kbojar 7 pts

The problems you describe in k-12 education have had serious consequences for higher ed.
I recently retired as a Professor of English and Women’s Studies Teacher at a Community College. I loved the job when I started, but as the years wore on, it got harder and harder. So many of my students were victims of an educational system that had failed them miserably. There was no way I could make up for years of miseducation.

I know all old teachers are constantly complaining about the younger generation of students—but there really is something different. A group of teachers some still working, some retired, were venting at my New Year’s party about the plagiarism epidemic---another thing that drove me out of teaching. I didn’t go into teaching to be a cop. I think I’ll do a separate blog post about that.

Karen Bojar blogs about retirement life, feminist activism,  grassroots politics and gardening at http://www.the-next-stage.com/

Rita Arens 63 pts

I'm not trying to scare you, though, either. ;)

I'm a control freak. I like to think if I get my girl into a good public school, it should STAY a good public school, dammit. So I immediately start thinking about all the things that could go wrong.

I'm just trying to embrace what I *can* do. I can vote, but it may not be enough. If that happens, what's my next step? Instead of hand-wringing, I need to do something to make sure my daughter is equipped to launch when she finishes high school.

Would I prefer to be able to sit back and rely on educators for that? Sure! I've got another full-time job! I didn't sign up to homeschool!

But it's the reality -- I'm not sure things are going to change in American education fast enough for my girl. She's got a great shot with this gifted program, but it's being threatened four months after she got in. My anxiety can't handle going through that every year. I have to believe I can make up the difference if it happens instead of worrying about it happening. I have no control over that.

Rita Arens authors Surrender Dorothy ( http://bit.ly/Qp0sS ) and is the editor of Sleep is for the Weak ( http://tinyurl.com/9pg62e ). She is BlogHer's assignment and syndication editor.

Rita Arens 63 pts

The AP article was saying the textbooks are too thick and they were basically having to cover entire organs in one day to get through all the material that would be on the test.

I suppose you could see that as slacking, but I really think we have to be realistic about what is most useful to a kid later in life.

Rita Arens authors Surrender Dorothy ( http://bit.ly/Qp0sS ) and is the editor of Sleep is for the Weak ( http://tinyurl.com/9pg62e ). She is BlogHer's assignment and syndication editor.

Rita Arens 63 pts

Our go-to college writer, Mia Mercado, posted about her school offering online classes to on-campus students ( http://www.blogher.com/colleges-offer-lectures-onl... ). Which, I think, happens because they are totally overbooked.

Which goes back to my focus on teaching my daughter how to learn. She's going to need all the help she can get.

Rita Arens authors Surrender Dorothy ( http://bit.ly/Qp0sS ) and is the editor of Sleep is for the Weak ( http://tinyurl.com/9pg62e ). She is BlogHer's assignment and syndication editor.

JennaHatfield 86 pts

I am not 100% sure which direction this post made me go. Do I feel comforted by your ending thoughts, that it will be okay either way? Or do I feel absolutely panicked about this whole schooling thing, set to start in earnest for us this fall? Preschool has been wonderful. Kindergarten is FREAKING ME OUT.

The last time I wrote about my emotional turmoil regarding all things education, I got a lot of great comments from people that calmed me down. Mostly. I recognize that we do a LOT with the boys at home. I realize that our participation in their education is key to success. But I'm still scared out of my mind.

Contributing Editor Jenna Hatfield (@FireMom ( http://twitter.com/FireMom )) blogs at Stop, Drop and Blog ( http://stopdropandblog.com ) and The Chronicles of Munchkin Land ( http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com ). She is a freelance writer and newspaper photographer.

BShallue 8 pts

Reading your essay was like a flashback to a bad dream. My oldest son is 25, yet everything you described I experienced when he first started school. I became a stay-at-home mom so I could volunteer at the school, devote myself full time to supplementing his (and his two siblings') educations plus do what I could to improve the system. We had no extra money to save for their college - you're wise to do so, because now our retirement plans are fizzling as we struggle to pay half - just half- of their college expenses at public colleges. And they all started school with 20+ hours, thanks to AP and dual credit courses. Sadly, they're still facing some of the same problems at college - budget cuts that result in inefficient, overworked, stressed out advisors and professors who threaten to drop a grade if the students make use of his/her office hours for a reason he/she deems unworthy. I hope for your sake changes are made. Good luck!

Barbara Shallue writes about her life at http://barbarashallue.typepad.com, shares photos and information about photography at http://barbarashalluephotography.blogspot.com and is contributing editor of http://jobs4autism.com.

Amigram 5 pts

One of the problems with our schools, especially when comparing them with schools in other countries who continually outperform ours, is that we teach 35-50 concepts per grade vs other countries who teach 5-7.

This is overwhelming for the kids and the teachers. Here's more info: Even Students in Russia and Slovenia Do Better Than Ours in Math and Science ( http://blog.amigram.com/parenting/even-students-in... )

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Rita Arens 63 pts

When I taught at the community college, I did it at night on top of my full-time day job. I did it because I wanted to see what it was like and because I honestly adore teaching writing. I had to give it up because it was too much with a baby and a full-time job. I figured out with the hours I was putting in to grade ten essays per student plus the class prep and time, I was making $2/hour.

Rita Arens authors Surrender Dorothy ( http://bit.ly/Qp0sS ) and is the editor of Sleep is for the Weak ( http://tinyurl.com/9pg62e ). She is BlogHer's assignment and syndication editor.

Rita Arens 63 pts

I think you should write those posts, Laurie -- you have a unique perspective from your job.

That English degree thing was sarcasm -- my master's is in English/writing. :)

Rita Arens authors Surrender Dorothy ( http://bit.ly/Qp0sS ) and is the editor of Sleep is for the Weak ( http://tinyurl.com/9pg62e ). She is BlogHer's assignment and syndication editor.

Rita Arens 63 pts

I've set my mind to the fact I will have to enhance and supplement what she is getting at school with as much art, music, reading, etc. as we can on the weekends. I just don't see the money for stuff like that in school anymore.

Rita Arens authors Surrender Dorothy ( http://bit.ly/Qp0sS ) and is the editor of Sleep is for the Weak ( http://tinyurl.com/9pg62e ). She is BlogHer's assignment and syndication editor.

lauriewrites 15 pts

And also they receive free computers? I need to move to this state. Or at least coach my students to move there. :)

Laurie
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lauriewrites 15 pts

I'm a counselor at a Maryland community college, so I'm interested to know where your students attend school free of charge?

Laurie
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Marina DelVecchio 5 pts

So much of what you say hits home, Rita. I used to work at a gang infested school where only half of my 32 students would actually attend classes. I was in charge of the book room and assigning books to teachers to teach each semester, and they were moldy, ripped up, and in such terrible state. And let's not talk about the work load and the hours spent after work to prepare for the next day and grading compared to the pay. I teach composition courses now at a community college and it's frustrating that even with thirty credits towards a doctorate, I couldn't even survive on my salary -- meanwhile my students get free education, computers, etc. But I love my job -- in spite of all the drawbacks of teaching.

Regards,

Marina DelVecchio

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lauriewrites 15 pts

YOU KNOW that I can write a post or six in response except I won't.

Only one thing: if she wants an English degree, she will get it, and she will be the best damn whatever-you-are-with-an-English-degree that you (or maybe I) know. I can tell you this for a fact.

I love that you attack this topic as a parent and a citizen and a writer. It's an act of bravery, really, because the topic? As big as our country.

xo.

Laurie
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Fiddledeedee 5 pts

Oh Rita, I hear you. I have 4 people in my immediate family that are teachers (one private, 3 public). I'm amazed at what they endure because of budget cuts, etc. My step-sister often has to buy school supplies out of her own money. And as you know, they don't make nearly what they are worth.

After looking into private schools, we opted to homeschool 6 years ago. Not an easy choice, but it has worked for our family. (Read: no one is in therapy...yet.) I worry about the state of education as my children near college.

We are our children's best advocates and we absolutely should be involved in their education, whether it be homeschool, private, or public school. And God bless all the men and women in our school systems that have a passion for teaching.

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