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End of Chemo Treatment, Relief or Anxiety?

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 last-chemo.jpgThere is no question that completing a course of chemotherapy treatment is a milestone in the life of a patient.  Tomorrow, my 89-yr-old mother will receive her sixth and final dose of chemotherapy for lymphoma.  She was initially hesitant about chemo and the effects it would have on her but eventually agreed to go through treatment.  As she approaches her final dose, I honestly wonder whether it’s time for celebration or anxiety.

Chemotherapy gives the patient the ability to confront cancer cells head on.  The possible side effects are a reminder that the toxins are doing their job and crushing the cancer cells.  The chemotherapy has been a ‘body guard’ of sorts for my Mom, attacking her tumor with a prescribed course of action.  After tomorrow, my Mom will part ways with this powerful partner and protector and be on her own.   Without the toxic soldiers on her side, I imagine she might feel vulnerable, anxious, and alone.  My role as her caregiver and advocate will change again as I encourage and support her as she gets back to living life as a cancer-free woman.

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My Mom’s chemo ride was rough at times, but she kept her eye on the finish line.  Now it’s time to enjoy life and savor moments with family and loved ones.  Congratulations Mom, let’s choose celebration.

Susan M. Beausang

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beaubeau 5 pts

My Mom is scheduled to have a PET scan in 3 weeks post the end of her chemo and the anticipation is very difficult. She is certainly happy to be finished with treatment but now is a watch and wait. It can be a time of great anxiety. I wish you luck with your tests.

carrieactually 5 pts

I finished chemo for Hodgkin's Lymphoma in May 2010. It was a relief for a few months but I'm back to the anxiety stage now. When I was doing the chemo I was sure I had cancer, right after I finished I was sure I didn't have cancer, now I'm poking and prodding myself a couple times a day in the anxious "I'm not sure if it's coming back or not" sort of way. I have a CT scan and follow up with my doctor in about 3 weeks but even that seems too far away, it's a fight with myself not to try to get them to reschedule my appointment for sooner.

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