An Open Letter To My Blog Snitch

Dear Person Who Reads My Blog for the Sole Purpose of Starting Drama, ...more
Well said. I, too have a BLOG Stalker. I just wish they would REpost so that my views hit higher ...more

It's complicated: Why I prefer to forget Thanksgiving

Am I really being screamed at, literally screamed at, in front of the entire family?This thought ran through my head as my then-fiance (now husband) and I grabbed the folding chairs we had just brought in and hurried through my father’s garage to the car whose engine hadn’t had a chance to cool off yet.Screaming down the freeway, it was 20 minutes before I was able to speak without blubbering incoherently....more

Unwanted

I don’t know what to say to you. Sometimes I think if I say anything, you’ll walk out, on me, on us, on this shitty piece of life we carved out for ourselves.I sit here on this stoop and listen to the cicadas scream in the trees, and I pull on a cigarette. I feel the little sharp edges of concrete push like ice chips into my skin where my cut-offs end. I look at a sky as washed out and hot a blue as I’m feeling right now, and taste the smoke crawl across my tongue and feel the thick air slide across my skin. ...more

Social Media Drama....Not me, nope, never!

Social Media Drama....Not me, nope, never! You are guilty, Admit it...as am I. ...more

My Tween, Myself

This weekend was Lilo’s 9th birthday. Oddly enough, it was her first birthday just a few weeks ago so I am not sure how this has happened. Perhaps it is some sort of Star Trek holodeck switcheroo determined to convince me my baby is in her final year of single digits?The first thing Lilo said to me upon opening her eyes Saturday was, “Good morning, Mommy. I’m a tween.”...more
Fibrobabe Thank you on Lilo's behalf :)more

Your Mood Should Not Dictate Your Manners

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Hah. You're right, it shouldn't -- but sometimes it does. I should work on that. We should all ...more

April 22nd 1993 – Drink’s at the Arizona

I’ll start with yesterday. My adventures started on the way to Karate. As I walked into the hallway I spotted a cute blond guy walking by on the street. I turned around and caught his eye and sure enough he followed me all the way to the door of the Dojo! it was very flattering – he was kinda cute but he cruised. Ok now onto today. I had a great and easy day at school. I hardly had any real lessons! It’s amazing how much school I miss – it never seems to matter to terribly much. Karate tonight was pretty good....more

Where's the drama, oh yeah ... Here!

 So it seems that there is always some new drama, secret or scandal ready for my waiting ears each time I visit one of any of my friends. When everyone seems to tell you everything (with the begining always "you can't repeat this to anyone" or some such simmilar don't tell remark) and when you have several different groups of friends that in one way or another seem to eventually overlap you can bet that at least 90% of this OMFG news is going to be about someone you know, whether the person telling you knows that or not is another story. So far I have been such a good g...more