Every Summer Has A Story

Every Summer Has A Story

 

Its that time of year again when I am reminded that, “"In every girl's life, there's a boy she'll never forget & a summer when it all began.” Love may start in Spring, but it evolves in Summer.

For me, I can remember way back when to the first summer love I had, in fifth grade. His name was Michael. He was the new boy in class and at first I did not like him at all. (Love/Hate relationships are always intense) He would drive me absolutely crazy by constantly shaking his pen when it ran out of ink. (Like shaking your pen is going to help!) So I came up with an idea to write him a note and tell him just how annoying he truly was. The only problem was that his older cousin was in eighth grade and when she found out that I wrote him a note and told him that if he didn't stop it, I was going to then throw my pen at him, she kindly told me to cut it out.

 

And that is when the romance began.

 

We got to know each other so much so that he even sang to me at lunch one of those inappropriate George Michael songs. Once June came around and school was out, that is when our romance really took off. He would call me and we would hang out, but sadly like every fling, things ended the following year. Okay, so that is not necessarily a summer romance, and yeah, I was eleven, but its got to start somewhere for everyone.

 

Years later, when I was a junior going to be a senior in high school, that is when another “Mike” came into the picture. ( I don't know why I have a thing for boys named Mike, but...) He was one year older than me and would visit his best friend who lived near me. That is when I came up with a dance group with all the girls that lived in my neighborhood and they danced my choreography that I created to all the hot songs of the 90's. He would sit in his car and watch. When I would walk by his car he would stare and smile at me, and I literally felt like I was going to melt!

 

This particular story brings up even more memories that I won't get into now, but trust me, some of those memories I am fond of while others are heartbreaking.

 

And today, my potential friendship that bloomed this spring now has the chance to blossom this summer, which only makes me smile as I write this!

 

So what is the deal with summer, romance, flings, and love?

 

The summer time is when love seems to rear its head and capture our imagination. During the summer, we feel free, we feel the promise of being able to forget what has happened so far and the promise of starting over. Its a time when also, people want to show off all the winter weight they have lost, so people are actually more attractive in the summer then any other season.

 

The other reason why the summer time brings out the beast called love is because we get to meet people we never have seen before. Do you all remember the movie, “How Stella Got Her Groove Back,” and ho she met her fling, turned romance while on vacation? (Yes, its just a movie, but it does really happen!) We are more open to being impulsive, the sunshine is also brighter, we are happier, and the chance of turning a hot day into a steamy night is greater.

 

Ever hear the saying, “Live it up?” During the summer, that is mostly everyone's motto.

 

So how can you have a summer fling turned romance?

 

A- Get a Summer Job – Work at a camp, beach, pool, etc. You will get to see these people everyday so it will be easier to get to know them and have them get to know you.

 

B- Become a visitor of a beach or pool – You don't necessarily need to be a worker instead you can be a visitor and get to go on the prowl in your bikini or suit. Strut your stuff!

 

C- Volunteer - Find a place that fits your personality and you'll surround yourself with similar people. What a better way to not only help others but also surround yourself with like-minded people.

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